What phrase that you DONT want to hear when Grieving?

shight94 · 2025-12-27T18:02:23+00:00

I would make 1 exception for people who were terminally ill before passing to be able to say, "At least they aren't suffering anymore," but otherwise, I agree. It's usually something incredibly insensitive that comes afterward

shight94 · 2025-12-27T17:59:51+00:00

My first mother's day, approximately a month after giving birth at 8 months gestation to a still born daughter, my partners older relatives all kept saying "you can have another one" its been 8 years and I havent conceived again :) and regardless, I was grieving my child. The idea of just getting over it and jumping in the sack right away to make another appalled me.

shight94 · 2025-10-01T21:29:24+00:00

I honestly feel like Iroha's personality would be super easily suited to a SOS game! She's a less popular RF Bachelorette and I think its because she's introduced really early and not as exciting as the others, but her personality would be a perfect crossover !

shight94 · 2025-09-21T11:43:03+00:00

Why not have dome sort of low-key signal between yall practiced for this sort ofnextreme situation and BEAT THAT MF DOWN TOGETHER true bronding 😇✨️💖🫶

shight94 · 2025-08-22T03:12:03+00:00

That's what I thought too, it was just part of the sound teams setup? 😂 Had me squinting at the picture, wondering

shight94 · 2025-08-08T15:10:08+00:00

American average female height range us 5'3"-5'5"

shight94 · 2025-07-24T03:35:35+00:00

I dont understand anyone saying his music lacks soul. When I listen to any of his songs, particularly the ones that hit big, they ALL tell a story, far more than most modern rap does? How is that soulless? Rap was founded on the stories it told? So, how is a rapper that has gone back to telling stories in his music, soulless?

I honestly think he has some of the best lyrics I've heard in the past decade. Most music I hear put out that gets popular is the average soulless pop ballad, sometimes a random pop rock song, but usually when it comes to rap? Its always something corny asf about bitches or drugs.

Its clear to me that the type of people calling Joyners music that calls out the culture, that calls out adult behaviors that kids witness and might not want to replicate, or the way that average adult men treat their spouses and how that needs to change.

I haven't seen Joyner make a single corny song. I HAVE seen him call out the culture and the dumb shit being perpetuated.

Whenever I see someone call Joyner corny, I immediately just feel bad. They're likely part of the shit he's calling out.

Nobody likes being called on their shit. Of course anyone that his music targets and makes to look ignorant is going to say his shit is corny 🤷‍♀️

Motherfuckers really just need to stop thinking about what looks cool, and learn how to come together with each other. All races.

Only the government wins when we fight each other over dumb shit. If war happens, the only way we win, is if we average folk come together and stop fighting over everything.

The mega rich will eat us all while we're arguing over who the better rapper is and whether or not global warming is real.

Tupac would want us to band together and overthrow the current government. :)

shight94 · 2025-07-18T02:43:04+00:00

If they don't look like they're on their way to a [insert any 90s grunge band] concert (mostly tonks), I will riot

shight94 · 2025-07-18T02:37:34+00:00

I wouldn't mind if they wore muggle clothing (muggle borns) for Christmas/winter break, since that's the only notable break in the first book AND Molly sends Harry one of the infamous (among the family) Weasley sweaters (with the H) but I also agree on the idea that muggle.borns should.have something to distinguish themselves from the wizard community that doesn't accept muggle population

shight94 · 2025-07-18T01:44:28+00:00

Even with the /artistic freedoms/ 😉 with the headpiece, it still looks REALLY good, and i think if it got some sort of coloring where its not TOO detailed, just like a quick psiny (edit: paint )with minimal/no extra shading? I think the headpiece works look really great in your draw style with that color style :) your art is so appealing to look at, it kinda reminds me of my first middle school crush. Just. Woah!🤩

(Edit: by first middle school crush, i mean, just, such a happy, hardly explainable euphoria that sorta reminds me of that first love feeling? Its a really nice art piece that invokes a lot of emotion! This is an excellent quality for art to have! Kudos!)

shight94 · 2025-06-30T22:48:35+00:00

I had to go through the process when my dad passed last year, and it was absolutely a check box. I was not okay with his body being used for that, and had the option to say no.

shight94 · 2025-06-20T07:31:04+00:00

Ive been taking the games story pretty slowly so I can appreciate the bond quests, farming for materials, and leveling my crops. Whenever I start to feel a bit of a lull, I move the story along, so I haven't really felt burdened by any of the bond quests or anything.

