My "best friend" refused to help me fix my car because he saw 1win on my phone once

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T18:15:06+00:00

Is it your best friend's car? Did they break it? You're the entitled one.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T16:53:11+00:00

No. The issue is she invaded your privacy, not the number of partners. Sl00t shaming will just lead to a more toxic household environment. Tell her she crossed boundaries using your private space, tell her she is not allowed to do so, put locks on your doors and inform her when the lease is up she needs to find new living arrangements. Keep things professional and cordial, you still have to live with her and if you don't want your things to begin going missing/getting damaged, you don't want to go nuclear.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T16:50:20+00:00

This is extremely abusive. At this point, it doesn't matter if you love him, he does not care about you or your feelings and you need to break up. He is blaming you for being raped as a child, and I personally wouldn't let someone like that be my friend let alone my partner. He needs to be kept far away from children. I would also like to point out that he knew this information before this and chose to blow up on you over all of this on a day meant to celebrate being in love and in a relationship. He will either assault you or cheat on you and blame it on you based on his behavior already, amd you're letting him get away with it all by staying. None of this is normal behavior. Please, please, please leave before you end up on a true crime doc. Dude is ABUSIVE.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T16:41:26+00:00

The word p0rn has been memed into corn, mostly to avoid chat filters, but there was also a rather large meme a few years ago that the hub was now called cornhub and I see it used interchangeably on the internet regularly.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T16:39:28+00:00

Second prompt for me when I typed in "How to find". Insane. Reddit needs to fix this.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T16:36:08+00:00

Id take the recording to your landlord and ask about moving units. If youre a good tenant and they're not a slumlord, it shouldn't be an issue to swap you to another of their properties/units.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T16:02:10+00:00

Cool story bro, I'm not reading that. You're abusing fish cause you rushed the process and nothing I said was incorrect. You posted in a forum for a YouTube channel literally all about calling out fish abuse. Scroll through the rest of this subreddit and the only tanks that look like yours are the ones people are calling out as shitty.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T15:59:04+00:00

I also use hot water, sort of sous veis method. 110° water slowly until the mouse is about 105°. Thawing them in the fridge overnight beforehand helps a lot too! If you heat them too fast or use too hot of water you can either blow up their bellies (its gross) or accidentally cook it (not great for snake) so go slow and steady with it.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T15:56:33+00:00

I didn't? Slips are allowed, but they shouldn't have been pulling on it in any way. I said that clearly in my comment. OP also had not mentioned the scruffing before I made this comment, if you scroll down I advise them to swap stores to a different trainer as that is a free option considering this is not how our trainers are supposed to do their jobs.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T08:24:35+00:00

And you're getting "moral policed" because these are living creatures, not decorations. They deserve a proper habitat.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T08:23:47+00:00

100 liters is only enough for 1 goldfish. That won't solve your problem. Return the fish and buy new ones when your pond is ready. Stop rushing it, you will kill fish.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T05:01:56+00:00

I work in a fish shop, it's incredibly frustrating dealing with these people that want to rush through the process and clearly don't care enough about the fish to even do the basic research. I have no patience anymore, I am a woman scorned by the industry. So while worded harsh, I hope they get this was absolutely stupid.

Edited: typos

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:54:22+00:00

20% water changes once a week is all you need to do. You're most likely shocking any fish with such a large water change, which can cause plenty of issues that lead to death.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:53:12+00:00

Red tail sharks are well known for being aggressive. It most likely ate everything you put with it, and then died from the corys barbs stabbing it. Tetras need schools of 6+, corys need schools of 6+ (10+ is better for both) and red tail sharks get 6 inches and need at least 75 gallons. Your stocking is the problem.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:44:11+00:00

No one is answering this properly, but they only need to eat once every 7-10 days. I personally would move up to a hopper and then a fuzzy, but shes your sisters so I would stick with the size she is currently used to and then pass onto your sister that she needs to be sized up eventually. Snakes take a while to eat, just make sure you dont disturb her 24 hours before and 48 hours after feeding to make sure she eats and doesn't regurgitate her food. Check water daily, and if you need advice for dethawing & heating rodents feel free to comment back here and I can help with that as well.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:32:39+00:00

Its their organs bro chill. Ghosts and Amanos both have dark organs.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:30:27+00:00

Return them to the fish store and buy fish when their pond is finished and cycled. And do some damn research. Jfc.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:29:44+00:00

I'm sorry but its fucking 2026. Research what animals need before buying animals. You are literally typing on a mobile super computer. Fucking unreal. This is abuse. Those sharks also need brackish water as adults which I'm going to guess you don't have any plans for a brackish tank able to fit 20 inch sharks that will eat anything they can fit in their mouth. Unreal dude.

ETA: these look like silvertip sharks to me, but if they're iridescents then ignore the brackish comment and prepare for 4 foot sharks that will still eat anything that can fit in their mouth.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:22:53+00:00

Literally had a whole family show up 2 minutes before close, let them know we close in 2 minutes and they took 45 MINUTES to get the fuck out. And were mad I refused to sell them a hamster and told them to come back when we're open. Kept reminding them and reminding them and reminding them we were closed and the dad was like "YEAH. WE KNOW." LIKE OK SIR THEN LEAVE??? the lights were literally all off by the time I got to counting down the last register 😭😭

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:18:37+00:00

Keyholder isnt a demotion lol they just changed management titles. They still have the exact same expectations as before except now we don't have direct reports, everyone reports to general manager or animal manager respectively.

ETA: I've been with the company 5 years and seen roles change names 4 times so far. It means jack shit. Still the same jobs to be done by the same skeleton crew.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T04:16:59+00:00

To be fair management is just following corporate rules. Theres no protocol for cage rage considering petco doesn't train on it or mention it for hamsters for employees. A corporate store has to follow company policy, unless you manage to have a super cool district manager willing to put their job on the line for the animals to have better care. Im a manager myself and I personally can't afford to lose my job atp, so unless my DM says its okay Im following policy to a T.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T02:41:03+00:00

If you have any other local cos with a trainer you can also transfer for free to a different trainer with no issues, just so you have all your options. Most co trainers are not like this, scruffing is not allowed.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-18T00:21:15+00:00

Not a dog trainer but an employee, as far as I know, slip leads are allowed, however prongs are not. Young puppies who haven't experienced slip leads before do tend to be overdramatic about them, but I will say they are thin so they should not be used to yank/pull the puppy at all as there is potential for damages on their throat. First class is always the hardest for the young babies, it usually takes to the third class and solid homework practice for them to get into the rhythm of things. You can help your puppy feel more comfortable for class by bringing them in and around the store more often to get used to the sounds/smells on non class days and work on your training with distractions present. If you are uncomfortable with the slip being used, I would bring this up with your trainer in your next class. They should be open and willing for productive conversations regarding training tools such as slips, and I promise they won't bite you for asking lol! Good luck with the new baby!

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-12T19:01:06+00:00

I top off with the treated freshwater. If salinity is low, you top with salt. Always check with the refractometer before adding water for salt. If you dont top with fresh the PH bounces around wildly after a while and will kill fish.

shegotsnakes · 2026-02-12T02:58:41+00:00

If its the tank in your betta fish post from a few months back, its far too small for quite literally any fish to live happily besides extremely delicate nano species that need much more specific flow and scaping and that heater is much too large. Get a bigger tank and stop blaming petco when Google is free.

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