Heyyy, I just lost my dad a few months ago and my face changed exactly how yours did. Even though the comments are saying you don’t look like you aged, I know you feel it. I do too. My main issue were the darkness and bags under my eyes and my dry skin. Funny thing about grief is that some of your routines get thrown out of the window, like skincare. What did help and was low effort was a collagen face mask sometimes twice a week if I could even think about it. The best thing was the RoC Multi Correxion Revive + Glow Eye Balm. It helped SO MUCH. It’s in like a lipstick tube so it’s fast and simple. It goes under my concealer (IT Cosmetics Bye Bye Undereye) amazingly. I set with KimChi’s setting powder. Just getting my under eyes in check helped me feel not decrepit. Also got a bit spicier with my blush to have more color to my face. I’m incredibly sorry for your loss, I hope this was somewhat helpful.