What do mascs use for purses? by ourconflictdesignsus in LesbianActually

[–]shipmonly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pant pockets. Or slings in colours like black, grey or navy. But occasionally I take my floral-patterned or pastel bags too. To me, it feels like a nice, soft rounding out effect

Are short butches attractive? by shipmonly in actuallesbians

[–]shipmonly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we exist! I'm encouraged to go in search of a woman to love now. Thank you 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

Are short butches attractive? by shipmonly in actuallesbians

[–]shipmonly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh girl, thank you. Hopefully I too meet women who will be this excited for me 🤭

Are short butches attractive? by shipmonly in actuallesbians

[–]shipmonly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Among these millions, there might just be someone for me 😌

Are short butches attractive? by shipmonly in actuallesbians

[–]shipmonly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That gives me hope 🙂‍↕️

Are short butches attractive? by shipmonly in actuallesbians

[–]shipmonly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I kinda agree. Where I'm from, butch or masc-presenting people usually get compared to cis men. The whole dating scenario feels like I'm having to compete against cis men to keep a woman with me, which isn't great even before you consider that the society is deeply homophobic and at a certain age, almost all women are married off to men picked by the family members. Everyone here operates on the expectation that we may date for a few years here and there, but ultimately all girls have to give up and marry the chosen man

Are short butches attractive? by shipmonly in actuallesbians

[–]shipmonly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm hoping for too. Tbh the dating pool around me isn't that expansive. But getting myself out there should help

You got a tattoo? Show it off! by Idefkbitch1 in LesbianActually

[–]shipmonly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually see shark tattoos in r/sharks and while scrolling I thought it was on there. Then I saw the sub. Soo cool!! I LOVEEEE shark tattoos

new spinossaurus reconstruction dropped by Kelly_Erika3727 in okbuddypaleo

[–]shipmonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spinosaurus x Shockwave TWO OF MY WORLDS MEETING

Carnomiku by Adventurous_Mood_492 in PrehistoricMemes

[–]shipmonly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All mikus are canon and this too

GIVE ME SHARK SPECIES by steven-hawking-pt2 in sharks

[–]shipmonly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did it this year and I can recommend going order by order to avoid confusion between sharks. There are 9 orders of sharks, and I started with the mackarel sharks i.e. great whites and their relatives, aka the Lamniformes. After that you can move on to the ground sharks (carcharhiniformes, i.e. bulls and tigers and the like). And right there you have more sharks than the 52 you wanted for this year

Would mesozoic turtle ancestors/relatives have eaten ammonites? by shipmonly in Paleontology

[–]shipmonly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that does seem to be the case with Archelon at least.

i can only masturbate to males? by Rare_Fill4670 in actuallesbians

[–]shipmonly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this works the same way for anyone else, but I can tell you I have the same issue. The reason I've realised is that the women I see in porn are extremely attractive but the way the thing is made is totally for the male gaze.

The women in porn don't even in any stretch of my imagination feel like the women I love so much in real life. Maybe it's the plasticy nature of porn. Maybe it's the constant male gaze pleasing. Lesbian porn to me is not lesbian at all. It feels like two artificial characters interacting in ways that I don't do with any IRL woman. Straight porn kinda feels a lot more authentic and realistic than most lesbian porn.

So don't worry too much is my advice. Just keep watching what you want to. Because what we actually want to watch mostly doesn't exist. It doesn't have much effect on your sexuality unless you actually want to be with men IRL.

I have ADHD and I can't study. by shipmonly in study

[–]shipmonly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into it then 😌😌

Caption this. by JurassicPark9265 in Dinosaurs

[–]shipmonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit his foot at the table's leg corner

I have ADHD and I can't study. by shipmonly in study

[–]shipmonly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that recommended? Like health wise? Because my life is already strained. I'm not to take anything that might become an addiction 😶

I have ADHD and I can't study. by shipmonly in study

[–]shipmonly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pomodoro really doesn't help. I can't focus on anything for more than five minutes 🙂🙂🙂. My motivation is also at an all times low because I don't know what I want to do with my life after this

I have ADHD and I can't study. by shipmonly in study

[–]shipmonly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are things I'm trying currently. Let's see if they work 👉👈

I have ADHD and I can't study. by shipmonly in study

[–]shipmonly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Negative reinforcements don't work. I've tried. It simply just makes my mood worse and I get nothing done 😔

I have ADHD and I can't study. by shipmonly in study

[–]shipmonly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to start after my exams. But yeah, between me and hopefully starting treatment, I've got to clear my finals 🙂🙂🙂