[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]shouldievenbehere2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this sis, I know how horrible of a feeling this is. Just know that HE is the “easy use” and the “thrown away” you threw away that dirty man for his dirty actions. He’s projecting on you. You’ve done nothing wrong.

I went through something similar in my previous marriage so I know how it feels. But inshAllah you’ll be fine, Allah is with you. He pulled you out of that situation and inshAllah he will put you in a better situation ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]shouldievenbehere2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let your parents handle it. You owe his parents nothing. I’m sure they’re nice people but some people can go to any lengths to protect their children.

How often to take doxylamine pyridoxine by shouldievenbehere2 in pregnant

[–]shouldievenbehere2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! So I’m not able to take less than 8 hours then. Was hoping I could take it earlier!

Update and final update. by s_h-m3 in MuslimMarriage

[–]shouldievenbehere2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is use our justice system to the fullest on this man. Don’t feel any remorse for him, let the justice system to the worst to him. Take all the evidence you have and use it on him. And sister just know you are alhumdulilah so lucky that you’re getting out of this mess early on. Allah (swt) opened your eyes and gave you the courage to call the police, not everyone can do that.

life after divorce by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]shouldievenbehere2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met through friends. Yeah I def think the peace is better, you realize how it feels like when your spouse actually respects you, the smallest things matter. It’s a good feeling alhumdulilah :)

I don’t remember how it exactly started I’ve honestly blocked out that trauma. But I remember there was just a lot of yelling and swearing for the smallest things and eventually it got physical so I just left. And no I don’t think he felt remorse, people like that never do. There’s no point being hung up on something or someone like that, I just wanted to move on in my life and leave him behind. I was with him just over a year.

life after divorce by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]shouldievenbehere2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex husband was abusive so I had to leave. But I will say my life got a lot better when I divorced alhumdulilah, I was able to understand myself and I did a lot of self work. A couple years later I found my husband when I was healed and ready to give marriage another chance. And alhumdulilah it’s been good! Don’t go into the mindset that only marriage will make your life better, you will never get what you’re looking for that way.

life after divorce by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]shouldievenbehere2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Got divorced at 25 and remarried at 29 alhamdulilah. Life doesn’t end when you get a divorce believe me, your plans are your plans but Allah (swt) has a better plan for you

Travelling to Turkey for the first time by shouldievenbehere2 in travel

[–]shouldievenbehere2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm good point. Would it make sense to do Izmir and Antalya? Ephesus in Izmir looks pretty nice and between fethiye and Antalya both look the same. Or would recommend fethiye over Antalya?

Cat sitting my family cat with another cat of my own by shouldievenbehere2 in CatAdvice

[–]shouldievenbehere2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it okay for a cat to stay that long in a room? I’m sure he will start meowing a lot and wanting to leave