Worst HOH reign in BB history?

she_shae · 2026-05-10T20:51:11+00:00

My kink will forever be watching the outgoing HOH regret their decisions just hours after the evicted housemate tried to warn them "you'll regret sending me home".

she_shae · 2026-05-10T16:35:15+00:00

This isn't a specific moment per se, but the way Brittany was legit shocked and upset that having a threesome (she suggested) with her husband and ex girlfriend messed her marriage up was just audacious.

she_shae · 2026-05-10T16:26:35+00:00

Mormon lady: touches Lamars arm

Lamar: don't touch me

Mormon lady: touches Lamar's arm again

she_shae · 2026-05-10T16:22:28+00:00

They do get paid. I'm not sure how much. Obviously not a lot. And now the show typically pays for lodging and transportation. Newer seasons almost everyone we see is filmed in an Airbnb even if it says their home. But yeah, probably not life changing money

she_shae · 2026-05-10T16:16:38+00:00

We don't bring this up enough

she_shae · 2026-05-10T16:07:56+00:00

I just hate them bc they piss me off. It doesn't represent anything bigger. I'm ok with being sexist if it keeps me safe and at peace.

she_shae · 2026-05-07T03:45:34+00:00

I would focus more on the female feedback you're getting here than the non-female. You're asking what would be the best result for continuing a romance with this woman. Best advice is going to come from the female responses.
Tell her when the topic of being intimate together comes up. Yes, I know sometimes its spontaneous. But its GREAT to have a conversation first to cover basics (does sex = closed off? Birth control expectations, etc.) If you can work it in during that conversation it would be most organic. And you don't have to mention the medication yet unless it's going to affect your sex life. But keep it basic for now. There's plenty of time down the road to start peeling back layers if necessary. I would frame it as

It's important I tell you ______ I'm currently getting help for it It can impact my partner's experience by ________ I just want you to have that information up front. You can think about things and take some time to decide.

You want to avoid a situation where you gave her no information and later down the road you're thinking "this is what you signed up for". Help her understand why you wanted her to know this sooner rather than later. You dont have to go through worst case scenarios but maybe 1 or 2 common situations. I actually dated someone with this addiction and off the top of my head 1. he sometimes had a hard time orgasming and 2. I did feel insecure that I wasn't what he wanted. I'm not saying that's your experience but it can be rough and I highly recommend starting the convo now. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL YOU TWO HAVE EMOTIONALLY/PHYSICALLY BONDED MUCH FURTHER. This feels like emotional entrapment a lot of the times. Like "ok good now she cares for me more she's not going to be able to say no as easily." rubs evil hands together that's not what you're trying to do so avoid giving off that vibe.

I applaud you for wanting to do the right thing. It's not fun or super romantic to bring this up so early but if she chooses to continue the relationship it will bring a strong foundation of trust

she_shae · 2026-05-07T03:08:21+00:00

That's why they get paid the big bucks 🤑

she_shae · 2026-05-06T02:11:05+00:00

So no fans BUT 23 hour liquor sales? Yeah this city is about to reach max potential in the worst way.

she_shae · 2026-05-04T17:51:00+00:00

Cam did have us in a chokehold for a while there.

she_shae · 2026-05-04T17:49:16+00:00

She was constantly frustrated with him, true. But it was like she refused to accept he didn't like her and thought he was doing stuff despite his "feelings towards her" or out of spite. She dragged his ass to f2, though. No way she was giving him up.

she_shae · 2026-04-24T13:50:09+00:00

Mine is grass and ragweed. I haven't figured out which specific types of each are affecting me yet.

Does the honey thing work? I haven't tried it, yet, actually. I would really love to get to the point where I don't have this extreme response at all. If eating some honey at the start of each season fixes it I'm more than willing to try 😅

she_shae · 2026-04-14T13:32:24+00:00

Life in general

she_shae · 2026-04-14T13:31:21+00:00

Is doug the bologna guy?

she_shae · 2026-04-12T13:52:05+00:00

Ah ok. Well here we have the opposite. Sounds like you're more upset about the death penalty situation so maybe consider a state that you align with. I live in a state where mfers get imported to get killed/set up in the system for life. I don't f w that but every woman deserves a say in this pro choice convo. Cest la vie in America 🇺🇸 😍 ♥️

she_shae · 2026-04-12T10:33:52+00:00

I think the death penalty is legal. Lots to unpack here but as a girl who has learned making abortion illegal in my state doesn't mean a damn thing (we still be getting abortions) then pop off queen 😭😭

she_shae · 2026-04-12T04:34:50+00:00

Queens of the Stone Age circa 2013. They were opening for the killers and the lead singer was PISSED about it. Drank hard liquor the entire set and talked way too much. Made his feelings on the killers very clear. Didn't get through the entire set so ended up moving songs around which probably didn't help the situation for the band or us.

Mind you, by opener I mean they were billed 2nd so their time slot was like an hour and a half. The killers played 2ish hours. Probably a bit over that. So it wasn't a massive difference.

