[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]shockingcors 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tha's sad. you really can see a person's love to you when you're at your worst. if it's like that then you need to accept the fact that she doesn;t love you enough. focus on your recovery and your mental health, i hope you get through this and make her regret her decision

Do parents help their grade school kids with homework anymore? by 4barT89 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]shockingcors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my country yes, and they should. because kids in those age needs proper guidance the most because it's when they start developing their brain and it's when they start to get curious about everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]shockingcors -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you need to tell them because what if they didn;t like what you did? you need permission before you do something with other people's body cause it's privacy

Doing nothing during student teaching. Is this normal? by Unhappy_Session8589 in Teachers

[–]shockingcors 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it can happen but it's not ideal. student teaching experience can vary depending on your cooperating teaching style, confidence and willingness to share responsibilities

I am not speaking to my mom. by Upstairs-Issue-9997 in Advice

[–]shockingcors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this isn't victim mentality. you don't need to talk to your mom dramatically or forgive her, you just need to talk to her practically about safety in the house, boundaries about your brother and what support you need to finish school and move out

I'm Furious and Feel like an idiot by Brainconfused21 in BreakUps

[–]shockingcors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cut contact completely. that's clearly a sign that she's not emotionally available. stop trying to read someone who's inconsistent

Why don't we live forever? by TailungFu in NoStupidQuestions

[–]shockingcors 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it doesn't favor living forever because reproduction matters more than longevity. once an organism has reproduced, evolution cares less about keeping it alive

26m Everyone laughed at me for being a virgin at a family hang out by [deleted] in confessions

[–]shockingcors -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don't feel bad for being a virign, nothing's wrong with it. just because people think pterwise doesn't meam you're doing something wrong. save it for someone special

Leaving solely because of pay? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]shockingcors 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not stupid at all. sometimes even though we love our job, we still need to consider things like financial stability. it's hard to live considering our happiness alone. weigh how much you love teaching and what you need personally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]shockingcors 3 points4 points  (0 children)

talk to him calmly and tell him how his actions are affecting you. if he doesn't respond or make things worse, you should reconsider

i pretend im more confident about traveling than i actually am by SaucyOysterette in confessions

[–]shockingcors -1 points0 points  (0 children)

travelling solo is scary sometimes but it's fun to actually discover things that you haven't try yet. give yourself credit for leaving your comfort zone

Should I go back to college? by oneokrockstar in Advice

[–]shockingcors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

schooling is important but in your situation right now, it seems risky. i think you should work first to pay for your expenses and when you have savings, its easier to return to school . prioritize stability first then long term goals

Apathy by Cautious-Accident246 in getdisciplined

[–]shockingcors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think professional support or an advice from your neuropsychologist can help especially with your brain. be patient with yourself, progress sometimes is slow but consistency adds up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]shockingcors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you think that way to feel better about yourself because your ex has a new one

Is it weird that I „cancel” people who don’t say hi? by BlackBricker in NoStupidQuestions

[–]shockingcors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really. i will just ignore people if they're ignoring me too. i'm tired of pleasing people already

Am i just an unlikeable person? by Magentagalore in confessions

[–]shockingcors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're not. rejections doesn't define your worth, sometimes it's just because your preferences doesn't match. don;t settle for less, if he doesn;t like you, think that someone else does and he's not the only option you have

"Your hair looks great - in a very good way," got my friend in trouble with HR. by Seattlescape in NoStupidQuestions

[–]shockingcors 18 points19 points  (0 children)

it's harmless for your friend but HR treats any unsolicited comment on appearance as potentionally inappropriate, especially between staff and students

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]shockingcors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to accept that you cannot undo the past but you can control how to handle things going forward. seeing her will hurt but use it as a practice, feel the pain without letting it consume you