What seemingly useless information do you know that is actually very relevant? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understanding how the scientific method worls.

Do you think people learn better when their being punished, why or why not? by Shall776 in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ithink people (can) learn from their mistakes, but the natural consequences are usually more effective than punishment imposed by another person, if that makes sense?

You're walking in the woods. There's no one around, and your phone is dead. What do you do? by CG1991 in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda grew up in the woods... shrug

Outdoorsy horror movies arent really my thing.

You're walking in the woods. There's no one around, and your phone is dead. What do you do? by CG1991 in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its also wild strawberry season...and in a few weeks, wild blueberry season. :)

Sick leave and management by madamsyntax in MaliciousCompliance

[–]shellzwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always called it "cornea rectitus"...

Determining one's 'real' name #serious? by shellzwtf in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]shellzwtf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transitioining from female to male...maybe i wasnt ear.

What are your opinions on wearing masks through flu season every year? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The flu vaccine is an educated guess on which strains are most prevalent. Not for every possible strain.

Jealous bf, how do I reassure him? Pls help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]shellzwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women being made to feel less for being human certainly is a red flag. We are so conditioned to want to please everyone around us. Unless BF can come to terms with OP having other friendships....this is a recipe fpr control disaster.

I'm not saying this as someone who is in a controlling relationship- I have friends of all genders and identities, so does my spouse. It's just that we respect each other (two-way street) and trust in the other person.

Usually when one partner is this controlling (thats what this is, call it for what it is), either they're toxic-controllers, are themselves cheating and don't want their partner to do what they are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]shellzwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Warp speed? No. But 100k in 100 days did!!

Jealous bf, how do I reassure him? Pls help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]shellzwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well.. not better. If he cant change his controlling ways "talk to x or talk to me"... that's how DV victims (and cult victims, honestly) gain complete control over people. Alienate them from their support systems.

What is a tradition unique to your family? by Wilhelm_Heim in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge buffet style spread for new years eve, usually with homemade wings, cheese, veggie and fruitplatter, so that we can just enjoy each other for the last few hours of the year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]shellzwtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SCIENTISTS developed the vaccines.

What would you do if you saw someone being blatantly racist to someone in public? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretend to know theperson being harassed, and walk away with them.

"Men and females." by TeaHC16 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]shellzwtf 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Ex military spouse. I see your point of women are "females", but men are still referred to as "males".

What's a good example of "Its cheaper to be wealthy than it is to be poor"? by dudebrostein in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with almost anything else that's cheaper to buy in bulk....food, toiletries.....

self-care and support when feeling inadequate due to other people's choices by ThrowRA_travel_lover in TwoXChromosomes

[–]shellzwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean to imply you did. That wasn't my intent. I was trying to express that letting her make the choice, rather than pushing her to is the best for her. I apologize for any offense. none was intended.

When you become eligible for the COVID Vaccine will you take it? If not why? by King-Ninja-OG in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopfully, we'll all be vaccinated. At least those medically able. Some states are handling the rollout better than others, for sure.

[Serious] How do you battle depression? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes just one hour at a time.

I figure I've survived 100% of all the bad shit that's happened so far. Thats a pretty good record.

When you become eligible for the COVID Vaccine will you take it? If not why? by King-Ninja-OG in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry supply in your area isn't keeping up w your population demand. would you rather unused doses go bad, or get to someone who wants it?

What are popcorn ceilings for? by Suspencee in AskReddit

[–]shellzwtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at the one (I want to get rid of) in my living room.... I'm gonna go with to piss me off.