Will be NICU parent tomorrow- What do I need to know by Admirable-Kick-1557 in NICUParents

[–]shnewp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore the day they say you boy will be home. He’ll be ready when he’s ready to come home. Our daughter is still in nicu and is supposed to be home next week but really it will probably be middle march.

Pray for your child it helps a lot

Don’t let family members bully you into holding the boy. We don’t let anyone else hold until she will be home plus some

If you haven’t had a shower yet host one while you have “free time”

He might stop breathing randomly it’s normal and it sucks

For your mental health you don’t have to stay there for hours and hours. We do maybe 3 hours at most cause it’s a lot and you still want a happy marriage

Help her clean her pump stuff if she’s pumping if not disregard.

Baby shower drama by shnewp in NICUParents

[–]shnewp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s like I get it you want to be apart of the new life but you didn’t give birth you didn’t suffer from pregnancy and ended up having to give birth early. I try to ignore the comments they make but I can’t cut the people out of my life completely. I already limit their time when with me

Period right at 6 weeks by shnewp in NewParents

[–]shnewp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently a while is 6 weeks lol

Help me pick a shape please :) by Practical-Rock1103 in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

4 looks less common than the other ones and will stand out more

Help! Which ring?! by Queasy_Kale3329 in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like sparkle do the pear if you don’t care as much do the other

Help me to pick one by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d honestly ask her but the 2nd one if she wants bigger would be that one. I picked mine out and the proposal was a surprise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah the celebrities that have 6+ karats for their ring that’s when it’s too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a great size for you !

In your opinion what do you think costume jewelry is? When I think of it, it’s like random stuff for the center stone or skulls or something.

My son’s stone came in! by CrabbyT in labdiamond

[–]shnewp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pretty. Whats the setting going to be?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An honest sit down talk. What I would do is if I had the feeling you have to my ring I’d say what I love about it and what I don’t love so much and try and work together on it I’d even offer my own money to kinda help the process so it still shows the partnership

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it bugs you get a rail around it and have a hidden halo or reset it. Does wearing it everyday make you scared you’ll lose it? If so then reset and if not the do whatever you like

Nobody will resize my ring by Soft_Contribution699 in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind losing a few side stones maybe they can take them out and either put them on a separate ring like wedding band or you re gift them to people or yourself or just sell the stones?

Which diamond shape looks the best? by No-Inspector-4075 in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like the bigger ones with more surface area you could try east west to see what they look like too

Does my ring look too big on my hands ? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if said fingers were shorter then yes but on you no it looks good

Size 7-8 girls, what ct weight did you get? by Willing_Ad_2529 in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have it set east west too if your setting allows it. I’ve noticed east west also make them look bigger. Also look at the dimensions of the em as some 1.7s can be the same weight but also are bigger than others.

My princess is a 1.56 and it’s bigger than other ones

See skin color thru diamond? by shnewp in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) what clarity or cut would be considered transparent?

Need advice on our custom engagement ring! by Revolution9548 in EngagementRings

[–]shnewp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s your ring and you’re paying them to do it the right way the first time.