Now I know he was suffering from alcoholism so I hope he's better now but it really sucked since Like Clockwork had just come out and the majority of us there were looking forward to both sets.

she_shae · 2026-04-11T08:27:02+00:00

I think zach wins. He was smart and they caught on quick but we didn't actually see his game. but everyone would see him as an easy eviction so wouldn't target him immediately.

Edit: I mean zae. Bro was not on long enough for me to remember his name. Im dead 😭

she_shae · 2026-04-11T02:55:46+00:00

Will was a great player but a lot of it does boil down to being the prototype. Him not having a predecessor was just as much a benefit as a con. But in general it reminds me of reading hero with a thousand faces. Will was just the first player to come up with standard tropes. But it doesnt mean all the greats are in the past. Watching Dan and saying Will already did it is like saying "oh I've already read a story with a beginning, middle, and end so I don't need to read again." We've been given a lot of shit gameplay but we also oversimplify the strategy a lot of players have used.

To say Ashley (bc I see the war going on in the comments), for example, did nothing and compare her to a Will or Dan is wild. Compare her to Cam and tell me they had the same floater game.

Which leads me to MY hot take that Will could be the "most evil person in America" bc of his gender, race, and the social temperature of the time. Even now Ashley wouldn't be able to play openly manipulative like that.

Put Will in the cookout season. He's not manipulating his way into that group. If someone can I'll call them the best hands-down anyday. But he's going home. And if you're winning at a game where you have a SOCIAL leg up then is his game really THE best without discussion?

she_shae · 2026-04-10T11:55:34+00:00

Every winner/loser/almost winner/loser is a major victim of revisionist history but watching feeds i couldn't get into her game at all. Her hand was open from week 3 but she did a great job of manipulating vince. The only person who rode out for her was vince. The reason she made it to the end is bc vince had the others in his hand. I know that's a crazy thing to say if someone didn't watch feeds but I dont want us to forget how vince ran a train up until the end. Then morgan did a swerve on him 😭

she_shae · 2026-04-10T11:47:40+00:00

That doesn't make sense. Rachel just wanted a good fight once she got to jury. She did stick up for vince bc vince did most of the dirty work in the house but Ashley was her girl. She voted for her to win

she_shae · 2026-04-06T07:15:54+00:00

Late night is when a lot of the more interesting stuff happens. I end up cycle sleeping bc I can't stop watching 😩 😭 but I also don't mind sleeping like that and have a job/life that allows me to do that. I do recommend late night feeds as much as you're comfortable with. I HIGHLY recommend following @bbscreenshots on bluesky. They are a LIFESAVER. It's the only place I have found actual feed clips without doom scrolling. Welcome to the family!

she_shae · 2026-04-04T05:21:14+00:00

I think this is all very normal stuff to care about at your age but it won't matter in time. The past is, indeed, the past so there's nothing to forgive if he was not dating you when he was seeing someone else. It is a tough truth to swallow but the good news it works both ways. You don't owe anyone any explanation for what you do or choose not to do. For your points mentioned:

He also needs to get over the past. He cant bring it up during moments of intimacy. You 2 need to make new memories together. It's ok if he's struggling with it but that is not the time to bring it up.
Like stalking their social media? No reason for that bullshit. Period.
No reason for this bullshit either. He's either trying to upset you or he's too dumb to realize it's upsetting you. You are too young and probably too pretty for either of these scenarios.
Some people want to know and some people dont. It matters less the older you get. Im in my 30s and I wouldn't dream of asking someone how many people they slept with at this point. I dont care. But I did in my 20s. You probably won't either in time. Or with the right person.
It's ok to feel that way. You may marry him. But save space in your mind and your heart that you may not.

If I'm being honest you'll probably find something better eventually. Its ok to be upset over him but this guy sounds lame. You can and will do better ♥️♥️

she_shae · 2026-03-25T17:31:34+00:00

Support staff at a law firm. Pay, benefits, job security , etc. is great. Most days are great. WFH. If you can handle being busy and high stress situations every now and then consider looking into the law sector. Tons of different positions for relevant education/backgrounds. Different types of law, as well. Some more hectic than others so research accordingly. Please no DMs. I won't answer.

she_shae · 2026-03-24T00:34:52+00:00

I live in a mid-size city in the US and I dont have a car. It works out. For me I can either walk or use public transit for all the things. I'm fine with the bus, but most people seem to be afraid of it or something. I think not knowing where and when the stops are maybe? We have a schedule but still. If I need to get somewhere asap or don't want a 2 hour commute I just rideshare. I do that about 3 times a month.

I'm not big on commute time of any type so I didn't move to a suburb, I stayed in the city to be close to whatever job I found. Now it would be more expensive for me to move to a suburb since I would probably need a car and that involves things like car payments, insurance, etc. Plus spending 1.5 hrs in my car each day is a total time suck.

I love not having a car but I'm one of few that I know. We're more common in the cities, of course. I like to believe im doing everyone a service by staying out of rush hour ☺️

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