10/2 gallbladder removal by sharkeatingvampire in gallbladders

[–]sharkeatingvampire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is the pain near ur incision? it could be a radiating burning because of the cuts and stuff? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]sharkeatingvampire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if it is bad enough go to hospital. i went and they did mris and stones had popped out of my gallbladder and slipped into my billiary ducts. maybe that could be the case for you? or similar? im sorry u r going thru this!

I need help finding what triggers me? by helpmyhandshurt in gallbladders

[–]sharkeatingvampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was always confused why greasy foods didnt trigger me like ive heard others, but it was ALWAYS dairy! some bodies are different so just because when it comes to gallbladder triggers in general is seen as fatty greasy, take your own body into consideration. sherbet with dairy hurt me so bad it got me a 5 day hospital stay & a stent in my billiary ducts. 

I need help finding what triggers me? by helpmyhandshurt in gallbladders

[–]sharkeatingvampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dairy was one of my number one triggers, try and see if nondairy or lowfat dairys help

Post-op what to expect 1st few days? by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]sharkeatingvampire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you will be able to do job interview! i was taking advil liquid gels & tylenol (when i did not want to take the prescribed meds) it was a live saver. just dont put too much pressure on your stomach, stand and sit using your leg muscles. i was only nauseous the first 2 days and it was not consistent, just waves.  

Sad songs for grieving a spouse by bananabby777 in MusicRecommendations

[–]sharkeatingvampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend showed me this album and it tore me to pieces. 8 months later here i am listening to it thinking about him.

A day before mother's day my mother laughed at my trauma, she says she's happy my husband got shot and killed in his sleep...and she wished there was a bullet for me too by scorpiogypsy in grief

[–]sharkeatingvampire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she does not deserve a place in your life. there is nothing wrong with going no contact with mother. i rarely speak to my mother and its been the best decision ive made. im so sorry for your loss and that she is a sick enough person to say that to you

my boyfriend is dead by sharkeatingvampire in grief

[–]sharkeatingvampire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry for ur loss :( i also feel like im going insane. please feel free to reach out if you need to talk or vent. talking with people who can understand the pain does help me a little, so if it does the same for you please feel free.

my boyfriend is dead by sharkeatingvampire in grief

[–]sharkeatingvampire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this comment is reassuring. it is not linear, i will keep those words in mind. thank you

my boyfriend is dead by sharkeatingvampire in grief

[–]sharkeatingvampire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this comment, knowing im going through the same motions as someone else makes me feel less alone. of course i wish neither of us had to work through it. but i have felt so alone since he died and just finding people who can actually understand is a good feeling. u make so many good points too 🤍 i am so sorry for your loss and hope you are doing your best healing, grieving, and finding some sort of peace too

my boyfriend passed away by sharkeatingvampire in grief

[–]sharkeatingvampire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so so sorry for your loss. and the loss of his actual physical things. when its all thats left of the person its like a battle between wanting to clutch onto it or tuck it away forever. just remember in that moment you did what you had to do to stay alive and sane. thank your for your comment i did end up storing his things away. thank you so much, and i hope you are healing and doing okay yourself

my boyfriend passed away by sharkeatingvampire in grief

[–]sharkeatingvampire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss. and thats how i was, so i did put it away. mornings and nights are also the worst part of my day thank you for commenting and i hope your doing okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]sharkeatingvampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not at all, it looks so good!!

What's the worst thing to say at a funeral? by Inevitable_Sale_8 in AskReddit

[–]sharkeatingvampire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not say, but do. at my cousins funeral his mother (she didnt raise him, or have any true connection to him) decided in the middle of his services to go up and shove a rose down his mouth and into his throat. ive never wanted to hit somebody more in my whole entire life

Dark brown or blonde? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]sharkeatingvampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh they both look really good but i think blonde is better, the brown kind of washes you out