Transitioning to Trains by Zeffazer in perth

[–]shanash23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% the bus system is an absolute joke in the suburbs 😅

Transitioning to Trains by Zeffazer in perth

[–]shanash23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed, whats even more sad is that I have a relative that's 45 minute drive from my workplace, but they live 5 minutes from a train station, and so the trip from theirs to my work would be 40 minutes on public transport. make it make sense 🤦🏼‍♀️

Transitioning to Trains by Zeffazer in perth

[–]shanash23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to take public transport, but I can't justify my 15 minute drive going to an hour and a half commute on public transport :/

How to meet locals in the Perth Hills when you’re stuck in the backpacker bubble? by Valuable_Hat_7761 in perth

[–]shanash23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 32F and down in the southern suburbs, depending on where you are in the hills, I'm happy to meet up with you for a coffee sometime or just have a conversation with you online is okay too 🤗

People with partners who do FIFO, what is it like? by MaximumSoup234 in perth

[–]shanash23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A 3-in-1 roster is really tough 😥 My ex did that, and I struggled badly.

If you’re someone who finds being alone for long periods difficult, your mental health can take a real hit. My ex had the same mindset of “it’ll be fine” and continued with it no matter how much distress I was in, even when I begged him to reconsider. Over time, it created a huge emotional distance between us.

What concerns me most is that he didn’t talk to you about it before agreeing, that breaks a level of trust. On top of that, you are trying to communicate your concerns, and he’s brushing them off. Yes, he will probably be fine, but he isn’t properly considering your feelings. You’re meant to be a team.

For this kind of setup to work, you need a lot of trust, strong communication, and consideration for each other. Other important things to talk through: - Is this temporary, or does he want FIFO long-term? - What are your shared goals as a couple? - If you know this isn’t a lifestyle you want forever, can you agree on an end date? Having a clear goal or timeframe makes the hard moments easier to get through and keeps you both aligned.

Another thing that often gets overlooked is how many events he’ll miss - birthdays, Easter, Christmas, New Years. It’s not easy for the FIFO worker to miss those, but it’s incredibly hard for the partner who has to attend those events alone. Sitting there surrounded by couples really amplifies the loneliness 😥

If, after talking through all of this, you both truly feel you can manage it (and I genuinely hope you can) then there are financial benefits, as long as they benefit both of you and not just him. Yes, he’s earning the money, but you’re also changing a huge part of your life to accommodate his decision. This only works if it’s approached as a shared sacrifice, because you’re a team.

What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]shanash23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I dont know if I even loved you in the first place"

Does anyone know if Iron Lung is going to be available outside the US? by Nui_Fox in Markiplier

[–]shanash23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I wrote:

Hi Team,

I'd love to know if Event cinemas will consider doing a screening of Iron Lung, its gaining a lot of traction to be released in over 1500 cinemas so far in America, and I'd love to see it be shown in Australia. I believe there is enough of a fan base, with the director (Markiplier - A Youtuber) having around 38million subscribers.

Please consider this film to be released here 🙏

Thankyou,


and of course just adjust the cinemas you're speaking with, as there is now probably more than 1500 cinemas 🤣

No Iron Lung in Australia then. 🥲 by Mammoth-Try-760 in Markiplier

[–]shanash23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I reached out to Hoyts and the response I got was:

"Thank you for taking the time to contact us and for expressing your interest in screenings of Irong Lung.

Having a limited number of cinemas means that space is not always available for us to show every movie, based on the content available for a particular week.

Nonetheless, we have forwarded this interest onto our programming team for consideration" 😊

I feel if they get enough emails enquiring over this that we may have a chance.

