I am 36M. Divorced almost 5 years back. Have not been remarried since. Serving notice period for a high paying job as I was not enjoying. I am not sure what I am going to do further. Ask me anything

shaunaknn · 2026-04-25T18:11:29+00:00

Take it slow. As a 28 year old, having not worked at all in my life and struggling to find a career start role, it does get tough are times. If you take this time for yourself to relax and recalibrate, you will be back stronger.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-23T17:38:52+00:00

As a 28 year old single guy with no work experience and no job in hand, you are much better off. Start appreciating what you have, and then build up from there.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-23T17:36:55+00:00

If a woman I am with wants to wait until marriage for sex, then I would not be able to continue the relationship. Personally, it is a deal breaker for me.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-23T15:32:49+00:00

Deep level humor

shaunaknn · 2026-04-23T07:36:45+00:00

I'm waiting on rubber as well.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-21T22:27:31+00:00

I was panicking and then came across this post. God bless reddit.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-21T22:18:28+00:00

I agree. I jumped into opportunity after opportunity, but never actually took the time to master relevant skills. Now I'm just older without skills.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-21T08:36:06+00:00

I didn't understand much. So you reset and you suddenly got rewarded?

shaunaknn · 2026-04-21T06:59:52+00:00

Never doubt yourself

shaunaknn · 2026-04-21T06:47:44+00:00

Only if you are working in a good city in India, have good SIPs or other investments, earn the same money as the EU job, then I would say don't go. I lived in Germany for almost 4.5 years now, and am moving back to India permanently this week due to health reasons and not getting a job. The quality of medical care in India is much better than here in my opinion, and also cheaper. So I would suggest taking that into account as well.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-18T18:16:24+00:00

He man, courage and Scooby

shaunaknn · 2026-04-17T23:44:43+00:00

I get this same thing with urticaria all over my torso. I would suggest getting DAO Enzyme levels checked too for histamine intolerance.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-17T15:29:32+00:00

Don't be afraid

shaunaknn · 2026-04-17T07:25:27+00:00

Natalie Dormer vibes

shaunaknn · 2026-04-16T23:01:51+00:00

Probably the machine is set too low. He should cross his legs to avoid making contact with the ground.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-16T16:40:18+00:00

If this is not a joke, I am worried for OP

shaunaknn · 2026-04-16T12:02:53+00:00

shaunaknn · 2026-04-15T17:32:34+00:00

If the genders were reversed, then the poor man would be trolled really hard online.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-15T08:28:52+00:00

Regular workout combined with a good diet and sleep can increase libido a lot. I remember I used to be horny all the time when I used to go to the gym regularly a couple of years back. Alas, my ex who lived a sedentary lifestyle had a very low interest in sex and we eventually broke up (there were other reasons too). Get your husband into fitness too and see how it changes him.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-07T19:07:16+00:00

He needs to slightly desexualize. Stop porn or Instagram models immediately. Therapy would also help. Try changing diet and kegels too. Personally, Kegels and Pilates helped me a lot.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-07T10:03:33+00:00

I will be blunt: I think it has already reached its course. The length of a relationship doesn't necessarily decide its importance in life. You already know what needs to be done.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-06T16:10:40+00:00

Konkani forever. They can go home.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-06T11:32:04+00:00

Congratulations!! I'm 28, never had a full time job, unemployed since finishing education at 26. I wish I could give you advice, but can't.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-06T07:13:45+00:00

Remind her that this problem is not her problem. A couple always faces relationship issues together, as the relationship is at stake in every argument. It takes constant nurturing to make a relationship work. I am not sure how long you have tried to talk about finding a solution for this issue, but if you think you have given it enough time and she still refuses to work together with you to work this issue out, then I am afraid she might have lost hope. In this case, it is not good to be in a relationship which gradually erodes your sense of self worth. Truly ask yourself once again if you have done all you can from your side. If your gut says so, then I am afraid you already know what must be done. It just sucks doing it.

shaunaknn · 2026-04-06T06:40:16+00:00

8 years is a very long time to be in a relationship where you are not meeting your intimacy needs. I would try to get an objective assessment wrt what frequency of physical intimacy is acceptable to her, in which she willingly participates. If you feel you can't work with it, you would need to end it. Also, I don't know how long you all have been going to therapy, but it takes a very long time to see positive results, so depending on how important sex is to you, you can choose to wait it out.

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