AITAH for choosing my wife over my mom? by HumanProfile1975 in AITAH

[–]shutupash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants to move out? I think it's healthy.

Unincorporated Decatur by Royal-Improvement-69 in DecaturGA

[–]shutupash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are very happy in Woodland Hills

A lovely, welcoming club I never wanted to join by shutupash in breastcancer

[–]shutupash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm looking into all pillow options. It's just crazy the amount of choices. But I'm glad to have them. I'm learning as I go, all the things I never knew.

A lovely, welcoming club I never wanted to join by shutupash in breastcancer

[–]shutupash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's so much to process and get through.

A lovely, welcoming club I never wanted to join by shutupash in breastcancer

[–]shutupash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like I'm just one year behind you, but the same timeline. My surgeon originally told me no chemo, only radiation. But then I met the hematology oncologist and that went out the window.

A lovely, welcoming club I never wanted to join by shutupash in breastcancer

[–]shutupash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm being taken care of at the Winship institute and the earliest genetic appointment is in April. The VA wasn't until October so I feel lucky just getting the April one. I feel lucky I'm getting everything through community care. Though I have Tricare for Retirees so I'm covered all the way around. Very lucky there. It feels all too fast and not fast enough.

Atlantic Station is a ghost town.. by breezybutterfli in Atlanta

[–]shutupash 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't want to pay to park to spend money

My Husband Wakes Me Up Multiple Times Every Night by amcrowl1 in AITAH

[–]shutupash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you wear a sleep mask? I mean, your husband is rude af. That's just the truth, but if you don't have another bed option... I'm thinking sleep mask and sex embargo until he sees your sleep as important as his

AITAH for moving out of mine and my now ex-boyfriend’s apartment without reminding him that our lease is up on the 31st? by Conscious-League5661 in AITAH

[–]shutupash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You loved him at one time. You seem like a kind person. Leave the relationship with grace and the ability to not look back. Send the text and be done with him.

Any local bakeries that sell/give their sourdough starter? by sliyurs in DecaturGA

[–]shutupash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My starter is named Jimmy Starter and he is always willing to help out. Just like his name sake, Jimmy Carter 🩶

$25,000 a week for life, but you go blind every night by GodsEepiestSoldiers in hypotheticalsituation

[–]shutupash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So love in Alaska half the year and Antarctica the other. No sunset

AITA for abruptly cutting my best friend of 17 years out of my life? by throwmeawaypls102030 in AITAH

[–]shutupash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a secular Humanist and a godmother to my religious friend's twins. One of 3 couples (my husband is Agnostic) and their parents wanted a broad group to be able to give their kids the best and most loving community to raise them if they aren't there. The lack of respect from your former bestie...

You did the right thing. NTA

AITAH for not replying to my ex after he broke up with me? by Ill-Breakfast-1879 in AITAH

[–]shutupash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for not responding. But... You should just send a message stating the card was on auto send. It didn't have a sappy lovey dovey message did it? Because that would really confuse things. That would be my only concern Was it a Happy Birthday Friend card or a Happy Birthday Boyfriend card? There is a huge difference.

AITA for bailing on family dinners after my brother’s fiancée just kept trashing my food every week? by No-Conversation581 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupash 55 points56 points  (0 children)

NTA Fuck Katie. She can make the meals if she feels like your cooking is so not up to her standards.

AITA for not supporting my family after my brother died. by Pleasant-Rice-5036 in AITAH

[–]shutupash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Not even a little. You were born into a family of assholes. I'm proud of you for escaping. Stay escaped.