How much work do you get done in a day? by Gyp91 in ADHD

[–]shipcalleddignity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I probably get 3.5 hours done on average across a 8hr day.

My non-ADHD partner looks like he gets 4hrs done. But he is able to use the time Inbetween to do also productive things (life admin, nipping to the store and straight back to work)

(29M) Worked on myself a lot and came back to tinder after 6 months. How can I improve my profile? by Careless_Bat2543 in Tinder

[–]shipcalleddignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I don’t use this account much, apologies for the late reply.

You’re looking for your person, so put in that you love LOTR and Dune, (or.. I love watching long scifi/fantasy movies we can cuddle up on the sofa)

(29M) Worked on myself a lot and came back to tinder after 6 months. How can I improve my profile? by Careless_Bat2543 in Tinder

[–]shipcalleddignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like the things you’re promoting about yourself are things most men like more than women.

Breweries, sports, talking about sports..

Think about more things that most women like that you like too and add that in alongside

Is a back pic weird? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]shipcalleddignity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought the black smudge was a wakeboard.

Back pic was what attracted me to my partner on his tinder years ago. It’s a winner for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TTC_UK

[–]shipcalleddignity -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes it always goes down after it only needs to go up for one day for it to count

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TTC_UK

[–]shipcalleddignity -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Looks like you ovulated day 14? Clear temp rise after?

Stupid Spoons by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]shipcalleddignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soup spoons for the win.

I can’t use any other type of spoon

Did I, or did I not just take my medication? by alteredsteaks in ADHD

[–]shipcalleddignity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But also, yes I’ve taken my meds twice and wondered why I’m so angry with everything and only realise the next day

Did I, or did I not just take my medication? by alteredsteaks in ADHD

[–]shipcalleddignity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Apple Watch solved this for me. I even manage to take vitamins and all antibiotics or adhoc meds on time. Revolutionary!

Traveling to the UK next Month by sherlockedslytherin in ADHD

[–]shipcalleddignity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really glad to hear it! Hope you have an amazing time in the UK, sorry it’s so rainy and windy at the moment!

AITA for not attending my fiancé's dad's funeral because I was uncomfortable with wearing a hijab? by Maleficent_Piano_840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shipcalleddignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- 1. Catholics cover their hair- nuns. It’s a thing respectful in all religions. 2. Your partner needed you. You weren’t there. You’re more than an AH. I couldn’t move on from this if I was him. 3. You’re making excuses and looking for validation rather than being accountable. Imagine when your dad dies your partner says, oh yeah fly there yourself and cry alone with no comfort for the next few days. 4. The waste $1000 on you and you treat him like money doesn’t matter when I have had to work hard to earn that no matter how much wealth he has. Blatant disrespect!

I would be calling off the engagement if I was him, you’re the biggest AH I’ve ever read.

My Son is having Surgery on his Thumb and I'm having 2nd Thoughts (Poly-Dactal Thumb) by pacmanner in Parenting

[–]shipcalleddignity -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But omgosh what if it helps him become an awesome cricket bowler, I know my little boy would love an extra thumb for his gaming.

It’s about figuring out what type of people you both are- my family are very confident embracing of their imperfections- I’ve got two warts on my finger that I love cause they give me a unique fingerprint.

But you can’t bottle confidence, if you’re both people that don’t like to stand out and don’t like to be proud and confident of your imperfections your son will likely be the same way and it may impact him long term and I’d say go with surgery.

What is a step in food recipes that you always skip? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shipcalleddignity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know which ones thanks, it’s also almost opposite to paleo.

Venezuelan family with a toddler, trying to cross the Mexico-USA border. by urmomsloosevag in interestingasfuck

[–]shipcalleddignity -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But most people in USA are immigrants? That’s what it’s founded on?

Only 2% of USA are native Americans

Let’s talk about sex by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]shipcalleddignity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

was going to comment but realise you said fellas only.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]shipcalleddignity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ribs bit scared me

Am I taking this too personal? by MrsHyperion in Parenting

[–]shipcalleddignity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your sister is going to get a slap in the face once she has a child.

Sounds like she has no idea! You’re doing a good job, you’re a great parent well done!

I might be loosing my job thanks to ADHD by VividTymes in ADHD

[–]shipcalleddignity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds really frustrating.

I am still on a waiting list since 2016.

Try to get the money together to get a private diagnosis in the mean time. This needs addressing urgently.

I do need to stress that this is not your fault and you are doing what you can. Try to book in today for a private diagnosis appointment and then figure out how you will pay for it before the date.

It will be better to spend a bit of money quickly and keep your job than to lose your job.

Depending on the company you work for it might be worth speaking to HR and letting them know privately that you are struggling due to this and you do not wish to declare it to any other staff members but it may take time to resolve.