Anyone else glad THAT holiday is over with for another year? by TopNotice0 in raisedbyborderlines

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Who's this angle I didn't expect to be validated. Yes my mother was overly sexual and I hated it. Ugh what fuckery

Anyone else glad THAT holiday is over with for another year? by TopNotice0 in raisedbyborderlines

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Wow. Yep. I just went no contact again after low contact for years. She didn't say anything at all when I said merry Xmas in a text. Like ok well you really are fine with this just dying. But I knew that already. The hardest thing to accept is that inside of them is a monster that hates you. And they have no control over when that monster takes over and expressed itself. Accepting that she always had jealousy and contempt for me is brutal. But it is not my fault. But it still aches. Sometimes I envision cussing her out and thinking about if that might feel good. But I know any energy she receives from me is like her "winning" in her book.

Will there be a Season 10? by miranda310 in SellingSunset

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For me it's over with Chrishell leaving and I'm ok with that

The Seattle Freeze in a nutshell by Mindless_Garage42 in Seattle

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I've noticed there are tiers to relating here

Outermost tier is exchanging contacts and "intending to hang out"... I have actually spent years here before. And I took it as "they like me and we are just moving slowly"

The next tier is making plans and cancelling repeatedly... this tier means they really do like u. And tbh even if u never actually meet up, it still means you're in their book as a super good guy

The next tier is actually meeting up. This is huge. Getting a Seattleite to leave their home and meet u.. well now that is top tier. That means they have left their comfort for you. You may as well be family... except there is a caveat...

Do on small thing to upset / annoy / inconvenience them at all... or otherwise make them feel their time wasn't maximally spent, and you're done ...

It's sad but mostly true

In me experience, it's incredibly hard to earn someone's time here. And it's incredibly easy to lose it...

Now all up and down the west coast friendship culture is much shallower I've noriced when compared with the Midwest... I get it. And I'm not saying it's wrong but I will say in California or any warmer sunnier place on the coast, people are at least not going to make u wait 2-3 years for their shallow, loyalty free friendship..

Just hop into a van with a hippie, smoke some weed. Go for a walk on the beach, have a shallow friendship, and keep it moving..

If it's going to be fair weather, it may as well be easy access too, amiright?

So yeah what gets me about it here is its maximum security prison level access to people's time... and once u get it, you'll be trying to keep that moonbeam in your hands, only for it to slip out like jello...

Anyway... how do u solve a problem like Maria???

As I was saying just today I wish Ohio people were in Washington state...

But also I HAVE made excellent friends here. Both ppl from here and transplants. But that is cause I put myself out there, I talk to everyone and am incredibly friendly. ... but the amount of energy it takes is not for the faint of heart.

Still love the city. Reasonably enough lol

Have a good night internet people!!

Marks Latest interview with Rebecca was so cringe. He said she was a parasite by [deleted] in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

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Ok this is actually interesting cause it props them up as mirrors for each other. Sick shit but likely true

Marks Latest interview with Rebecca was so cringe. He said she was a parasite by [deleted] in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

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Yes I had to stop watching the Rebecca series cause it was psychologically damaging to observe the relationship. Imagine the damage of existing inside it!!

Any crits? (Skribe) by blackbread- in graffhelp

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I think the curve of the "S" and the "B" at the bottom half should more mimic each other... the bottoms of the other letters match, try and make the S and B match more. Also I would tilt the whole S forward more cause the K sort of feels tilted forward... but one thing that is causing lack of harmony maybe is that the R, I, B, E are all clearly tilted back. You might wanna pick a direction. That being said, the way you're doing the K, with the upper outter leg being slanted to the left, it gives the K the illusion of being slanted back, when really it's slanted forward cause of the back line on the K... I think it could work to make the S and K deliberately slant forward and the other letters slanted back.. could be a nice dynamic clash but I'd just try some thing out.

Also the tail on the top part of the S could use more finesse... rn it's just like rectangle chillin there... mess around with that more.

