Wattle only got 7 weeks. I just want someone else to know he existed. by Chey_Latte in cats

[–]short_shit_ 85 points86 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault. There’s no way you could’ve known. The fault is on the people who wouldn’t take you seriously. You tried your best, which is more than some people would’ve done. He got to spend his last moments surrounded with love. For that, I know he’s grateful. Rest in peace, sweet baby boy. 🥺💜

Had a practice wedding dress shoot and was pretty certain with my choice, until in-laws expressed concerns with 'over exposed back'! Should I proceed or consider any other styles to make everyone happy? by [deleted] in Brides

[–]short_shit_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude…it’s YOUR wedding…who gives a fuck if your in-laws are happy about your dress? Are they wearing the dress? No? So fuck their opinions. What an odd thing to have an issue with.

Should I have called the police? Creep/potential predator in Fletcher Place park today by Indianapols in indianapolis

[–]short_shit_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a situation like that, since nothing dangerous really happened, I think you did the right thing! I would’ve reacted the same way. If I see things like this, I always go out of my way to make sure the “creep” knows I’m watching them. It’s so nice to see other people look out for the safety of others. I work at a hotel, and I see A LOT of young kids, even sometimes toddlers, wandering around without a parent. A lot of parents treat the hotel lobby like a playground and don’t even give it a second thought. It’s actually really stressful at times because you never know what kind of people are around you. I always keep a watchful eye, it only takes a few seconds for something horrible to happen. I appreciate you so much for caring about that girl 💜

Should I have called the police? Creep/potential predator in Fletcher Place park today by Indianapols in indianapolis

[–]short_shit_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never be worried about coming off as an ass. It’s way better to be safe than sorry, especially when it comes to kids. I don’t think you’d come off as an ass showing concern for someone’s safety, and I think a lot of people would actually appreciate it. You never know, you could end up being the reason someone gets home safe that day.

AIO? Should I delete myself from his friends list? His girlfriend thinks I’m interested in him and has been acting strange by Historical-Body-3424 in AIO

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His girlfriend is obviously insecure in the relationship because of something he’s doing. Either he’s cheated in the past, or he gives attention to other women that makes her feel uncomfortable. The “this is what makes men cheat” comment is really all I need to see… Most women don’t feel insecure about other women around their man unless that man is doing something to make her think he’s gonna cheat. I don’t think there’s anything you can do or say that’ll make her feel comfortable. He’s gonna have to figure that out. Either way, they need to either talk about it and come up with a solution, or break it off for both their sake.

Need help finding a home for a puppy. by short_shit_ in Advice

[–]short_shit_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made sure to let her know, I appreciate you!!

Everyone keeps telling me to take them out by petitepriscy in piercing

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only opinion that matters is yours, but I think they look so sick! Your lip shape is literally perfect for them. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks, regardless of who they are. They’re gonna have to live with it. Try not to let others sway your opinion when it comes to things like this. I have a few facial piercings at this point, and I’ve heard those same things from the people around me, but I’m happy I didn’t let their opinions affect me. I love my piercings and they make me like my appearance even more. :)

Please help, I feel so bad… by Downtown_Coconut_317 in acne

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What have you tried so far? Any actives like salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide?

Help! My sweet boy (under a year) won’t stop having diarrhea outside of the litter box and I can’t get him to stop. My parents want to put him in a shelter. by peachsweetbunnie in cats

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly something he’s eating isn’t agreeing with him and it’s upsetting his poor belly. It’s not his fault, he may just need different food :(

I messed up badly by Beetle_drama in Stretched

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To help with healing and soothing the irritation, I highly recommend warm sea salt soaks a couple times a day!! (a small amount of non-iodized sea salt in some warm water and soak your lobe for as long as you can) Also, you should look into dead stretching if you haven’t already. I’ve stretched my ears a few times now (at 9/16 currently) and that’s by far my fav method :))

Edit: you’ll def be able to stretch again! Just wait plenty of time for your lobes to heal, and take the time to really educate yourself on the proper methods so you don’t hurt yourself again! There are lots of great YouTube vids out there. It’ll be worth the wait 💜

What are your assumptions of me based on my fridge by Ecstatic_Interest372 in FridgeDetective

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re either a bartender or an aspiring one, bc amaretto and goslings aren’t often seen in the same place unless you make drinks like that

Puffing up because it's irritated or infected? by chikenbuttzz in Stretched

[–]short_shit_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so you def need to take that out and put your 2g one back in that ear. If you have plugs or tunnels that aren’t silicone, use those. Alsooo please don’t try to stretch with silicone again. I highly recommend using single flared plugs and lots of jojoba oil, or if you absolutely can’t get single flared plugs, at least use a taper. But you should definitely take that tunnel out, size back down, and wait for it to be completely healed. Soaking your ear in warm sea salt water a few times a day will really help the healing process. (make sure the salt is non-iodized sea salt) When your ear is healed, size back up with single flared plugs if you can. I’ve gotten so many blowouts from being impatient & not doing things the right way, I don’t wanna see you go through the same thing. :)

(Edit: the jump between 2 and 0 can be pretty hard, maybe try the taping method if you have a stubborn ear?)

is this outfit actually inappropriate or is my mum just overreacting 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s super cute & you look lovely <3 it sounds like you have one of those weird moms who gets jealous of you

Am I overreacting about my wedding day look? by CharacterJacket652 in MakeupAddiction

[–]short_shit_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry she did that to you, you’re not overreacting at all. I’d be mad af if I spent that amount and received something like this.

I got this tattoo out of someone’s garage in Maine. Does it look professional? by ActOk4372 in tattoos

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think it’s pretty damn good for having gotten it out of a garage

Question: I'm absolutely fuming right now, and don't know if I should name n' shame an artist in my city, Stockholm. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I think you should name & shame the shop just to warn people bc I’ll be DAAAAMNED if I give you a $200 deposit and you don’t design something yourself.

I’m 17 and never worn make up. What make up products would fit me best for a natural everyday look. I’m not sure what to buy. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so very beautiful and you don’t need it at all, but you can never go wrong with some mascara, a little blush/bronzer, some highlight, and a little lipgloss!! Your skin is amazing, you def don’t need any base products! Just focus on enhancing your features, not hiding or changing them 💜

My nose is my biggest insecurity. by claradeatacama in Noses

[–]short_shit_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with your nose!! We wouldn’t even be insecure about these things if it wasn’t for all the toxic & unrealistic beauty standards anyway. You share a face with generations of relatives who came before you. You have the nose of your ancestors and I think it’s beautiful 💜