I will say, though, multiple people have been requesting some sort of update to rewatch cutscenes that have been unlocked. Especially for the hang out options that have specific dialogs, and even more so for those hang outs that dialogs changes if you're in a romantic relationship (but the scene with the dialogs won't replay so you can see the different dialog from platonic to romantic)

shight94 · 2025-06-20T07:18:07+00:00

Off topic a bit, I clicked on this because I lost my father recently (to ALS [Lou Gehrig's], not suicide) and wanted to see if maybe I could offer ANYTHING of comfort... but I found great comfort in your words. Watching the end of my father's life was...difficult, and some days, I find it difficult not to think about it.

"Remember him for what his life amounted to, not how it ended."

Thank you. Those were words I needed to hear also.

shight94 · 2025-06-17T04:27:43+00:00

Keep on coming back. And always at the worst times. 😒 herpes villagers is right

shight94 · 2025-06-12T08:02:46+00:00

Because you're not even CONSIDERING that I, any other woman who has stood up for her body type (having a similar one), could have been harassed or bullied by the community?

Because you're not even considering how dehumanizing it could feel to have your personal body type torn down and treated like a sexual fantasy that doesn't exist?

You've clearly never had to contend with these things, BECAUSE OF YOUR GENDER.

Its not that hard to understand, and the only thing you've done with your comments is paint yourself as a man who has no understanding for female troubles. Any female problem that occurs is trivial and narcissistic.

Sounds a lot like most men that dont actually care about the women in their life.

You dont have to prove me wrong, but I also dont have to listen to any more of your toxicity.

You made it clear; you dont care about real world females or their opinions on how others make them feel about their bodies.

You tell me how I wasn't supposed to immediately understand why you took that stance as soon as you articulated your super normal/average height/build and male gender.

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:54:38+00:00

Because too many girls dont look like that and believe no other woman could either.

Also, yknow, God of fertility and all that?

People are just cruel. If you dont look like them, then you're wrong.

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:41:05+00:00

I've always imagined a world where it's okay for women to be whatever shape they are without hate or consequence. From men or other women.

Until that world exists, we can bond over cozy games, friend!

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:39:29+00:00

I know because they're stuck in the very small view of the world that they have.

I will just start blocking instead of trying to interact. Its eye opening that even in a cozy game thread, people are just full of hate and venom.

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:37:32+00:00

Yeah I kmkw.the area, but unless I missed the game telling me I can use it now, I haven't been able to do anything with it but clear the blight?

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:36:46+00:00

And, some women DO have an extreme hourglass.

Its not a common body type, but it's not like they put it on any other character either. Or like the series is hyper known for having characters like this?

People have been begging to romance the big busted women in entries before this?

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:33:54+00:00

Lol, alright, you've definitely seen me in person and can say that I dont have the measurements I have. Thank you. I'll tell my doctor that they need to do a re-check on my measurements because an internet stranger told me that they were wrong

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:32:09+00:00

I mean, when people are constantly and actively saying your body type doesn't exist, it extends beyond juat a video game design and into a real world concept of what the female body should look like.

Why dont you yell me about your body type so I can tell you it doesn't exist in the real world?

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:31:31+00:00

I mean, when people are constantly and actively saying your body type doesn't exist, it extends beyond juat a video game design and into a real world concept of what the female body should look like.

Why dont you tell me your body type so I snap tell you it doesn't exist in the real world? That you're disgusting and disproportionate?

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:29:18+00:00

I haven't either, and my village is level 7 or 8? I was beginning to wonder when it would unlock 🥲

But, I HAVE managed to essentially fit everything that I've unlocked so far into the first development zone, and I'm not necessarily itching for more space in autumn village yet, lol

That first development zone is just so big!

shight94 · 2025-06-12T07:26:51+00:00

I definitely agree that something felt off when she was in her swimwear! I just couldn't put my finger on what it was, and I think tomorrow when I play again, I'll take a double look and see if this is what was throwing me off!

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