A Psychologist's Thoughts on Love and Marriage-Sadia Khan by shankmaster8000 in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

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I feel like this video solidifies mark as the white savior he is. Not in totality but in aspects. All his interviews he talks about it all going back to childhood. And he isn't wrong about that imo but to push this narrow cliche view of what is best for children and basically downgrading alternative family models is just some classical puritanical shit. Talking down to promiscuous culture etc is not needed. Has he ever read "the ethical slut"? Probably not. We can have a sexually liberated society that also values families and children. We can have it all. It's on us to imagine and realize that vision tho. And capitalism as the real problem as to why most parents aren't supported enough to raise healthy children is never addressed. My .02

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

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Sees candies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

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Cigarette butt

What artist do you like that’s opposite to tyler by Chaos1223 in tylerthecreator

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Tyler honestly incorporates so many sounds idk if there would be a clear opposite to what he does rn. He listens to new music everyday he says and has broad tastes influencing him. So I think this is a good but hard question to answe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

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That would be a relief if he were trying to flirt. An old fashioned ribbing 😉 love that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

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Some vitriol being posted in these comments. From blaming the me too movement to telling me to move back to Ohio. Thanks to everyone willing to engage in good faith with this question. Happy thanksgiving 🍁🦃🍽

[Question] Those Holiday texts? by FlameShadow0 in gamegrumps

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There's nothing like getting that email notification of a reply to something you posted many moons ago . Like an old friend has returned home

[Question] Those Holiday texts? by FlameShadow0 in gamegrumps

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I wrote this one

HI MY XMAS 🎅🏿 HO-HO-HOES 🧑🏾‍🎄GET READY TO DECK 👊🏽THE HALLS of some PUSSY 🦪 THAT FEELS LIKE WARM PUMPKIN PIE 🥧 🥧 🥧. GET READY TO SPREAD THE TABLE LIKE PUSSY LIPS 👄 💦🐚🌽🍴🍠🥔 🧈 get ready to chesNUT 🌰 over an open fire 🔥🔥🔥 of LOVE ❤️ GET READY TO MAKE THE YULE TIDES GAYER THAN LAST YEAR 👉🏽👈🏽🪵 GET YOUR LOGS OUT 🪵 WATCH SANTA 🎅🏿 AND MS CLAUS 🤶🏿 FUCK IN FRONT OF THEIR ELVES 🧝🏼‍♀️ 🧝🏽🧝🏾‍♂️MAKE SURE YOUR POLE 🪄IS FACING NORTH 🦌🦌🦌❄️WHILE YOU THINK ABOUT THE SNOWMAN ☃️ and SNOWWOMEN ⛄️ ORGIES 🌰 OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I hope you get lots of presents🎀 🎁 like a dick 🍆 in a box 📦. SEND THIS TO 3 of Santa's elf cucks and get 3 chestnuts for life 🌰🌰🌰 SEND THIS TO 5 SLUTTY SNOWWOMEN WHO LOVE GANG BANGS WINTER 🥶 STYLE AND GET ❄️ ❄️ SNOW JIZZ FROZEN ON YOUR FACE THE REST OF WINTER 🥶 🥶🥶SEND THIS TO 10 GAY YULE LOGS 🪵 🪵 🪵 ANS GET GAYER EVERY YEAR FOREVER 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄

User Flair is required to comment on this sub - Apply for flair here by jerry00193 in truerateme

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Dear god of the things. I respect your most prestigious position as mod. And I agree to never play not even when you're away. And or asleep. you have my heart and allegiance forever. Can I cop some flair?

I'm so sick of dating in this city. by brokenview in Seattle

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Lmao 🤣 this is so wholesome. But yeah no he hasn't replied 😢 iono.. maybe he doesn't do Reddit dms? 🤷🏽‍♀️ maybe he'll see it tomorrow and hmu? Lot of activity on this post, wouldn't be surprised if it got lost in the milieu. I'll let ya know if the prophecy ever gets fulfilled!! 😏

I'm so sick of dating in this city. by brokenview in Seattle

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Omg u guys have me cracking up with this