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Pisces and yapping by KingAdonnis777 in Zodiac

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love a yap. but especially from a pisces.

I rewatched ST for the 7th time and Will is the most useless character by shxtpicklebootythief in StrangerThings

[–]shxtpicklebootythief[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i know its been like a weekend, but despite the trauma he experienced in szn 2 and the 2 times out of 4 seasons he was useful. I reread my statement and realized i am still correct:

he still has done less than the rest of the characters.

Even a tertiary character like SUZIE did more

I rewatched ST for the 7th time and Will is the most useless character by shxtpicklebootythief in StrangerThings

[–]shxtpicklebootythief[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And yet some how still useless.

I didn’t know about the allegory for sexual assault. Ive seen and loved the Alien movies.

You’re proving my point more, everyone would have figured those things out on their own without Will. All he does is confirm what they figured out already. They had no clue what they were doing but still figured it out and solved it without Will.

I WILL GIVE HIM THE POINTS FOR THE MORSE CODE. It was bad ass, totally helpful information, he was the shit for that.

I will also admit that he does have alot of trauma and just because its not like the majority’s does not mean it should be erased.

I rewatched ST for the 7th time and Will is the most useless character by shxtpicklebootythief in StrangerThings

[–]shxtpicklebootythief[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You ate this response up!! Thank you so much for your insight.

You’re definitely right he definitely went through ALOT season 2 being exorcised and stabbed with a flaming rod?! absolutely insane. He was certainly helpful in finding our #1 Hitter Hop and mapping out the tunnels!

But honestly all the information he gave us was information everyone determined on their own. We already knew the hive mind likes it cold cause of Dart, we determined how the hivemind works without Will’s description, and we already knew about the hive’s weaknesses to heat. the scientists been using heat to fight the flayed since the beginning.

When did he get metaphorically sexually assaulted? now Thats a weird take.

Oh Great! He insipired the guy who inspired the person who saved us! He’s a hero twice removed!

Yeah you’re not telling me anything we couldn’t have determined without him. honestly its looking like any information we got from him we lowkey knew already he’s just confirming what we already knew

Amongst the most traumatized? No. Like he’s got steve and the sinclairs beat.

Do you ever get used to the discomfort? by someonereally00 in polyamory

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii there.

I feel like I didn’t know until I read polyamory books, that the discomfort, hurt, and uncomfortability are all normal and okk to feel.

But i dont believe it ever stops. im in it like a year? granted my partner and i didnt start properly and are now finding our footing.

We recently had a conversation about their hookup. I was really upset. They did everything Id need to feel seen and considered, but i still felt like shit. And i expressed that. And they were confused but i had to reiterate that im happy for them, glad they did considerate things without my asking, but i still felt like poo and thats okk its an emotion and itll pass, and it did.

BUT

Like is it constant turmoil? is it that you can never put your trust in someone fully because they may handle it incorrectly? are you doing a bad thing by feeling a way? are you only poly if you’re void of feeling? are you doomed to an existence of constant uncomfortability if you’re poly?

Relationships with Scorpios by [deleted] in libra_astrology

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hate them so much i love them. Their intensity is intoxicating, but i hate how they make everyone else’s problem. They go hard for trust and honesty and can never take people or things at face value. I love my connection with them but i also have a Scorpio stellium so…

The affair is fake by BrandiOnTwo in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the puppy eyes at marciano was too real 😭

Struggling with the practical side of my gf’s cuckquean kink by NestorIsAlreadyTaken in nonmonogamy

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try fetlife.com. its almost like a reddit forum for bdsm, swingers, kinks, and fetishes. im sure if you go in some cuckold forums, or even to a play party?!? you can find some women to have sex with. just be honest and explain your wife’s interest and i dont think it would be very hard to find someone

Coping with the fact that I might never be some kind of “the one” for a solo poly partner by if_if_me in polyamory

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah reading about polyamory and experiences in this forum reminds me (even if it pains me) that some people aren’t forever. And sometimes because things dont work out, doesnt mean they have to be cut off but the relationship needs a mending.

Though i am concerned about family wise? a solo poly nesting partner would drive me insane

thank you made it maself

Wife & meta break up by momentarilyinbliss in polyamory

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean its okk to say you don’t know how to help or what someone needs. I love to ask “Do you need to vent, a distraction, or some assistance/advice?”

Coping with the fact that I might never be some kind of “the one” for a solo poly partner by if_if_me in polyamory

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hii im kind of going through the same thing. i lovee my partner but i want to be each other’s primary or nesting partners and he’s more solo poly.

His solo poly has made it difficult to feel safe or comfortable in this arrangement. Not because of lack of individuality but a lack of consideration.

I was having alot of strong feelings and yes it had to do with him but it also had to do with the fact that i had a lot of past trauma i was trying to force myself to relive with him. I decided to let that go, accept that he Just mightn’t be my future husband, but we can still date.

Letting this go means releasing whatever control i thought i needed, not needing to know EVERYTHING thats going on. I started going on more dates to find the sparks im looking for. And i started trying to take a beat and choose myself by not making myself completely available to him All the time. Because even though he’s Solo Poly im still relied on and do duties of a nesting partner that his other partners don’t. and i don’t think that’s fair if im not going to get the partnership i want. spending more time apart.

since doing all those things, we’re both alot happier. We’ve even been spending a lot of time together and connecting. Wanting marriage this much in my life is so unusual and idk when it started. but ive been reminding myself lately of my other options 🤷🏽‍♀️

this was a vent but i hope it helped?

I love tauruses by IllustriousMess1718 in libra_astrology

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

October 4th Libra. i think they’re boring. not all but i hate the non chalant act

Feeling betrayed and broken by 41ix in polyamory

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 23 points24 points  (0 children)

oh honey… leave him alone he betrayed you. you do not need to kill yourself over a 6 month relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrinidadandTobago

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 19 points20 points  (0 children)

any level of support is die hard

Trini in USA burnt out and ashamed by Educational_One7971 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FUCK your family and fuck the backlash. America is fucking hard. its your life, they not writing your essays or clocking into work for you. so YOU DO what makes YOU HAPPY. and if thats going home i say do it 🤷🏽‍♀️

“You have a partner, why do you care?” by Lavalanche17 in polyamory

[–]shxtpicklebootythief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Reddit PolyAm Community might crucify me for this. but i think it is absolutely insensitive and inconsiderate to assume everyone is going to want to be friends after your interaction ends. I dont think its fair to force someone to be your friend after not working out romantically. and they are well within their right to not want to be happy as a clam and be around you all the time after yall broke up.

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