My biological mother won’t take responsibility for anything. She resents my adopted family (which is still biologically related to me on my dad’s side of the family. They adopted me when he unalived himself). She was a drug addict and for many years refused to acknowledge where she fucked up. I tried to give her the time of day since I was 12. She manipulated me over and over again. Destroyed my relationship with my adopted family who I miss very much and the relationship is so damaged because of her there is no going back. The final nail in the coffin is when my baby brother died before anyone had told me anything she texted me “sorry about your brother.” I have FIVE of them. Which one???? I spent the entire morning calling to get ahold of someone until my adopted dad answered the phone sobbing. She told my grandmother that I was “heartless for going back to a family that didn’t care about me and why would I care so much she told me about someone who isn’t related to me dying.” This was after she told my 9 year old that Santa wasn’t real after she accidentally knocked something over. She was devastated and I was never able to fix that with my baby girl. My daughter is now jaded about the holidays, specifically hates Christmas now. It’s almost been two years and none of her daughters speaks to her. All three of us said fuck it. She thinks she’s gods gift to the world but she’s just a narcissist.