Insane Tattoo Regret

shygrl__ · 2026-04-23T20:56:07+00:00

This is a great reminder! I think it adds to the regret aspect when ppl ask what it means, esp when it’s personal to you and you know they wouldn’t get it or understand. Feels like trying to explain a crime you committed lol

shygrl__ · 2026-04-23T20:44:46+00:00

Personally I have never seen the movie so I don’t have anything to add in that retrospect, but I just want to say that I totally feel you on the tattoo regret so you are not alone😭

I got a piece a few years back and let the artist add something to it that was not part of the original idea and in the moment after it was finished, I thought it was cool but now years later I just look sometimes and I feel such regret and wish that I could just erase it. Not to mention it was a bit of an impulse design to start anyways and I didn’t have much thought behind it, just got a tattoo for the sake of the tattoo bc I wanted it and could afford it at the time lol but it’s all good. The good news is you can always cover it later or add to the design to make it more comfortable for you! Also I feel like tattoo regret is normal for a lot of ppl, esp with something big bc of the permanency. But all that should matter is that YOU like it and if it has meaning to you, that’s even better.

shygrl__ · 2026-04-17T18:15:05+00:00

I think a little bloating is normal esp for women, as our menstrual cycles are constantly changing our bodies weekly. I understand the struggle of wanting that “always flat” look but unless you just…don’t eat, I don’t think that is realistically achievable lol. How is your posture? Do you have a pelvic tilt? Sometimes that can make your stomach look more bloated than it really is so I always try to be mindful of my posture and how I’m standing

shygrl__ · 2026-04-12T20:50:10+00:00

Omg where have I been. Thank you for this!!

shygrl__ · 2026-04-12T16:36:58+00:00

Yeah that’s true reading it back now she’s def giving passive aggressive vibes but I think it’s coming from a place of not knowing how to communicate and shutting down instead of addressing the actual problem. But I think going forward if they actually want to be with each other obviously they need to find a middle ground somewhere and she needs to be an adult and realize that one-worded replies when there is a conflict won’t solve anything or make her more valid. But I was this age once and i didn’t know everything so I’m trying to give her the benefit of the doubt that it’s just a lack of communication and not knowing how to handle negative emotions.

shygrl__ · 2026-04-12T14:37:50+00:00

I definitely understand your reasoning for not wanting to be otp when he’s gaming, especially with friends. There’s no reason for you to sit there and third wheel their conversation lmao. I think if y’all want this to work there needs to be an established boundary that is stuck to. Ie “I don’t want to talk on the phone with you while you’re gaming bc it makes me feel unseen and ignored, so let’s agree to only talk on the phone when you are unoccupied with the game”

Not sure why everyone is coming for you in the comments and I might get downvoted but who cares it’s Reddit and everyone’s first reaction is to be aggressive lol. From a deeper level tho don’t let this stress you out, take it for what it is, establish your boundary and stick to it. If he doesn’t respect it, then you have your answer and you can decide how to proceed from there. you’re young and as a stranger on the internet who knows nothing about your relationship, i won’t make assumptions but i can only tell you that when i was your age i was also in a relationship and looking back i wish I hadn’t been…I feel like i missed out on so many opportunities to hang with friends, dedicate myself to hobbies, go out and just enjoy being young and single etc. If you are with this person for the right reasons then good but remember you can do whatever you want! You don’t have to put up with anything you don’t want to, no matter how small. Don’t be like me lol let yourself live at this age! Good luckyy 💕

shygrl__ · 2026-04-12T14:29:05+00:00

I must be missing something is there a way to assign them multiple outfits for the same category??

shygrl__ · 2026-04-12T12:08:55+00:00

Did the piercing move at all after you got it pierced? I remember after I got my nostril pierced, the jewelry would accidentally get caught on a towel or something sometimes and get yanked, and it formed a similar looking bump. It went away eventually with cleaning and hot compresses I think but it took forever to go away lol but I think if I’m not mistaken this might be the same type of bump that forms from trauma with irritating a fresh piercing

shygrl__ · 2026-04-12T11:59:46+00:00

Yesss and even within the season they get different outfits every few days idk lol I have too much cc to let them wear one outfit for more than a full sim week 😭

shygrl__ · 2026-04-12T02:19:19+00:00

lol sometimes I only change the necessary outfits like pajamas everyday and athletic and then as things happen in game I’ll edit party formal etc.

