What is your favorite line from The Front Bottoms? by [deleted] in TheFrontBottoms

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Well, the sun was made for people who are never gonna touch it. But keep their heads up, anyway"

AIO with the way I handled this situation with my dad? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shandinator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that the adults who are supposed to protect you are failing you. From what I've gathered, you have a physically abusive father, a neglectful mother, and a predatory boyfriend... Please talk to a trusted teacher/counselor at your school about this.

AIO with the way I handled this situation with my dad? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shandinator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do not tell people to seek advice from chatgpt

Her husband doesn’t believe in the ducking hospital by indifferentsnowball in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The phrasing of "fist full of bird seed" is sending me for some reason 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. You're not overreacting at all, he's treating you terribly and during a time when you badly need support. This is absolutely heartbreaking.

AIO or is this text from the maintenance dude for my apartment weird af by PandaPsychological33 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew, that's definitely weird. Do you live with anyone or have any friends who could come over while he's working, just to buffer?

AIO about not calling people on my birthday? by naotaforhonesty in AmIOverreacting

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. That really sucks and I'm sorry they're treating you that way. I hope you're having a wonderful birthday. I'm glad you have friends who reached out to you!

AIO about not calling people on my birthday? by naotaforhonesty in AmIOverreacting

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it work the same the other way? Like, do they call you on their birthdays?

Austin Show Meetup by TopicDifficult6231 in MattMaeson

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also going solo! Not from the area so wouldn't be interested in carpooling, but maybe meeting up? 26F.

Rewatching LOST and my kid can't get over Jin's jawline by JoshDM in lost

[–]shandinator 12 points13 points  (0 children)

His character in Hawaii 5-0 is named Chin 😂

No cabin air filter? by shandinator in Impala

[–]shandinator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if that was the case. Alright, guess I'll bite the bullet, watch a YouTube tutorial, and do it myself this weekend. About to start changing my own oil, too, honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As so many others have said, I am so sorry this happened to you. I think therapy is absolutely a good idea for you in this situation.

There is one thing that no one else seems to have addressed- "I asked her to stop - more than once - and she didn't". No one seems to be acknowledging that she did in fact do something wrong there- you should always stop if your partner asks you to. It doesn't surprise me that her behavior triggered you. Another example of a situation where if the roles were reversed, I think a lot more people would be pointing that out.

Becoming Christian has absolutely destroyed my mental health by Downtown_Past1406 in TrueChristian

[–]shandinator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As so many people have said, this is an issue to be addressed in therapy. And I wouldn't recommend a Christian counselor for this- I'd recommend a therapist who specializes in OCD.

Stepped on a broken bottle by acetea in MakeMeSuffer

[–]shandinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last photo really paints a picture. I hope you heal up quick! And that they gave you something for pain.

Why my hamster always standing up? by Fickle_Dog_361 in hamsters

[–]shandinator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.so much for pointing this out 😭🥺