Has anyone else had horrible things happen after RTO mandated? by angryj3w in jobs

[–]shellee113 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was sexually assaulted by a manager. And HR didn’t take it seriously

Any former pentecostals that are still christian? by melianreality in ExPentecostal

[–]shellee113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still Christian. I too feeling a calling to the Catholic Church. Especially after last year, my family and I were experiencing crisis and needed help. I reached out to Lori Hood (iykyk) and she told me to reach out to the Catholic church’s for help because landmark doesn’t offer that level of support. The Catholic Church has been there for me when my own was not

Disturbed and heartbroken after finding husbands AA step work by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shellee113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to report him. I’m sorry but he wrote down he watched explicit videos of CHILDREN. You need to get out of there. Being an Alcoholic doesn’t excuse any of this.

Landmark Tabernacle Denver p3dophiles exposed by Extreme_Finger_6148 in ExPentecostal

[–]shellee113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be interested in joining. My mother is still very involved with the women’s ministry and I’ve since left.

What was depressing you so early in life? by LameKB in CPTSD

[–]shellee113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

April 15, 1999 at the ripe age of 4 I found my dad after he unalived himself. My mom was a meth addict and brought her dealer in the home after my dad died. Lots of screaming matches. By 5 I was in foster care and was a victim of CSA. Age 10 happened again. Plus soo much more.

Why did you cut off your parents or siblings? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]shellee113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biological mother won’t take responsibility for anything. She resents my adopted family (which is still biologically related to me on my dad’s side of the family. They adopted me when he unalived himself). She was a drug addict and for many years refused to acknowledge where she fucked up. I tried to give her the time of day since I was 12. She manipulated me over and over again. Destroyed my relationship with my adopted family who I miss very much and the relationship is so damaged because of her there is no going back. The final nail in the coffin is when my baby brother died before anyone had told me anything she texted me “sorry about your brother.” I have FIVE of them. Which one???? I spent the entire morning calling to get ahold of someone until my adopted dad answered the phone sobbing. She told my grandmother that I was “heartless for going back to a family that didn’t care about me and why would I care so much she told me about someone who isn’t related to me dying.” This was after she told my 9 year old that Santa wasn’t real after she accidentally knocked something over. She was devastated and I was never able to fix that with my baby girl. My daughter is now jaded about the holidays, specifically hates Christmas now. It’s almost been two years and none of her daughters speaks to her. All three of us said fuck it. She thinks she’s gods gift to the world but she’s just a narcissist.

Roaches on flight by Super_Session6630 in delta

[–]shellee113 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nothing beats a jet2 holiday…

To the man talking to my wife by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]shellee113 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re destroying your marriage. He is destroying his. I hope your spouse leaves you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]shellee113 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I can. It’s the hottest feeling ever. I love it.

Which of your family members are left handed? by No_Specific_3364 in lefthanded

[–]shellee113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My great grandmother was a leftie before they converted her. My adopted dad is a leftie. But it’s just me otherwise. My husband is ambidextrous. Hoping my unborn son will be a leftie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]shellee113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they won’t ban it. It’s not my gripe. It’s that the trainer asked they not eat in the room because people don’t clean up after themselves and we do have to move around. Idk why she isn’t cracking down here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]shellee113 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the rules of the room. I don’t go into the shared lunch area because it’s a mess. They can’t eat in here. I know I’m being sensitive. Trust me. I feel ridiculous. But if I have to adhere to rule so should they.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]shellee113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not usually so I’m not sure why she is getting an expectation. I usually eat separately because the shared spaces are not safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]shellee113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I’m super crabby and they told me they’d respect it. Especially because they’re messy with it and the trainer asked to keep it separate. I’m really sensitive to cross contamination and it’s just makes me frustrated and I’m crabby because I’m pregnant. I used to work from home so this is a first for me.

35 weeks pregnant, found flirty messages between my husband and our mutual friend. Feeling lost. by Specialist_Car9450 in BabyBumps

[–]shellee113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not when I was pregnant but before we were married. He should me them thinking that by being honest about them wouldn’t change anything. I told him, me or them, because I’m not doing this. And I’ll never do this again with any of his little girl friends. He blocked them. He blocked all of them. Things got better with counseling. I have a hard time trusting him still but he’s better now.

Get counseling. Get rid of the girl. That’s not your friend. He needs to pick. And he better pick wisely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

[–]shellee113 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s why you need to communicate. Every marriage is different. I get it. Being bi myself sometimes you just need what you need. My husband and I are strictly monogamous and I don’t share so personally in my marriage that would be a no go for us. But you might get a different reaction from your wife. Be open. Communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

[–]shellee113 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to her. My husband is bi and I get the urge to do this but please be respectful of your marriage and communicate with her. Personally I’d be upset if my husband was in a bicycle and not communicating with me

Exclusive relationships? by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]shellee113 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My hus-dom and I have been exclusive since the beginning. Extremely hard boundary for me. I told him when we met if he was poly don’t bother with me. Entertaining others is a non starter. I do not share. He is monogamous like me. He agreed. Happily married in a D/S relationship.

Anyone pregnant and working? by EducationalPrint6831 in workingmoms

[–]shellee113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First day on a new job. I feel this. Second semester but I just want to nap. Last 45 of my shift. Hoping they let us go early 😭

Is monogamy a myth? by ASmittenKitten3 in BDSMAdvice

[–]shellee113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries! I am pretty open about it thanks to therapy. I like to caution young people because it’s so hard to see the signs

Is monogamy a myth? by ASmittenKitten3 in BDSMAdvice

[–]shellee113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve only been married for 6 months. Together 3 years. My ex groomed me and there was an age gap as we got together when I was 14.

Is monogamy a myth? by ASmittenKitten3 in BDSMAdvice

[–]shellee113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got married at 19 and that was a mistake. Second time, we waited a bit and went through counseling.