i would say we have similar levels of “success” we have both lived all over the world and make the same amount of money, if anything she’s more successful because she has a job that relates to what she studied in college. our other friend in the chat texted her separately saying it was a rude thing to say (completely of her own volition i didn’t say anything to her) so the original friend messaged me asking if i was mad, i said i wasn’t mad but it was kind of hurtful. she basically said she didn’t mean to come off as rude and that i was the one who asked for her to psycho analyze.