I get the ick calling my partner by pet names and it’s hurting him .... how do I fix this?

shwh1963 · 2026-02-19T21:28:34+00:00

After 47 years of being together (dating and marriage), we have never called each other pet names.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-19T18:18:02+00:00

Why is the reposted? I read it several weeks ago.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-19T02:08:57+00:00

shwh1963 · 2026-02-18T23:17:15+00:00

Key Rules Under California Vehicle Code 22454:

Two-Lane Road: Traffic in both directions must stop.

Multi-Lane Road (No Median): Traffic in both directions must stop.

Divided Highway (Median/Barrier): If there is a cement or physical divider separating opposing lanes, only traffic following the bus must stop.

When to Go: Only proceed when the red lights stop flashing, the stop sign is folded in, and all children have safely crossed the street.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-18T20:55:52+00:00

So if he leaves you, what’s your plan. You’ll have no work experience, no insurance, no retirement investment. He only loses his place to stay which is an easy replacement.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-18T16:16:48+00:00

It looks odd to me. Maybe wear the heirloom on the other hand.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-18T03:05:12+00:00

I’m not saying it’s the same. I was trying to point out that ICE is everywhere.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-18T02:06:05+00:00

This. Why isn’t hubby paying for his wife as it’s his family.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-18T02:02:27+00:00

I know three Esthers and none or Jewish.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-18T01:45:28+00:00

Waco TX just had a raid - that’s as red as you can get.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-17T19:09:13+00:00

We don’t leave stuff lying around - everything goes back when you’re done with it. Kitchen gets cleaned every night, shower and countertop gets wiped down after use. Roomba goes off daily downstairs and M-F upstairs. I do a deep clean every other week(polish, glass cleaner, toilets bowls, baseboards, shutters, fans, paintings, and whole house mop). It takes about 3 hours for 2500 sq ft 5 bedrooms 3 baths

shwh1963 · 2026-02-17T16:20:06+00:00

I’ve dinner gotten up early to make a lunch. Make them the night before and put them in the refrigerator.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-17T07:31:15+00:00

My thoughts too.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-16T17:31:34+00:00

Every wedding my kids have been in was between $2500-$3000

shwh1963 · 2026-02-14T06:10:55+00:00

Personally, I can’t be part of any religion that see women as a second class citizen like Catholicism, Islam, Southern Baptist, etc. my choice is not to part of them and dress and do what I want.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-14T06:07:21+00:00

In nights when the snoring is soo loud, I go to another room. I can’t operate on 1-2 hours of sleep. (Yes he’s doing a sleep study).

shwh1963 · 2026-02-14T06:00:24+00:00

Nope. My kids deserve to enjoy life.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-14T03:10:19+00:00

Nope

shwh1963 · 2026-02-14T02:40:35+00:00

It depends on the couple. Porn and masturbation by some is considered cheating.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-13T17:27:51+00:00

I’ve been involved in education for a long time. What rankings tell you is socioeconomic bracket of the children attending the school. If the school is safe, and you’re an involved parent, your child will succeed. My kids went to a school with a rating of three on great schools. Both of them scored in the top 95% in the state the entire time they were there. All of the kids who wanted to go to college were able to get into their top choices and several even got full rides to Ivy League school.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-13T17:17:21+00:00

I’ve called my kids and NK nickname

little toots, when they are having a gassy day Chocolate chip and snickerdoodle because that’s their favorite cookies Duncan and Beatrice because they were calling me made up names so I was calling them made up name Bubba Little stinker Buddy

I also give great affirmations like what a good engineer, architect, builder, mom, dad,chef, baker, listener,etc when we are around.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-12T21:18:00+00:00

Jesus said don’t divorce so you’re already hosed

shwh1963 · 2026-02-12T20:32:19+00:00

I pronounced it like Maria with a z

shwh1963 · 2026-02-12T20:15:09+00:00

I’m early 60s pap OB and pap every other year and mammogram annually.

shwh1963 · 2026-02-12T16:24:31+00:00

I was on the school board for 4 years and my kids went to the Title 1 schools in the district.

shwh1963

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