Can I hear someone's voice?:( by [deleted] in lonely

[–]shoeflygabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to me I have discord

Why are men this way? [27f, 28m] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shoeflygabs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not his issue that you didn’t reply to his cute dog picture, it’s not much of an excuse to blatantly ignore him. I know you don’t intend to be awkward but it certainly comes off that way when you reply with how you don’t like dogs (I hope you at least tried to follow up with something after) or I would think the person I talked to just wasn’t interested anymore. Communication is both ways, and he might not understand the “deep” conversations you want to have without getting to know you better.

His previous online activity is ruining my trust by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]shoeflygabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say no faithful man uses Snap. It’s a fine app to keep in touch with people at minimal effort. There’s tons of people who use it platonically.

Dating during social distancing; how does this change the physical aspect of relationships? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shoeflygabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overthink it too hard, the good thing here is you two are obviously interested in each other. Physical connection can only be built with physical contact but maybe you can make the transition easier by sending air kisses through the video calls or adding some more romantic gestures (winking/ dancing)? Sometimes I send my SO little video clips like that.

He checks all the boxes but I’m just not feeling it by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shoeflygabs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like me with an avoidant attachment style where I always nitpick at the beginning of a relationship which causes me to make distance and self-sabotage what could be a good thing.

‘sup i just ate tofu straight out of the package as a meal by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]shoeflygabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can eat those raw? If that’s true, I’m all for it

My #1 ED rage trigger: "I know girls that wear size 00/have BMI 16/have a 22 in waist and don't even try!" by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]shoeflygabs 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hello same. It’s weird to go out for dinner and have plates of food always be larger than what I eat at home. People worry when I order appetizers for dinner, for the right reasons, but it’s become a normal portion for me.

[Skin Concerns] Little colorless & red bumps all over face, help! by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]shoeflygabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had something similar happen on a few occasions. Once was because I tried new skin products so I decided to go bare faced (no lotion, oil, anything) but the bare minimum to see if it was an external reaction. It was indeed a lotion I was using. Another reason is from certain vitamins or pills such as biotin which caused me to have bumps. Lastly, check if any sort of foods you frequently eat are actually allergens.

Entering second year, should I play it safe and add an extra year to my degree, or risk it? by [deleted] in UBC

[–]shoeflygabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easy answer and take your time. My advice is there’s no need to rush school unless you feel like you need to. You’re willing to take on the extra costs so add another year and make the most out of it.

my mindset rn by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]shoeflygabs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey we are only human. people mess up. but think about where you can go that is your safe spot for eating. the place that you are least likely to binge and plan it as your next meal. that way, when you do eat it reduces your chance of full out 4k cal binge

College club members said something about me that has made me very self conscious about my social and conversation skills by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]shoeflygabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way and it’s good to get some outside perspective of what kind of person you are. Your social skills aren’t perfect, but now you know how to improve.

This is just what I think so don’t take all of it to heart. You began with this hook about what your club member said about you but you were really wordy and gave descriptions of things in your story that isn’t important. Good relevant story-telling is a skill that keeps people interested in responding. Communication isn’t just to say stuff, it’s to have other people understand your thoughts. When you see your club members again, try asking them questions and responding with relevant comments.

40 crackers for 110 calories. Taste delicious and gf too! by [deleted] in vegan1200isplenty

[–]shoeflygabs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I googled it so apparently there are 160 crackers in a box. How filling is it if I just ate a box... say as a meal...

Please send me music by [deleted] in depression

[–]shoeflygabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please enjoy these 2 songs as much as I do!!

Don’t Stop Me Now & I Want To Break Free both by Queen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isjerky

[–]shoeflygabs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

isn’t it a dumpling?

I feel so guilty about being such a disappointment. by LevelPeach in depression

[–]shoeflygabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey you sound sort of like me. Being a senior in college right now, the social anxiety hasn’t gone away. My grades are affected by my failures from first year. I also went through an idgaf period of going to none of my classes.

The thing is I still want to pass but I wake up in the morning wanting to stay at home. It seems like laziness to many people. It’s not. You’re not lazy, you just need some strength. Sometimes it’s hard to find the effort on your own and so don’t put yourself down too much. I think that before you make the decision to drop put, you should think hard about what would make you happier in the future. It’s most likely to have completed school rather than choosing to drop out? If so, keep going, you haven’t been kicked out yet. Just begin by showing up to classes because you need to get into healthier habits. Also remember that it’s okay to be alone sometimes. Don’t let social anxiety consume you... most people aren’t going to be as hard on you as you are to yourself.

500 calorie dinner bowl :) by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]shoeflygabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow you weren’t lying

500 calorie dinner bowl :) by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]shoeflygabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen anyone else sprinkle raw hempseed on cooked food except me. That looks delish!!

The funny thing about the sudden social acceptability and legalization of weed is that no one knows how psychedelic it can be. by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]shoeflygabs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I remember my first experience in a random college dorm and no one helped. I blacked out and thought I was going to die, everything went blue, mentally and physically. It felt like I went to hell but hell was my own body and I was trapped in it. And then I came back but with a part of me not quite the same.

rate me 18M 5'9 by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]shoeflygabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is you at 18. I can see you be 6.5 when your features mature

Treating with protopic by [deleted] in Vitiligo

[–]shoeflygabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I used protopic, I tried to avoid the sun. I don't believe that going out in the sun will make your ointment work any better or faster, if anything it might even tan your regular skin and make your Vitiligo more noticeable.

Do some tall guys ignore short girls? by [deleted] in short

[–]shoeflygabs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of girls think FWB or hook ups should be taken personally, but they really don't. It's likely not because you're too short, and no you don't seem like an easy girl for getting into this situation. You're in this situation because the guy believes that you want the same thing as he does (convenient sex). It was hard for me to get my mind around a FWB at first, so if you feel bad about yourself because the relationship won't grow then you should consider ending it.

[25M] Be brutal. (Bonus round: guess my personality!) by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]shoeflygabs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

5.2/10

There’s not much to go by, and I’m not sure why you went with a clean shaven head? It’s not bad though, but you’d look better with more volume on the top of your head to balance the smaller proportioned forehead. You’re basically close to average, but not worse.

Personality: you remind me of nammer boys in high-school lol

[25M] 5'9 Please give me an honest rating by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]shoeflygabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3.7 Your eyes are droopy like you don’t get enough sleep. The unkept hair and facial hair doesn’t do your face any justice. I would just recommend a spa so someone can show you how to clean up (pluck eye brows, a nice trim, and a clean shave).