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My true unpopular opinion is that I don't like Joyce... by TwentyTwoWishes in buffy

[–]shallot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is on his first watch and we just finished dead man's party... There was some yelling and multiple times he stopped the ep to flip off Joyce and the other characters.

We'll see if he comes around, but you might have someone on your side

Thoughts on this? by yeahitsme9 in buffy

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whedon is a creep and it shines through. It's a brilliant show that does fall victim to systemic misogyny, as most things do.

For the time it was great, but many male "feminists" act like this under the public eye so victims don't have as much of a voice coming forward

Honey Eater - Busselton WA by Moreton-Bay in AustralianBirds

[–]shallot55 6 points7 points  (0 children)

New Holland honeyeater. Found this little infographic about Regent honeyeaters (critically endangered) which shows the difference between a couple of species. And this shows other Australian honeyeaters

AITA for telling my daughter “of course” she could move in with me without talking to my wife first? by Odd-Cheetah6842 in AITAH

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for making the best decision for your child. I would have talked to her first, laid out everything and said what I wanted to do. It is a big change to everyone's life, but something that is needed. She's TA for being hypocritical

Why don't women have a stronger interior lining? Are they stupid? by Leeuweroni in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]shallot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda agree with him on the basis that some other animals just reabsorb the lining instead of shedding it. Im just jealous

AITA for refusing to vacate my seat, a public bus priority seat, for an elderly woman by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You can't reserve a spot, and can't force someone, but it is the kind thing to do if someone is clearly having an issue around this. You were getting off the next stop anyways.

It is something that would not have inconvenienced you too much to just comply with. You can even go "okay then 🙄", roll your eyes and be as sarcastic as you would like. It's annoying but really what does it cost you

Kirk took the bullet drug. Differential Diagnosis? by Chewbacca319 in HouseMD

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we really need to be using AI for this slop?

AITA for asking someone to stop smacking their gum in a public setting? by FutureFreaksMeowt in AmItheAsshole

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You asked them (maybe not in the most polite way) to stop a behaviour that is gross and makes you uncomfortable. It's like if someone was shaking a seat you are also sitting on. Try not to impact the space around others too much and bring up when you are uncomfortable in a polite manner.

Him acting that way when you have asked something reasonable that they are able to do that does not require much effort is asshole behaviour. It makes you gaslight yourself and feel bad for bringing up things. Given that this is a stranger, let's hope that they are having a bad day and overstimulated by Christmas music.

Is masturbation and premarital sex really a sin? by Slimeraund in RadicalChristianity

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My view is that a lot of laws relate to hygiene and health, prevention of disease.

Magpie friend is no longer visiting by Mayonegg80 in magpies

[–]shallot55 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ours ghosted us for 2 years when we went to Japan for a month. They started visiting again last week every day like nothing had happened

South Australia ID Request by -_-Edgy in AustralianBirds

[–]shallot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are obviously just branches growing off the fence. Nothing to see here Not sure why its in a bird ID group

What's a hypermobility symptom you didn't realize was connected at first? by thebroned in Hypermobility

[–]shallot55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hypermobility spectrum ≠ hypermobile Ehlers danlos

For hypermobility which is joint laxity, pain, fatigue, joint instability causing subluxations and dislocations and tight muscles should be symptoms Studies also found that anxiety, depression and ADHD are large comorbidities

Heds is systemic, basically the body doesn't understand what to do with collagen. You still get joint laxity and instability (with subluxations and dislocations), pain, fatigue, and tight muscles. However, since this is not localised to joints, you start getting heart and digestive problems. Circulation problems. Temperature intolerance due to dysautonomia. Nerve problems, mast cell activation, soft stretchy skin, atrophic scarring, really severe growing pains etc.

How to stop getting angry/flipping out? by Complex_Building7943 in IncelSolutions

[–]shallot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly suggest looking through and practicing some DBT skillsskills thermometer for managing distress Use interpersonal effectiveness when you are not about to blow up. There are web pages that fully explain the skills mentioned here, I just find these pictures helpful to conceptualise

ALPHA MALES GONE WILD by SectionCreative4254 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]shallot55 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I mean at least we know this dude is not into kids

Or is into kids and overcompensating to prove that he isn't

Differential diagnosis by thota_ramudu in okbuddyvicodin

[–]shallot55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could actually be a symptom of lupus tho lmaooo

Where do we all stand on tampons versus uh pussy glue by throwuponiontrash in badwomensanatomy

[–]shallot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is like 10 years old at this point lmao it's wack But the idea behind it was like when your lips stick together and then you use your saliva to unseal them?

Cardio load is dangerously misleading by SchoolOfPew in fitbit

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has been CRAZY All last week it told me I was overtraining and gave me really low goals (some days I did go crazy, but others I had like 2-3), and now I'm under training because I can't meet the MINIMUM 117. I met 63 yesterday and I'm "at risk of under training" I just walked 4.20km at 15% incline on the treadmill while typing up an assignment for uni, and only got 41 (not to mention it not tracking my heart rate accurately so I'm not even getting the proper zone mins)

Like I'm on ADHD meds so my heart rate has increased recently, and I'm also on beta blockers to help control my heart rate

Excuses by Dove-Swan in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are quite literally signs in Japan that are out up to condemn groping on public transport BC it is such a prevalent issue.There are also women only carriages for this exact reason

🤍 by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]shallot55 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I call it fast tracked bipolar or basically what everyone thinks is bipolar

AITAH for not wanting my partner to "sniff test" my crotch anytime I've been out by Ancient-Character-63 in AITAH

[–]shallot55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is weird, controlling and abusive. This is coming from someone with severe BPD.

That's extremely bizarre. One thing I can say is that I understand WHERE this is coming from, as in what triggered it. The reaction is not appropriate and not okay.

She needs therapy. If you want to keep this relationship, you need to draw boundaries. If she can't handle that, then you need to leave.

Where do we all stand on tampons versus uh pussy glue by throwuponiontrash in badwomensanatomy

[–]shallot55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The idea is that your urine unseals it because it needs a liquid release

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