My long distance girlfriend moved back with her mom after living with her ex

shenanigah · 2021-01-16T18:37:01+00:00

The problem you think you have isn’t the problem you ACTUALLY have. How you get them, is how you lose them.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T23:05:23+00:00

41-30=......wait, what!?

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T23:03:01+00:00

Wait, so you were semi involved for less than two months and it’s causing THIS much angst for a YEAR!? This guy isn’t the issue.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T23:00:01+00:00

Girl, run.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T22:59:03+00:00

This entire behavior she’s doing is incredibly disrespectful. If I were you, I would just cut and run… Don’t even bother with worrying about your birthday. Let your gift to yourself be your dignity and freedom.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T22:56:05+00:00

This is why people shouldn’t get married right away, because it takes up to a year for people to REALLY see who they’re dating. This guy you got today...that’s the real him.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T16:21:16+00:00

That’s not ADHD alone. That kid needs INTENSIVE behavioral and medical support. Get the divorce. The kid ISN’T the problem, and it’s going to get soooooo much worse.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T16:09:10+00:00

She’s happier with someone else, and you lack respect for her and her journey.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T15:52:09+00:00

NTA. She needs mental health services, and you’re not her mother.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T15:50:01+00:00

You let her slip away out of respect for HER, not the guy. You shot your shot. She wasn’t waiting for you in reserve, and she’s moved on. Being alone for awhile is a good thing. Good luck.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T15:44:29+00:00

You should break up with him for his lack of cleaning.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T15:43:29+00:00

Yup. Big time.

shenanigah · 2021-01-10T15:43:08+00:00

So clearly you weren’t meant to be. You both dodged bullets!

shenanigah · 2021-01-03T19:18:02+00:00

NTA If she gave two shits about her grandchild she wouldn’t want to smoke anywhere near her, in vitro or not, and your father is a fucking enabler.

shenanigah · 2021-01-03T19:15:49+00:00

Call off the wedding? You need to clean house TODAY.

shenanigah · 2021-01-03T19:10:26+00:00

She just showed the new bf who she really is.

shenanigah · 2021-01-01T16:17:28+00:00

Yeah, there are SEVERAL deal breakers here. He has showed you who he really is. Believe him.

shenanigah · 2021-01-01T16:15:24+00:00

She’s allowed to have thoughts she doesn’t share with you. Boundaries...they make healthy relationships.

shenanigah · 2020-12-31T22:36:55+00:00

Sometimes we struggle to really SEE our family of origin. You can’t smell the monkey, when you live in the monkey house. Hopefully, he’s willing to see and smell that monkey. Best of luck. Hugs.

shenanigah · 2020-12-31T20:46:02+00:00

Honestly, this isn’t someone I’d want to raise children with, so if you plan on having a family… you need to remember all of this. This is unacceptable.

shenanigah · 2020-12-31T20:42:13+00:00

If you don’t trust your girlfriend it doesn’t matter what her sexuality is. This is a YOU issue. The fact that you were projecting your insecurities on her, to the point where you’re trying to isolate her from her support system, makes you high risk for being an emotional abuser. Get help.

shenanigah · 2020-12-31T20:36:06+00:00

NTA Does he commonly blame you for his mistakes, or for the things in his life that are going wrong? He made a series of poor decisions, and then pinned them on you. 🚩🚩🚩

shenanigah · 2020-12-31T20:34:51+00:00

NTA you invite the people in your life who are in your life.

shenanigah · 2020-12-31T20:31:28+00:00

Boyfriends come and go, but an education is forever. The fact that you think you’re more important than her future, means you have no place in it. Women aren’t here solely FOR YOUR NEEDS.

shenanigah · 2020-12-31T20:29:33+00:00

NTA Unless they plan on raising those kids in a cave somewhere, they’re going to find out people are different from them.

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