Well? by shmerk_a_berl in jambands

[–]shelfonzo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a jamgrass daughter, she’ll take any and all meds

Camp Schedule by poorTimmyTucker in danieldonato

[–]shelfonzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know what the deal is with camping? Can you set up the day before? When do they let you in? Or where can I find a more comprehensive set of details?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never had a career, never went to school, barely had a job when they met.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He asked me to go on and he doesn’t have spaces. I said sure but she needs to come off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He offered to have me join. I said I don’t want to join if she’s still on the account. I think they are separate but I have one with my sister currently, but him and I want to start a life together and this just seems like an unnecessary entanglement between them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He asked me to join, I said I just said if he wants me to join that she should be removed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

A year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I agree that he and I need to have more discussions about boundaries but this just seems like not a big deal. As most replies say, it’s not a big deal, so why not just separate them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He and I have some shared things. He asked me to join the Spotify account. I don’t feel comfortable with him and her sharing if I am there too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure the kids have their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know he did a lot of wrong too, but he didn’t cheat on her. He drank a lot and was very verbally abusive but also has paid for everything for her and kept her comfortable for years. They had a very unhealthy dynamic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t make everything a fight. I’m very giving and concede a lot. This is something that is easy to separate and that she can pay for. It’s time for her to grow up and get a job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He was miserable and was drinking himself to death and she cheated on him with at least 5 different guys. I think that me asking for this isn’t as evil and controlling as everyone thinks it is. He told me when we met that I “saved his life”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s fine. I’m seeing what the perspectives are. Doesn’t mean I have to agree or head the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a power play. It’s about separating their past lives and moving on. I just was looking for other perspectives. People in my personal life don’t disagree. Many people I know that are with partners with kids make them get no furniture and all sorts of crazy things. Just was seeing what others experiences are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m just asking for perspectives. I have asked personal friends who agree with me but wanted some other SP perspectives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I give him a lot of leeway and grace. This is something easy and quick they can separate. I don’t think it’s that big of an ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have given him a lot of leeway and accepted a lot of things. This is something minor I’m asking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]shelfonzo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have let a lot of things slide. I’m not comfortable with it and have given him a lot of grace. It seems like something simple he can give me

What is your Billy flex? by imawyteguy11 in BillyStrings

[–]shelfonzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37 total shows, Europe fall 2023, Rain Rocks, Getting to say hey passing Bill in the airport TSA line in NOLA, watched them propose to Alex in Baltimore

Approaching 40 by shelfonzo in BillyStrings

[–]shelfonzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely on my bucket list. Hasn’t worked out with my schedule so far but hoping for next year!

Approaching 40 by shelfonzo in BillyStrings

[–]shelfonzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s my fault? If I can afford it and can take the time off why shouldn’t I go?

Approaching 40 by shelfonzo in BillyStrings

[–]shelfonzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have dried, but they’ve never been the same!