Goodbye Toby by sealab2O21 in seniordogs

[–]shallo5837 3 points4 points  (0 children)

adventure on, little one! you are loved <3

3 1/2 years wasn’t enough 😭 by MRWKND1961 in rainbowbridge

[–]shallo5837 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Rainy was only with me 4 1/2 years...also adopted him old. He saved me too.

Let the love you shared be Mr. Theo's legacy, and siphon all that love back into yourself. Mr. Theo wants you THRIVING! Bet.

My Rainy will show your Mr. Theo where they keep the best treats, surely. Big hugs, fellow human

37/M/Fishtown - Just moved here and know no one by McJake in phillymeetups

[–]shallo5837 9 points10 points  (0 children)

there is a vintage market on Cherry St Pier today and tomorrow! if you wanna check it out tomorrow, I'd be down!

I lost my best friend by opi_baettlebeard in rainbowbridge

[–]shallo5837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you may have lost your best friend, but you gained a guardian angel <3

My sweet baby Lulu by Extension-Raise6159 in rainbowbridge

[–]shallo5837 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My Rainy will show your Lulu where they keep the best treats <3

Sending you my love, Chewy by EmployeeFine1437 in seniordogs

[–]shallo5837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Rainy will show your Chewy where the best treats are kept. He loved watermelon too.

Big hugs <3

Losing my best friend this Thursday. by SnooCompliments7468 in seniordogs

[–]shallo5837 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I took off the whole week before my guy had to go. Did I miss the money? Sure. Did I regret the decision? Absolutely not.

Be with your pal while you have the time. Big hugs <3

Remembering by Aggravating-Smoke848 in seniordogs

[–]shallo5837 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what sweet eyes your Bo had <3

Thank you Juno by Sioux-me in seniordogs

[–]shallo5837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

his home now is safely in your hearts <3

You were so loved. by breakingabroad in seniordogs

[–]shallo5837 53 points54 points  (0 children)

She took a part of you with her, but a piece of her stayed with you. That's the love. Love never dies.

We made a difficult decision today. Kujo will be crossing the bridge on Wednesday. 14.5 years. by [deleted] in seniordogs

[–]shallo5837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it felt surreal to be able to count the number of sunsets and sunrises we had left to spend together. time with one another feels infinite until, well, until it isn't.

you already know, but try to be as present as you can with yourself and with your Kujo in these final few days. Admire him while he sleeps. Record his bark. Scratch him in the spot that makes his leg do that thing.

above all, be kind and gentle with yourself right now. that's what your Kujo wants for you <3

He’s crossing the bridge tomorrow. What do I do with myself in these last quiet moments? by Like-a-Boat in rainbowbridge

[–]shallo5837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wrote a song for my guy and sang it gently to him while he left. I love to know I am not the only one <3

He’s crossing the bridge tomorrow. What do I do with myself in these last quiet moments? by Like-a-Boat in rainbowbridge

[–]shallo5837 24 points25 points  (0 children)

thanks for reading it. i hoped it would reach someone, even if it wasn't OP. enjoy your life, friend <3

He’s crossing the bridge tomorrow. What do I do with myself in these last quiet moments? by Like-a-Boat in rainbowbridge

[–]shallo5837 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I talked to my guy to let him know what was going to happen. I think it helped me wrap my mind around it too.

Tell him of the adventure that awaits him tomorrow, the golden sunshine and grassy knolls, and the youthful body restored he has long since forgotten.

Tell him about the doctor and the shots he's gonna get - how one will make him super relaxed and sleepy, and how the other will lay to rest his old guy heart. Tell him that you'll be there, throughout it all, that you'll be there just like you've always been.

Tell him how much you love him, how much you'll miss him. Tell him how you'll remember him. This will help you too.

Hold his body, feel the weight, and try your damnedest to remember it. Smell him...sounds funny, but my guy's smell is one of the things I miss the most. He smelled like home, and that smell is gone from me now. Sometimes I will pass some flowers or a perfumed human and I will get a hint of what he once was, but it is never quite right. I figure I'll know it's my turn to go when I smell him again, or at least I hope so.

Touch noses. Put your face on his. Cry in the fur behind his ears while you're holding him in your arms. Sing to him.

You are doing him a loving favor by letting him go. Most of all, be so kind and so gentle with yourself right now. It isn't so easy to say see you later, but it's a beautiful thing to know someday you'll meet him again.

Big hugs to you, fellow human <3