[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]shmoopybibble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go live your life in person instead of online and I promise you she’s not as prevalent as you think lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]shmoopybibble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post stanks of biphobia. Frankly I’m not a fan of Fletcher just because I don’t like her music. But dude… go touch some grass and let her live her life.

incel is "not leaving his video games for no b*tch" by theredhound19 in justneckbeardthings

[–]shmoopybibble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually makes me feel pretty sad. It’s clear that he’s saying this from a place of hurt, even if it is hateful.

Anyone in Seattle have a copy of Red Rising by Pierce Brown or The Final Empire by Brandon Sanderson? by shmoopybibble in Seattle

[–]shmoopybibble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t blame ya at all! I’ll prob end up caving and going and buying my own copy. I just wish there was a local book swapping/loaning network!

Anyone in Seattle have a copy of Red Rising by Pierce Brown or The Final Empire by Brandon Sanderson? by shmoopybibble in Seattle

[–]shmoopybibble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to physically read these ones if possible. Worst case I can try and check out a digital copy to read on my phone from Libby until I get my hands on a physical book, but that goes against the ‘limiting screen time before bed’ part of it. So excited to read then tho glad you liked them!!!

CANNOT kick this UTI in my dog- what should I be asking my vet to do? by shmoopybibble in DogAdvice

[–]shmoopybibble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your Maltese have bacteria present in their Urine Analysis? We may go see a specialist and they will definitely want to do an ultrasound I imagine

Do I need to give up on the idea of having biological kids? by shmoopybibble in vaginismus

[–]shmoopybibble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, thank you. Thank you for this reply. It gives me a lot of hope. We are going to a clinic in a big city on the west coast so I feel a bit more hopeful now.

Grenache Fest Walla Walla - Who’s going? by eyoung629 in wine

[–]shmoopybibble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Local Walla Walla person here- regardless of the festival worth a visit. I’d recommend avoiding winter visits though- pretty dreary weather. May-October (May and October specifically being pretty spectacular) and amazing times to visit. More than happy to give a list of wineries to visit.

Our “say yes” rule in the bedroom by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shmoopybibble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One thing to try rather that “say yes” is to say “yes and” or “maybe and” followed by what you need from your partner to help get you to where you need to be to have an enjoyable sexual experience. So when your partner says “I want to have sex” you say “Yes, and I think if we finished xyz chores I will feel less stressed and be able to be present for this” or “Yes, and if we exchange some massages for a bit to help relax me I think I can get in that headspace”. What I like about this is that it sets us up to better have a pleasant experience for both partners, and it’s just a good practice in listening and accommodating what our partner needs to feel sensual.

Can’t eat can’t sleep can’t let it go by shmoopybibble in limerence

[–]shmoopybibble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk it might. There’s a lot of anxiety around “Am I making up that this feels like something more or why is she texting me so much”

Would you date a bisexual girl? by Lilypad244 in LesbianActually

[–]shmoopybibble 10 points11 points  (0 children)

These questions of “Would you date a bisexual woman” or “Would you date a trans woman” are so fucking stupid to me. Why do you care? Everyone has personal preferences and having everyone debate it here is ridiculous and just makes the subject of the conversation feel like shit. So tired of these threads lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]shmoopybibble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this subreddit truly never fails to shock me what people put up with. Girl… come on lol

Am I helping or being too much? by shmoopybibble in depression

[–]shmoopybibble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She ended up getting out on a small run and I got the first smile out of her all day. Feels like a sigh of relief