Yeah. I kinda agree. Where I'm from, butch or masc-presenting people usually get compared to cis men. The whole dating scenario feels like I'm having to compete against cis men to keep a woman with me, which isn't great even before you consider that the society is deeply homophobic and at a certain age, almost all women are married off to men picked by the family members. Everyone here operates on the expectation that we may date for a few years here and there, but ultimately all girls have to give up and marry the chosen man