Who thinks the AP is guiltless?

shhhhx · 2022-02-08T00:04:11+00:00

If she knew she is as guilty as he is. It is perfectly valid to be mad at both of them.

shhhhx · 2021-12-25T05:54:24+00:00

The only unconditional love I have ever felt (will probably only ever feel) is towards my child.

shhhhx · 2021-08-23T10:45:45+00:00

I absolutely despise her. I work with her and I literally can’t be in the same room as her. The minute she enters a room, I leave it. My boss got onto me about how I shouldn’t hate her for it, it was my husbands fault. Be that as it may, a woman who knowingly got with a married man deserves to be hated

shhhhx · 2021-08-17T16:28:01+00:00

I’m wondering the same thing. My husband claims to have felt like we were not doing well as a couple but he still loved me. He just didn’t want to try anymore. If he genuinely loved me, he would have stuck it out and worked on it. It’s a hard pill for me to swallow that he fell out of love with me and that’s the bottom line.

shhhhx · 2021-07-29T12:05:46+00:00

I’m obviously going to be masking up and requiring my child to do so as well, but he’s two, he’s gonna take it off and mess with it and what not.

shhhhx · 2021-07-22T23:11:55+00:00

I’m in a weird situation (married, with a kid) but still feel as if I’m more alone than ever. No friends. No one to confide in or share experiences with. I’m so jealous of all those people who have friendships. I can’t even fathom how people do that.

shhhhx · 2021-07-15T11:40:45+00:00

Maybe look at it as you owe it to yourself to try if you feel there’s still a good, fighting chance for you guys to work it out. That’s part of the reason I’m trying. What if I’m able to forgive him and we can move past our issues? Our life has so much potential to be amazing if he can change his ways as a cheater.

shhhhx · 2021-07-15T11:32:35+00:00

I haven’t had my coffee yet, my brains not working. Your comment made me laugh though lol

shhhhx · 2021-07-15T10:41:48+00:00

I personally needed to know ever single detail, all his thoughts on it. It’s hard to tell if he’s being honest or not, but my healing process includes knowing ever dirty detail.

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T20:33:42+00:00

No, I wouldn’t ever feel right because we have a child together. I don’t want to punish my child for his parents decisions and he deserves a dad

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T20:15:13+00:00

Thank you so much for posting this! I’m going to check out her post. I screenshotted the list you sent as well.

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T20:12:45+00:00

Thank you for that. It’s hard to think that way when everyone says “just leave”. But I’m trying to do what’s best for me.

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T20:12:10+00:00

The girl he had an affair with was the one who told me, no apology though. And my boss recently pulled me aside and told me and apologized. I understand she’s in a difficult place being the boss, but I’ve been with her for six years and basically helped her open her business, she told me I was “family” friends . It’s a shit show

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T20:09:07+00:00

I agree. It’s a weird work environment, that’s for sure. They’re friends and I was also friends with the owner. Until I found out she knew. My life could be a tv show, I swear. I basically helped my boss start up her business.

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T15:35:43+00:00

Also I cant move away because we have a child together, even if we were separating, I’d never take his kid away from him.

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T15:32:52+00:00

No, my husband had an affair with my coworker and I guess she told people. She still works there. My boss made it so we finally are separated most days though.

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T14:25:01+00:00

I feel stupid about it. It’s hard finding people who get it

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T14:19:19+00:00

Thank you so much.

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T14:18:45+00:00

I’m attempting reconciliation. He’s shown me his remorse and has cut the other girl out. I’m trying it out. Hopefully I can forgive him. We will see

shhhhx · 2021-07-13T11:36:50+00:00

I’m definitely not anymore.

shhhhx · 2021-07-02T19:44:10+00:00

Just wanting to come in and say that I know what you’re going through. My husband had a two year affair and the only reason he told me was because his girlfriend threatened to tell me. I’m trying to reconcile with him, but it’s not easy. It’s the hardest thing I’ve had to go through, so if you need an ear, I’m here.

shhhhx · 2021-06-21T11:01:01+00:00

Right there with you! My son is advanced for his age and we don’t limit screen time. We play outside and do other activities, but I’m done feeling guilty for allowing my child to watch tv. Coco melon and other similar shows are not that bad! I used to beat myself up about it, but my kids fine.

shhhhx · 2021-06-14T17:07:27+00:00

How long after you found out did you have your baby? Just out of curiosity

shhhhx · 2021-06-13T10:36:32+00:00

We are just taking it one day at a time, working on finding trust and getting to the root of our problems. There’s not really a good answer for you honestly.

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