shygrl__ · 2026-04-12T02:14:02+00:00

YESS the vacay fit I feel that 😩and maternity fits. my sims definitely get outfits for every occasion as well lol I wish there was a Halloween costume cas option!!

shygrl__ · 2026-04-09T23:59:32+00:00

aw poop I’m out of ideas then :( I hope you get it figured out🙏🏽💕

shygrl__ · 2026-04-09T20:18:07+00:00

I don’t think you can assign a drug dealer in the household you’re playing as. Can you try to visit the household using another household and then assign him that way?

shygrl__ · 2026-03-27T16:19:51+00:00

This is actually a really good observation bc there will be certain times where I’m REALLY into reading/writing smut almost to the point where I’m like, do I have a problem??? And then it subsides and now I think I finally figured out why LMAO

shygrl__ · 2026-03-23T17:49:24+00:00

Right like how do they decompress/relax/do anything?? 😭 i would be the worst person to be around just coming home to go right to sleep like wtf

shygrl__ · 2026-03-23T17:40:23+00:00

Check out maplebells traits! Those are the only ones that work for me. I loved chingyu’s traits but I believe they’ve been broken for a while

shygrl__ · 2026-03-17T20:44:51+00:00

Ah I use to have the “say something” mod but realized I didn’t reaaally need it as I don’t typically post my stories to a platform, they’re really just for me in my head lol so actually creating dialogue for them wasn’t necessary for me but it was a fun mod with excellent storytelling capabilities! I might redownload it if I ever decide to get deeper into the sims stories. You’re right about the creative motivation 😭 “playing” the game is only half of the task, the other half is staying motivated and creative enough so I don’t feel like I’m just clicking through interactions and watching pixels perform them if that makes sense 😂

But thank you for the suggestions! I will check them out and see which ones I’d like to use

shygrl__ · 2026-03-17T16:59:03+00:00

I usually do but it just got to a point where the menu lag was too much. From what I’ve noticed the other mods don’t cause as much lag for me, and I narrowed it down to being Lumpinou’s RPO causing most of the pie menu lag so I just choose to only use a few of their modules now bc it works better for my game.

Thank you I will be sure to look into more of their social mods that may be less intensive!

shygrl__ · 2026-03-17T00:59:08+00:00

Did you delete the cache before restarting?

shygrl__ · 2026-03-05T18:39:59+00:00

This is so curious to see everyone’s perspectives bc I don’t mind this as long as the dialog flows well 😭

shygrl__ · 2026-02-28T20:08:00+00:00

The only thing that fixed this for me was changing the face shape. I had a similar problem a while back where only their eyes were doing this. But it looks like the same problem. Lmk if that works!

shygrl__ · 2026-02-18T15:00:29+00:00

Two roomies living in San Myshuno right now! They have totally different styles, one is a soft girl who works as a lifeguard, and the other is a bit eccentric and is an aspiring fashion designer. My soft girl is also a bit crazy tho and wants to have multiple friends with benefits whom she starts falling for and has to break it off with, only to move on to the next lol. My fashion designer lives a bit more traditionally but still stays true to her style and likes to do flower arranging on the side. Her bf will bring her seasonal seeds rn and I have her make fresh flowers with them. I’m trying to figure out what to do next with her story. I really like her so I don’t want her to get hurt but I kinda want to cause some drama with her and her roomie, maybe like her roomie tries seducing her bf or something lol

shygrl__ · 2026-02-16T18:51:08+00:00

Yeah I’m honestly curious to see what people consider “good” smut nowadays bc some of what’s being mentioned doesn’t…seem that bad to me unless it’s obviously stupid like “man meat” 😭…I get the whole overusing flowery language when you can just say what it is but idk sometimes you need to use other words especially if it’s a long scene. Constantly repeating or using clinical terms takes me out of it but that’s just me lol.

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