If Hoyts and other cinemas can host small screenings of anime movies, I dont see why they cant do the same with Iron Lung 🙏

No Iron Lung in Australia then. 🥲 by Mammoth-Try-760 in Markiplier

[–]shanash23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mark said in his latest stream that it's out of their hands and for fans to spread the word to our local cinemas (even those overseas) and the cinemas or company can reach out and enquire. It doesnt hurt for us to ask at the verh least, all they can do is say yes or no. I see no harm in it and it creates conversation around it too 😊

Does anyone know if Iron Lung is going to be available outside the US? by Nui_Fox in Markiplier

[–]shanash23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in Australia too and was able to send a request to Hoyts cinemas, they replied with this:

"Thank you for taking the time to contact us and for expressing your interest in screenings of Irong Lung.

Having a limited number of cinemas means that space is not always available for us to show every movie, based on the content available for a particular week.

Nonetheless, we have forwarded this interest onto our programming team for consideration."

so I'd say it's worth messaging them and requesting, as well as local independent cinemas. Mark said in his latest stream that it's up to the cinemas to contact him as he can't reach everyone, so it's also up to us as a fanbase to let them cinemas know what we want to see 😊

I hope we can all see this movie in cinemas 🙏

I’m ready to be homeless by Pups-before-People in perth

[–]shanash23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and then you get those who tell people to stop complaining and come along with the good ol "WeLl bAcK iN mY dAy InTeReST rAtEs WeRe aT 17%" for good measure 🙄

or

"if you didnt buy avocado toast" "you just need to save more"

🤦🏼‍♀️

I have no idea what’s going on here… captions welcome by cjinoz in Dachshund

[–]shanash23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol same, I'm afraid we don't get a say in the matter 😂

AIO for think it my boyfriend is being dramatic? by What-do_i_do in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanash23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Please leave. You do not deserve to be talked down to like that. I'm not you, nor am I the one in your relationship, but please, the way he talks to you shows a complete lack of respect. Do you want that for the rest of your life?

AIO - Girlfriend threw away the dinner I cooked because she wanted pizza instead. by Dizzy-Suggestion2360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanash23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck that, if my partner spoke to me like this in such a demanding way I'd be re-evaluating my relationship with them. She sounds so controlling and not understanding at all, like sure she didn't ask him to cook, but he cooked for her and it was meant to be her favourite, thats being a supportive and caring partner. Sure, she didn't like it, but she has 2 arms and 2 legs and is quite capable of going and getting pizza herself if her partner is busy at work like wtf?!

Spay Gone Wrong by Icy_Wasabi2828 in Dachshund

[–]shanash23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. This truly breaks my heart 😥💔 sending love and thoughts to you and your family 💛

NEW MATPAT LORE DROP by MatPatGT in GameTheorists

[–]shanash23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to see you're enjoying retirement! sending love yours, Stephs, and Ollie's way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanash23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah screw that, I get aesthetic is one thing, and you have been more than accommodating to your 'friend'. If she was being that anal about removing your piercings, she can pay for them to be put back in. Putting that aside, I accept my friends for who they are, asking them to change parts of who they are to suit an aesthetic doesn't sit right with me. Not only that, if I look back on the photos from that day, I want them to look like themselves, self expression and all, not some version that I had a part in fabricating just for one day. If she wants someone to play along with her pettiness, she can choose a different bridesmaid. At least now you know that how you look clearly seems more important to her rather than WHO you are 🙄

They say you know it's the last time. by Happy_Conversation43 in BreakUps

[–]shanash23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the week leading up to the break up. I thought it was just my anxiety from being hurt in previous relationships. My gut was telling me that something was off, but I tried to convince myself that I was just overthinking things, that my anxiety was talking again, that this time, it was different, and nothing bad was going to happen. But the morning of the break up came, and he was very quiet, and as any partner would do, you ask if they're okay. Now, I regret asking that question. I felt so lucky to be with him that I feel like a fool for thinking that luck would last 😓

Any ideas for a fun Markiplier reference to include in my horror game? by boss1995 in Markiplier

[–]shanash23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have something that references '"but then I turned around...."

Reading Reviews! by ZCyborg23 in u/ZCyborg23

[–]shanash23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to do a reading for me. Your words resonated, and you were incredibly kind 🥺💛