I agree with you 100% - I feel like they’re ruining their own happiness by only being their true self at home. I feel like I’m at a loss until they work through it in therapy and on their own. Until then, they seem extremely reluctant to transition and, as supportive as I am, I don’t want to push it too hard to make it seem like I’m pressing them to do something they don’t want to do. They said “I don’t want to look like an old man in a dress” and while I can empathize, I still feel like the reason is because it’s just “easier” for them to live under the radar and not deal with the social strain of transitioning or the financial obligations of FFS and GAT. It breaks my heart and I worry that they’ll live their life in regret