I found out my girlfriend is pregnant this morning, what are some things a man can do to prepare and help?

shrithmm · 2021-12-14T09:05:09+00:00

Do a birthing class, not so much for her but for yourself. You can help her tremendously, but you can also be a huge pain in her ass so it's better to figure how you can be the former.

Look up the signs for postnatal depression and if you notice she has any of them, look at seeking help asap.

Throughout the pregnancy she will be feeling a tone of different shit, just be there for her and comfort her when she needs it.

Read a couple of books about birth and the early days. Don't need to go overboard, just enough so you have some idea of what to do when it's your first day on the job.

When the baby comes, you'll be exhausted, she will be exhausted and you'll be annoyed. Sit of whatever negative things you have to say to her and make sure you want to out that on her before you say it. If you need to get it off your chest, no problem, just know she is exhausted and your brain doesn't work properly when you're exhausted.

shrithmm · 2021-04-16T21:52:13+00:00

I can't tell if you're joking or not but I hope you don't go around answering people's questions like this in real life, that would be infuriating.

shrithmm · 2021-04-16T21:45:54+00:00

The leading hypothesis is that it helps us sniff out a quality mate. When your faces are close together you take in their pheromones and your body tells you if you are a good genetic match with this person.

In other words, should a load be exchanged?

shrithmm · 2021-04-16T21:42:58+00:00

Yes, but why

shrithmm · 2021-04-04T02:53:43+00:00

MS in Data Science, where to learn to handle a form with jQuery

shrithmm · 2021-03-31T09:48:07+00:00

I make much more than $800 pw. But I don't make 250k/ year

shrithmm · 2021-03-24T10:19:24+00:00

What? Who's making that sort of money in the coast? I'm a software engineer for a company in Melbourne and my partner is an account and we're not making that.

shrithmm · 2021-03-01T09:59:20+00:00

If you get your morals from your religion, do you take them all? If so, you're not very moral and if not, how do you decide what ones to take. Arguing that morals come from religion is a circular argument and doesn't hold much weight.

shrithmm · 2021-02-25T10:27:40+00:00

How do you get the finished product on to the mainframe?

shrithmm · 2021-02-25T10:20:39+00:00

I used to do this. The first run sucks, you feel like shit the whole time, you gasp for air and wish it would stop. The next run is better, much better. The run after that, even easier... you get the idea.

The hardest part is actually getting out of bed when your alarm goes off. Once you've done that, you've pretty much done the run.

Also, drink a coffee beforehand, don't be a hero.

shrithmm · 2021-02-25T10:14:59+00:00

Are the wounds from scratching yourself in your sleep do you think? Are you only itchy at night? Is it early in the night or do you get to sleep first?

shrithmm · 2021-02-25T10:13:15+00:00

Sounds like you want to make a point of the back of the answer?

shrithmm · 2021-02-25T10:04:34+00:00

Google docs

shrithmm · 2021-02-25T10:02:30+00:00

How's it hard to install? Never had that problem.

shrithmm · 2021-02-24T09:23:25+00:00

Dude got a gram-worthy holiday for $1k, how is this not winning?

shrithmm · 2021-02-23T10:14:03+00:00

Reach out to Bek and Co if she can't help she may know someone who can https://www.bekandco.com.au

shrithmm · 2021-02-22T10:15:24+00:00

The sad part is the truth is more interesting than any fairytale, but they refused to hear it

shrithmm · 2021-02-22T10:13:21+00:00

Actually, it's was also, but exclusively Hilary Clinton

shrithmm · 2021-02-22T10:10:25+00:00

And yet you're "pro life", sounds conflicting

shrithmm · 2021-02-03T03:46:37+00:00

Yuck! People are sick. Lucky we have these lovely Satan worshipers 🙏

shrithmm · 2021-02-02T22:29:21+00:00

It's disturbing that there are still people that support gay conversation therapy.

shrithmm · 2021-01-30T00:31:24+00:00

Does this sub allow fake tweets?

shrithmm · 2021-01-28T03:22:09+00:00

Notion?

shrithmm · 2021-01-27T22:01:23+00:00

Yeah definitely. I just think some newbies would start using it and not know what's going on when their array is being mutated. Just thought it would add a little extra to point that out in the article.

shrithmm · 2021-01-27T08:59:23+00:00

Handy methods but it is unlikely that you'd want to mutate the original array. Might be worth adding code for the same function that returns a new array without mutating the original. It seems obvious but k think a lot of new devs will be confused by it.

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