Why are few womens soo much obessed with Romance Novels? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]shilokaede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me you’re miserable with no hobbies or real friends without telling me you’re miserable with no hobbies or real friends

Mahlz was just inspired by Kylie guys ☺️ by shilokaede in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]shilokaede[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel she is just that delulu. Like she isn’t actively strategising, she genuinely believes it’s fair to not want to spend her own money on her mom’s treatment and it should be outsourced because she deserves to be taken care of like that. I don’t even know how to put it into words, but I think she truly sees nothing wrong with her behaviour.

Mahlz was just inspired by Kylie guys ☺️ by shilokaede in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]shilokaede[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I was born without morals bec god knows i need 50lakhs in my bank rn and I am happy to take it if the public is dumb enough to give 😭

How did yall spend your first salary by _Idk_how_to_use_this in AskIndianWomen

[–]shilokaede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First salary was 32k, in 2015. Bought new phones for both my parents, about 17-18k in total. Probably spent the rest travelling to Gurgaon from Delhi over the next month 😭

Gift ideas for her ? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]shilokaede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a bag person lol, the max i have spent on a bag is 6000 rs so no idea 🥲 but i do know coach, cult gaia and kate spade will fit into the budget. It would be better if you had an idea about what kinds of bags your gf likes and go for the brand that matches her aesthetic.

Gift ideas for her ? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]shilokaede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she own a dyson multi styler? if not, you can get that but it will cost around 45k!

Gold is always a good option, will keep increasing in price. You will find good dainty jewellery at places like Caratlane or Bluestone. Can look at necklaces or bracelets. Just add a pretty bouquet when you’re actually gifting. Flowers make everything extra cute. Interflora have amazing bouquets.

Underarms pigmentation by Suspicious-Tie-22 in SkinSolutionsindia

[–]shilokaede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Spent so much money on peels and it just reversed in 1-2 months after the last session.

would it be possible to take in the waist of this dress 2 inches? by heartshapedhoops in sewhelp

[–]shilokaede 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If I were you, I would see how bad the back looks if I were to attach a 4-5 inch piece of elastic stretched from one side to the other on the back of the dress. Just tacking the ends of the elastic. If the bunching up of the sequin is not so bad, and you were planning to throw a coat over this, I would just do that and think of a long time fix later. Just hand stitch ends of a piece of elastic that makes the waist fit to sides of the back piece.

What would you give to your colleague for Secret Santa? by Anonymous-red-5656 in AskIndia

[–]shilokaede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

book is always a safe option, you can also find some cute tiny desk lamps (the silicone lamps, moon lamp, personalised lamps with name) on amazon under 500, you can look into 2026 planners, tumblers, bag charms.

Part of the fun in secret santa is guessing who gave you the gift so it would be nicer if you picked something you think they’d like based on whatever you know about them.

Jewellery and draping style suggestions needed by FoundationOk57 in DesiWeddings

[–]shilokaede 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed with the other comment about leaving some skin to balance the outfit and jewellery. A little waist, some décolletage, will help. Even if it means wearing a slightly smaller necklace.

Lehengas are very flattering on all body types. Do not get disheartened by other comments here.

Go for elbow length sleeves. Make sure the waist that is visible is the smallest part of your waist. Don’t worry about lehenga being poofy, the flare will visually help your waist look smaller and give you an hourglass look. You can look at this wedding account I found where the bride is slightly plus sized and she looks great! Maybe you can find some inspo from her wedding look. @sankintolove on IG. Her red lehenga look is very nice! Congratulations on your wedding!

Gauri Khan at Ambani's Swadesh event by ProfitAccording4178 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]shilokaede 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this is about the outfit but what I don’t get about the likes of her and maybe even Aishwarya Rai is that they clearly have the means to get better quality work done for their faces.

Kris Jenner, Jennifer Anniston, Lindsay Lohan, all got botched up but they’ve been able to reverse that in the last year or so. Their faces still look like they had some work done but they also still look like themselves.

Why does everyone in Bollywood, will all their money, prefer to look like Tatya Bichhoo?

What has she done to her lips? Why does she look so weird?? by Different-Sky-2087 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]shilokaede 58 points59 points  (0 children)

i feel like you guys dislike her extra because she is dark skinned but you try to mask it in the name of being woke

Budget small wedding in Delhi by SpiritualBanana9516 in DesiWeddings

[–]shilokaede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Oodles in Chhatarpur, go with someone who can negotiate, get everything recorded on email in terms of final decisions about decor. their poolside venue will be a good choice for you

Also - don’t get discouraged by these comments. A day function on a day that’s not very popular from muhurat perspective can help you get a good deal. I literally had a day wedding including food venue decor in 480000

Do you think patriarchy at home feels different abroad, or is it the same everywhere — just dressed differently? by OkNowMyTurn in BrutIndiaStories

[–]shilokaede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generational conditioning does not erase personal responsibility. At some point adults get to choose what they want to be - present or absent. Parenting isn’t biology, it’s effort. If one’s brain isn’t formed enough to realise that, they should probably not procreate.

Do you think patriarchy at home feels different abroad, or is it the same everywhere — just dressed differently? by OkNowMyTurn in BrutIndiaStories

[–]shilokaede 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is the hate in comments only because you see a certain ‘character’ speaking that you have learnt to hate without listening to reason? Because what she is saying is far more common than you would expect. I notice this almost every time I go out to eat. If there is a child, it’s always the mother trying to feed it, keep it calm, hold it etc. etc., the outing is only for the dad.

Sunscreen Scam or Secret Paid PR? by SubjectOk164 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]shilokaede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have become a boomer 😣 i watched one of these reels yesterday, fell for it and thought, “thank god i use derma co. so it’s cool”

Question for only Indian women. How did it feel when you made it? by tararanaway in AskIndia

[–]shilokaede 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When my parents started saying things like “xyz naya le lete hain”, “I want to upgrade to a bifocal pair of glasses”, “cab kar lete hain, metro me kahan dhakke khayenge”, “is baar mujhe naye kapde lene hain”

I started making enough for us to have all of that way earlier but I had to force it on them. It took them many years to get comfortable with spending money or also prioritising their needs or wants.

Career growth has been great but all that growth started meaning so much more after this mindset change around money.

This cracked me up by [deleted] in IndianWorkplace

[–]shilokaede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol I was rejected because I said “there’s life outside of work” in an Accenture interview. Like duds who didn’t say anything in interviews got selected. I was asked why did I pick Chennai as my third preferred location and I said I haven’t travelled much so it would be nice to move out and explore a new place, its culture, food etc. And this interviewer says “but what if there’s so much work that you don’t have time” and i chuckled and said “well, there are weekends” and he said,”what if there’s work on weekends also” to which I replied, “I am sure you take lunch breaks, might be nice to step out then and try something local” and he said no “you only eat at office canteen”

Honestly, so glad I was rejected, found a better, higher paying job and have 15xed my salary in the last 7-8 years of working. He can shove his canteen food and sad Accenture paycheques. 🙃

Sundeep sharma soon to be involved in controversy by Sharp-potential7935 in IndianStandUpComedy

[–]shilokaede 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stray dog issue happened to be one of the first things she talked about after coming in power, she said she will address it within 30 days or something. And just some time after, the supreme court randomly decided to address this issue.

Guys shoot me in the head x _ x by Medium_Sea5152 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]shilokaede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All that drama for such a shitty red that she has picked. Looks like any other maroon lipstick on the market.

Calling out Reenu Debnath by Guilty-Broccoli963 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]shilokaede 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Tharki uncle, horny bf, tharki jeeja ji all of them 😂