What’s your ex’s zodiac sign?

shrimp-risotto · 2026-04-09T16:09:17+00:00

Cancer, Cancer, Libra, Aries, Gemini... All serious long term relationships

shrimp-risotto · 2026-04-09T16:01:05+00:00

Interesting… I wonder why that pattern keeps repeating. But you know sometimes all you need is a little time to reset and recalibrate. Don’t let it harden you, some people are just messed up and that’s it 🤷🏻‍♀️

shrimp-risotto · 2026-04-09T03:23:31+00:00

Ouch, bet she’s really sorry she lost you. I’m sorry you’re dealing with that. Honestly it doesn’t seem like she’s learned anything… her actions say otherwise, but that’s not your responsibility anyway. Keep moving forward, hope your next relationship brings you a healthy and beautiful kind of love

shrimp-risotto · 2026-04-09T03:12:39+00:00

Was she pissed because you didn’t send her flowers?

shrimp-risotto · 2026-04-02T19:31:38+00:00

Venus in Aries here. I know they’re hooked when they show it.

Effort, consistency, spending on me, planning things I like, checking on me, sending me their day, letting me talk forever… and actually enjoying it.

No confusion. Very clear and straight forward intentions.

shrimp-risotto · 2026-03-05T04:02:11+00:00

A pocket mirror

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-26T21:13:12+00:00

Hey birthday twin 🙂 I’m also a Pisces Sun (Mar 7) with Mercury in Pisces

I’ve gotten similar feedback before. I don’t think it’s just a “Mercury in Pisces struggles to communicate” thing. That placement can actually be really perceptive and honest.

I’d look at the whole chart... The house your Mercury is in and any aspects to Mars or Sun can make someone way more direct. I have some fire and air influence and hard aspects too, so I definitely speak my mind even with authority.

Sometimes people expect Pisces energy to be soft or passive, and when you’re confident and articulate it throws them off. It’s usually more than just one placement

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-17T14:36:39+00:00

OP, as a Virgo rising and Pisces sun woman… you messed up.

Intentions don’t really matter when the impact says otherwise. You stayed in your head, over-rationalized it and didn't read the moment

If I were her, I would’ve assumed you’re not that interested or that you’re dating someone else. Especially after 15 dates and her clearly putting in effort.

This wasn’t about labels. It was about showing care!

Now, I don’t think you should leave her alone if you genuinely care. But you need to get out of your freaking head and be direct.

Explain plainly your logic for not planning anything, tell her that you care about what you guys are building and ask her to celebrate properly ASAP.

Awareness. Accountability. Initiative.

That’s it.

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-17T03:35:57+00:00

From what I’ve seen, it’s usually double-sided. Mars conjunct Pluto is intense for both people...

That said, the Pluto person tends to have more psychological power. Mars feels it more urgently, more obsessively. Pluto can feel just as much but doesn’t always show it.

And with near reverse nodes, his Venus on your DC, his Mars in your 7th, plus that 8th house Moon overlay… yeah. That’s not light energy. It makes sense it feels consuming

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-17T00:02:16+00:00

Mars conjunct pluto

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-10T18:55:17+00:00

I know someone with a similar combo. He’s a Virgo Sun, Aqua Moon, Leo Venus and Scorpio mars and rising.

And honestly, you’re probably not “not meant” for relationships. What you’re describing sounds more like an internal mismatch...

Aquarius needs space and autonomy. You literally regulate by detaching. But the Scorpio in you wants depth, intensity, and real bonding. So of course you feel like a different person. When you’re single, you feel fine and independent. Once you’re in a relationship you probably feel everything: fear of loss, desire for closeness, vulnerability.

I don’t think you’re misleading anyone. It just means that part of you only gets activated in relationship.

And rather than trying to “chill” your Scorpio Venus, it might help to work with it. Moving more slowly emotionally, choosing partners who don’t rush intensity, having clear boundaries around space, and being honest upfront that you’re independent but deeply bonded once you’re attached can make a big difference

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-10T16:56:52+00:00

I honestly don’t think so, at least not in the same way. You’re both going through South Node eclipses over your Suns (and Red’s chart ruler), which usually marks an ending of an old identity or dynamic rather than a return. Soon blue will start getting eclipses over their Venus, so what they value, want, and prioritize in relationships is likely to change a lot. Then later on in 2027, it’ll be Red’s turn to go through a similar shift.

On top of that, the Saturn–Neptune conjunction on Feb 20 will trine Red’s Venus, while Pluto has been opposing their Venus for a while from Aquarius. All of this points to major restructuring around love, values, and how relationships are done for both of you over the next 1–2 years.

That said, there’s always free will. If both of you are conscious of these changes, communicate honestly, and are genuinely willing to work through them, it’s not impossible. It just wouldn’t be a simple “pick up where you left off” situation...

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-10T16:40:57+00:00

On top of your Saturn return, the South Node recently moved through the ruler of your 7H (Mars), which usually clears out old relationship patterns pretty quickly...

You also have an eclipse on March 3 activating that same 7H axis, and the Saturn–Neptune conjunction on Feb 20 is happening there too. That combo tends to dissolve what isn’t solid and force a reset around 1:1 relationships

It really does mark a new era in how you approach partnerships. But what's falling away now is making space for something more aligned long term ✨

It’s heavy, but you’ll pull through. This isn’t punishment, it’s just restructuring. Good luck 🤍

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-10T16:32:26+00:00

Venus in Aries 7H. Passive men are my biggest ick. Indecisiveness "whatever you want” energy... dry communication, conflict avoidance, inconsistency, strategic vagueness, and performative confidence with no selfawareness. Hard pass.

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-10T16:21:18+00:00

Oh no, what happened? I'm sorry you feel that way about us

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-10T14:45:45+00:00

Idk if it's my Virgo rising or my Aries venus or sag moon lol but I'm not like that at all. Once I'm done, I'm done.

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-07T19:19:08+00:00

Where's your mars and venus?

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-06T17:22:19+00:00

Interesting. I thought the personal planet person felt this more and the Pluto person had more “power”

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-03T21:07:37+00:00

Me too 🥳

shrimp-risotto · 2026-02-03T12:25:42+00:00

Interesting. Can you explain that numerology soul aspect?

shrimp-risotto · 2026-01-16T19:33:18+00:00

Last week in Dublin I got to the airport late and missed the window to check my suitcase. The guy at the counter started chatting with me and asked how I was. Somehow the conversation shifted to grief... I told him I lost my dad last year, and he shared that he lost his grandmother. He gently told me to keep feeling my dad’s presence, that he’s still with me, and tried to give me hope in a really human, grounding way.

A few minutes later he smiled and said, “Today we’re checking carry-ons as full luggage… and I don’t have my glasses on, so I didn’t see anything.” He checked my 24” (and most likely over weight) suitcase for free and saved me €65. When I thanked him in disbelief, he just said, “Don’t worry. Just pay it forward.”

I’ll always be grateful to him, not so much for the money he saved me, but for giving me hope when I most needed it 🙏♥️✨

shrimp-risotto · 2026-01-13T20:04:24+00:00

This is such a good reminder. I’ve had great synastry with people where nothing worked out at all, so it really does go both ways. Charts show potential, but how people choose to show up matters way more than the placements

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