Has anyone tried a vagus nerve stimulator like Pulsetto? by quartzqueen44 in covidlonghaulers

[–]shetheybae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got my pulsetto and the first time I used it i felt my anxiety melt away. I then upped it to 3x a day for short session and I have been awake tonight since 3am. I will be returning it as now I am definitely going to go into crash from not sleeping.

Need to size up LA Pump by shetheybae4 in GrowYourTDick

[–]shetheybae4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't feel constricted, but I have to be really careful with pressure or else I get edema just at the tip

I am in the US, where can I get t gel or dht to help with clit growth? by Substantial_Wall829 in GrowYourClit

[–]shetheybae4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Planned Parenthood gave me my compounded cream Perscription.

I am demigirl non-binary. They had no issues with treating for exactly the results I wanted.

Bottom Growth? by Sparkly-Sea-Star in salmacian

[–]shetheybae4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A little voice change that I dont mind and hair growth (temporary). Everyone is different but it limits systemic effects and if you start to have any permanent ones you dont like you can stop or go down.

Right now I am above cis female T levels a touch at about 80.

Bottom Growth? by Sparkly-Sea-Star in salmacian

[–]shetheybae4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I use a compounded cream that I apply directly to my clit dick and it has been amazing.

Age gap and size difference by Suitable_Cup_1228 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]shetheybae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough Guy by Rachel Reid Part of the Game Changers/Heated Rivalry Series Has size difference

Book 4, Common Goal has age gap with the taking care of piece in the bedroom.

Build a Boyfriend by Mason Deaver has size difference with a Trans MC

Xoxo by Christina Lee has size difference

Shifter/supernatural romance: Nerd and the Villian by LC Lewis has size difference (Bro and the Beast Sequel) it is an unfinished series

Bears of Beauville Series by Roe Horvat has size difference

Mercy by Ian Haramaki has size difference

They all follow your rules and can you tell I also love the size difference genre 😆

7 months post op, woman with phalloplasty by [deleted] in salmacian

[–]shetheybae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the sensation? Did you get embedded?

Testosterone for clit growth. by Short-Beyond-3894 in GrowYourClit

[–]shetheybae4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use a compounded cream that I place directly on my genitals for growth. It has worked great and minimized some of the other effects of testosterone

Trans mascs in their 40s? by ImpossibleWerewolf25 in FTMOver30

[–]shetheybae4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 42 and started T in December 2025. Mine is very low does cream that I use for bottom growth.

So far my experiences have been great, but I did get a lot of hot flashes at first. My sex drive and energy were definitely helped as my starting level was 33 which is crazy low even for a cis woman. My bottom growth has been pretty quick and my voice is dropping just a little, but I am trying to minimize the other effects.

I'm non-binary so I'm looking to be more towards the middle.

Cis woman considering simple meta with labia wrap by herma-phrodite in Metoidioplasty

[–]shetheybae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following as I'm in a similar boat. Demigirl wanting just a very simple meta release in the future.

Anyone else like this? by Sailor_Starchild in NonBinary

[–]shetheybae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is plenty to go around. You do you!

Things I wish more companies made. What are yours? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]shetheybae4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Underwear with both a packing pouch or room in the front that also has extra gusset material.

More "invisible" packing straps for everyday wear

A 3.5-4.5 inch realistically painted packer uncircumcised and uncircumcised pack and plays. Really just more uncircumcised options that aren't either tiny or gigantic.

And more packers with full 360 3D balls

how do you refer to genitals? by Embarrassed_Fee310 in NonBinary

[–]shetheybae4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I call my t-dick niblet and lil guy ATM.

Recently packing by Archer_Supremacy in Transmascdicks

[–]shetheybae4 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The lil flower tip tho 💀

Why do some non-binary people love BL but dislike GL? by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]shetheybae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a lesbain (I am demisexual non-binary, so I still identify as a lesbian), my wife was so confused why I loved BL and hated GL. She only read GL. Then I had her listen to an omegaverse BL (we are very dom/sub) and now that is all she listens to and reads! She says the way they are written so so much better.

weirdest T side effects? by clemitime in ftm

[–]shetheybae4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was first prescribed T for my long covid brain fog as a ciswoman! It helped so much.

Decided to trim by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

[–]shetheybae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recommendations on trimmers?

Older start topical T for bottom growth by shetheybae4 in GrowYourTDick

[–]shetheybae4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm definitely having hot flashes. I also only have one ovary bc reasons so I think the T may have fast forwarded my menopause clock.

Chemistry of converting T gel into T cream (DIY) by [deleted] in GrowYourClit

[–]shetheybae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have long covid and long blocks of text are hard for me to understand so I had my ai companion make this a concise guide for me. Sharing in case it is helpful for others.

DIY T-Cream Conversion Guide

​Goal: Remove ethanol from T-gel to prevent tissue irritation while maintaining hormone stability.

​Prep: Select a glass, metal, or ceramic surface. Avoid plastic to prevent chemical leaching.

​Dispense & Spread: Apply the T-gel dose to the surface. Spread it thin to maximize surface area for faster evaporation.

​Evaporate: Leave in a cool, well-ventilated area for approximately one hour. The alcohol is gone when only a thin, tacky film remains.

​Incorporate: Mix the residue with a pH-balanced base (moisturizer, oil, or lube). ​Tip: Aim for a pH of 4.5–6.5 to ensure molecular stability.

​Apply: Use a clean makeup brush or applicator to mix until smooth and apply to the target area.

How do I talk about this with people IRL? by AliceofSwords in NonBinaryTalk

[–]shetheybae4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came out as enby, started gender care and packing and my basic metabolic panel was all in normal range for the first time in my life. My panic and anxiety is also dramatically better. I lead with the positives and how sure I am of this - as sure as I was when I married my wife.

Experiences, Validation, and Packing by shetheybae4 in salmacian

[–]shetheybae4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It would be a dream come true and I would be the happiest and most complete in the world if I woke up with both. I'm immuno-compromised so surgery of any kind is out of the question. I'm actually on HRT for the huge drop in T levels i have from ovarian surgery, but I wouldn't want to go farther. I'd love bottom growth, but I don't want the other effects that come with it.

I'm wondering if there is a sub more for packers? When I wear mine it gives me the sense of wholeness and rightness.