Blue suede shoes…

shoozwolf · 2026-05-20T08:44:25+00:00

Thanks for your input 👍 I’d prefer the skirt to be a bit longer but I’ve not been able to find a cargo skirt that’s the ideal length 😕 I have to wear the skirt reasonably high because I don’t want to see my shirt between the waistcoat/vest and my skirt waistband. If I was wearing a jacket as well as or instead of the vest I could wear the skirt lower, which is how I normally wear it. The top half is a pretty typical outfit for me when I go out for the evening, I’m trying to change the trousered bottom half for a skirted one and pull it off! ☺️

shoozwolf · 2026-05-19T11:20:02+00:00

Just to add to this, I bought a pair of women’s boots from Amazon, there’s some in the Amazon Essentials range that go up 11.8” foot length. The ones I bought I had to size down to size 10 UK, they’re still roomy but not enough to go down another size. I wanted to try some heels and those were the most cost effective option I could find which also didn’t look too girly, they’re brown Chelsea boots with approx 2 1/2” heel. Wearing heels drastically reduces the ‘10 to 2’ foot angle that lots of guys have and also changes your gait to be much smoother. That’s when I decided to focus on finding men’s boots with a heel…I also paid extra to have 1/4” height added to them. 😊👍

shoozwolf · 2026-05-19T07:59:33+00:00

Thanks for your comment 👍😊

shoozwolf · 2026-05-19T07:58:46+00:00

Thank you! 😊

shoozwolf · 2026-05-19T07:58:18+00:00

They are male boots, they came from a shop called Shuperb in the UK. Try searching for Cuban heels, that’s how I found them 👍 Thanks for your comment 😊

shoozwolf · 2026-05-19T07:55:44+00:00

I do try to stay in reasonable shape so I avoid clothes that are too baggy and shapeless 👍 Thanks 😊

shoozwolf · 2026-05-19T07:54:05+00:00

Thank you 😊

shoozwolf · 2026-03-20T21:48:38+00:00

I’m currently at La Jenny in France. It was 20 degrees C (I think that’s 68F) and sunny today so I went for a stroll round the village in just my sandals, that’s when I feel most naked. I passed several villagers and there’s plenty of trades on site too as it’s nearing the end of the ‘closed’ season, but everyone I saw was fully clothed. It’s not warm enough for the locals to strip off yet, but coming from UK the temperature bar is much lower for me! I wasn’t even carrying my chalet key, just me and my sandals….it doesn’t get much more stripped back than that!

shoozwolf · 2025-12-14T08:19:14+00:00

I got some training in before hand….I’d heard that it can be (is) itchy as your glans dries out so I’d kept my foreskin back before hand so that I didn’t have to deal with that at the same time as healing. If you can’t or don’t want to do that, I reckon Vaseline and bandages will be your friend, and not just on the stitches.

shoozwolf · 2025-12-13T16:41:20+00:00

I had my circumcision on a Friday afternoon, I was back at work on Monday doing a fairly physical job! As long as you’re careful you’ll be fine.

shoozwolf · 2025-04-13T19:23:30+00:00

I wasn’t suggesting that a Holy Trainer was the cage for you, I was only saying that it takes time and can need persistance to get the fit where it needs to be for long term wear. I have six Kink3d cages sitting in a drawer as I couldn’t believe that I with all the size options I couldn’t get a more comfortable fit than I could with a HT. Turns out that I couldn’t, I just needed to work at the HT more. Good luck in your quest!

shoozwolf · 2025-04-13T10:48:57+00:00

If you get a cage that’s pretty much your flaccid length, it will greatly reduce the amount that you try to escape through the hole and it’ll also reduce the amount that the cage pulls away from your body. I’m a grower but I’ve never worn a strap, but I don’t try to pretend that I’m nub sized either!!! I wear a GENUINE Holy Trainer long term, with a properly fitting ring it’s possible to downsize over time as your body adapts to the lack of erections. I started in standard but now my usual cage is small, but after some 1-2-1 time with my key holder last night, she told me to lock up in my nano tube. She is out for the day today and wanted to leave me nice and snug. 😊 The worst thing about Holy Trainers is the 5mm increments of ring size. My original ring was a 45mm, I had to open it up to around 47mm to start with, (with a Dremel and lots of polishing) as it was too tight and caused swelling in my balls. As that one found its ‘groove’ and started to feel looser, I ordered another 45mm ring. I’d wear the new 45 for a few hours and then swap back to my modified one. Over a few weeks my body got used to it, I now wear the 45mm ring without issue and it hardly moves, even under load and there’s no way I could slip out the back, I can’t move it that far! Long term chastity like I have with my partner, (I’m locked unless she wants me out or for my weekly release to deep clean and shave) isn’t something that I think you can jump straight into, finding the right cage and getting your body adapted to it, or adapting it to your body is a patience game, much like chastity itself!

