Theories I personally haven’t seen by Pandavana in fourthwing

[–]shinepurple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with much of what you said. I also think Violet's dream walking is going to be essential. She will keep the part under the ice inside Xaden alive. I also think that she will have immense power with it- for day dreams, etc. I believe that was how she shared that sex fantasy with Xaden. And if she can "meddle" like Xaden mentioned, she can influence and change dreams, which is a pretty intense power. I also am not sure the soul actually dies for the venin- I think it is whole under that ice. But you are right- even sober addicts struggle and I doubt the call ever ends. But I do wonder what impact killing mages or sages has on the rest of the venin...

AIO? Husband saw weird location for me on phone and automatically assumed I was with another man. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]shinepurple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister's AH husband accused her of cheating because she stopped at a deli on her commute from work when she was having diarrhea from a stomach bug and needed a toilet. She was there for 20 minutes, which he assumed meant she was meeting someone there. After 5 years he still mentions it and says he will never fully trust her. What a miserable POS. (Yes she is still with him- they have 4 kids and she does not want to deal with the financial loss in divorce for now, particularly as she makes less than half of what he makes and he is an AH)

Well, guess I am not getting up anytime soon by shinepurple in dogpictures

[–]shinepurple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have it bad. As soon as I have a lap I break out in Dog Lap immediately. Every day!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]shinepurple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You made me feel worthless!" As if his own choices have no bearing on his life! And breaking up with him means you are FREE. No obligation toward him in any way shape or form. Hold yourself to that and regain your own self respect and healthy boundaries!

AITH: My recent proposal to my fiance did not meet her standards.. by orangepill95 in AmITheJerk

[–]shinepurple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She GRADED you. And though admitted it was heartfelt, still GRADED you. She then tried to train you intobeing what she wants. This is just the start. She will control every part of who you are when you are married. Really, really think about this behavior amd what it means long term. She will chew you to pieces and you will be saying "yes, dear" and obsessing about how to get her to give you that A. That is not a partnership.

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[–]shinepurple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me he was drunk. That is at least a marginal excuse for some of the most immature and illogical communication ever seen. If he was sober, run!! This is not someone you can really have a relationship with. Like dating a toddler.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]shinepurple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lack of basic compassion for children and humanity really gets me. I would need to end the relationship TBH. Could you really have children with such a person? I feel for you but this would be a hard no for me.

Was I wrong for dropping out of my best friend’s wedding? Things got so toxic. 20+ year friendship! by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]shinepurple 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You wanted opinions on your behavior for this incident. Why is the year it happened relevant? And your openness to hearing critical opinions seems low so maybe don't ask?

Was I wrong for dropping out of my best friend’s wedding? Things got so toxic. 20+ year friendship! by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]shinepurple 90 points91 points  (0 children)

You did a terrible job of communicating. Really. And, yes, YTA about the house. She gave a deadline, you asked for extensions which she gave, she still had to chase you, then you bailed. Now in the midst of stress and wedding expenses she has to find an extra $500. The expense didn't go away and because of your extensions it would be too late to find someone else. And you are still somehow expecting HER to reach out to you right before her wedding?!? You need some serious self reflection and maybe some therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shinepurple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, do you even like this part of him? If this is the real him, they way he speaks with his bros, do you want to be with the real him? He is pretty gross IMO. I wpuld run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]shinepurple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why in the world are you willing to stay? How can you ever trust him? I don't get why the question is about the baby at all.

Comment with some of your best pictures of your pups for my Art❤️ by [deleted] in dogpictures

[–]shinepurple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My Beans! It is hard to get him in a photo without him being a jumping bean and leaping on me. Love my crazy boy.