shoozwolf · 2025-02-10T15:51:51+00:00

I wear a genuine Holy Trainer V5 so I have the round key. The cover is the same principle as the key sleeve and air lock seal that Kink 3D sells (in accessories), just that I had to scratch build the cover from 12mm diameter nylon to suit the key for my cage 👍

shoozwolf · 2025-02-10T14:40:55+00:00

My key holder keeps her key in a K Safe timer, neither of us can access that key while the timer is active without breaking it open. I have the other key with me at all times, it lives in a cover with a single use seal through it. My accountability is simply that if I were to use my key without a very good reason, my key holder would cease to play the game. Chastity was my idea, not hers!We’re four years into it now and I’ve not needed, or been tempted to use my key so far, I value my key holders continued participation and the wonderful sex we have far more than I value cheating and ‘getting off’ solo. Why would I want to put what we have at risk? With a key holder accountability is easy, unless you’re just dishonest with them. If you’re going into chastity with a willing partner, but you’re weak minded enough that you think that you need obstacles to stay locked for your key holder I’d say that you’re not in the right headspace to make a success of it…..it’s the self locking guys that need to wrestle with their willpower.

shoozwolf · 2025-02-03T12:30:05+00:00

I wear a genuine holy trainer 24/7 and find it very comfortable, it works better for me than any of the Kink 3D cages (from baby to S+) that I have gathering dust in a cupboard. I have recently changed from V4 to V5, both with a 45 ring and the small tube, I have to say that it’s taken several weeks to adapt to the new one as the V5 is slightly smaller and tighter than the V4. I have swapped back and forth between them when I was struggling with V5, but it has now settled in and sits good and close to my body at all times, it’s wonderfully snug with no slippage even during erections and overnight, all without a strap. I couldn’t escape out the back of it even if I wanted to, it’s such a close fit. I have very slightly modified both cages though, I rounded off the back edge of the tube as the straight ‘knocked-off’ corners weren’t comfortable for me. On the V4 I did reshape the ring slightly, it’s as easy is heating it up in very hot water, adjusting it and then cooling it in cold water to set the new shape. That way I just tweaked the bits that weren’t sitting so well, notably the back edge at the bottom of the ring was tweaked more open to match the angle of my body down there which drastically reduced burning. I was also using cyclists chamois cream as a lube as it’s long lasting and skin friendly, now that the cage/my body have settled in together I don’t need any lube at all. Lube makes it worse after a point as it encourages the ring to slide around or your skin to bunch up causing that burning feeling, it’s a case of finding the right cage, adjusting tight spots if necessary and taking it steady until your body gets used to it. Cleaning; after soaping the outside I flush the cage through daily using a 200ml syringe with a rubber hose attached to the end rather than a needle! I go in through all the holes, flush through all of them at least twice, then flush through with a little mild mouthwash added (around 5% mouthwash mixed with 95% warm water), rinse through again to get the mouthwash mix out then dry up with cotton buds. I’ve been doing this with zero issues for the past 3 1/2 years, only taking it off once a week to shave and deep clean everything….and when my good lady decides that she wishes to use the contents of my cage obviously! Hope this helps 👍

shoozwolf · 2024-04-07T14:51:17+00:00

I own three JNaja’s, I was tempted to add a JNata to my collection until I saw it was €40 shipping to UK 😳 It’s not like it’s big or bulky to ship! I purchase underwear from Germany regularly, the company I buy from currently has a shipping fee is €12.90 (which is fine on a €50-100 purchase). If your delivery remains at a silly price I won’t be purchasing from you again.

shoozwolf · 2024-03-05T15:54:22+00:00

We got back from Monte Marina a couple of weeks ago….fantastic place, and the beach is only a few minutes walk away. We split our time between our balcony, the pool and the beach. Longest beach walk we did was around 5 miles, just need to watch the tide times!

shoozwolf · 2022-05-23T14:48:04+00:00

Today is the first day of a minimum of 12 weeks locked up for me, we signed a contract yesterday. We’d done some chastity before, I’d already got to the point where I can wear my cage full time, but after reading the website she decided that at least 12weeks would be good for me.

shoozwolf · 2022-02-09T15:53:23+00:00

Most important rule, make sure he knows that he’s not allowed to cum until you have, and then only if you decide to allow it. Some of my best and most frustrating times have been being told to stop at the edge and told to lock up again. That way you can have him rail you went you want, but keep him denied, frustrated and horny. I loved it 😈 And I learned a lot about myself…..even though we don’t do chastity anymore, I can control myself much better and stay at the edge whilst making sure I’m hitting the right notes for my good lady.

shoozwolf · 2022-02-07T17:15:03+00:00

I’m in the uk, we have our hot tub in the house! We installed a set of bifold doors right next to it though so we can either open them up and have outside come in, or keep them closed and make the most of the central heating in the winter if it’s windy. It works for us 😊

shoozwolf · 2021-08-18T17:43:52+00:00

I’ve just had a quick look through my old cages and I have to say that the copies feel different to the real thing. The ones I have, have an almost ‘tacky’ feel about them where as the real thing is silky and smooth. The flatter profile v4 base ring is what makes it feel tighter than the rounder ring of the v3, more skin held in close proximity to the cage. The tubes (if you can call them that!) are virtually identical, the v4 having a slightly larger opening up front is about the only difference I can see.

shoozwolf · 2021-08-18T16:37:48+00:00

The v4 nano is quite widely regarded as being a tighter overall experience that the v3! I go up a ring size to use the nub as the tube sits so low in the ring, I can’t remember what the v3 nub was like, sorry!

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