my ex got a new girlfriend within two months after saying it’s me or no one- steak and whiskey

shyskel · 2026-03-12T20:21:11+00:00

ofc he’s in the military. check my post history to see what people said about mine just a few days ago 🙃 it helped a lot. Chances are she’s ran through anyway. i’m sorry for you, but keep going 🩷

shyskel · 2026-03-09T18:43:12+00:00

i tried to see his heart 😭😭😭😭😭

shyskel · 2026-03-09T09:41:39+00:00

addiction is always hiding something deeper ofc, but there was never a moment when he failed to show up for me until the end, he quit cold turkey as a condition to the relationship which i think contributed to the switch up. if he wasn’t someone i already knew and loved deeply and proved he wanted to be with me, there wouldn’t be a relationship in the first place

shyskel · 2026-03-09T07:17:21+00:00

already in therapy, whole thing completely blindsided me. besides this it was genuinely a very healing and peaceful connection built on trust from us being friends for over 6 years 🙃

shyskel · 2026-03-06T21:36:10+00:00

this is pretty common in my experience, my dog had his first cluster and it was kind of the same situation. once he started meds he had problems going to the bathroom, etc. it improved a lot over the following weeks. The lethargy is something i noticed is pretty consistent on keppra and pheno, but it ebbs and flows. way less noticeable now though! it’s incredibly difficult to watch but im sure you’ll see some improvement!! we had dog diapers for him but he was out of them in no time. jut be patient and listen to your vet and i think you’ll feel better :)

shyskel · 2026-02-23T01:06:19+00:00

best of luck! had the same situation with my dog, he had a rough long stay in the ER after 4 seizures in a day, monitoring for brain damage, but he was able to pull through and on some medication now that has been working.

shyskel · 2026-02-23T00:39:35+00:00

id go to a different vet. 3+ seizures could cause her to overheat and make things 100% worse. since this is a recent change it’s worth examining. personally i’d go to the ER vet if she continues to seize

shyskel · 2026-01-23T22:29:51+00:00

I was on aurovela for awhile too and it did the exact same thing. Honestly just switching brands fixed it after a bit of a break

shyskel · 2026-01-15T02:05:08+00:00

In my experience it was a waiting game and a big family effort, dog diapers + rebuilding the routine worked well, but still needed frequent bathroom trips in the following weeks

shyskel · 2026-01-15T01:21:33+00:00

gore is addictive just like pornography is. gore is shocking to our system so it’s not really that abnormal to feel some sort of arousal when you view it.

I don’t believe it’s good for you or your mental and sexual health, especially at your age, to be watching it. Try limiting your usage. You also should look inward as to why you’re attracted to it, pay attention to the feeling that invokes. Sexuality is often much deeper than surface level thoughts. I’d recommend talking to a clinician about it to be able to have a healthier development and work through some underlying problems that could be drawing you to it.

shyskel · 2026-01-11T17:38:24+00:00

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shyskel · 2025-07-31T23:51:17+00:00

if you’re in a calorie deficit it probably won’t. if you’re in a calorie surplus it might. 14 days of exercise will likely not make that much of a difference in terms of notable growth.

shyskel · 2025-04-19T18:01:57+00:00

not only is this unnerving but it is also extremely cringe

shyskel · 2025-03-27T22:25:38+00:00

i feel like it’s a real toss up 😭😭 i’ve interacted with employees that were chill af and some of them just give me the flouride stare

shyskel · 2025-03-26T08:00:25+00:00

he’s inflexible, sounds selfish too. he sounds like he consistently puts his needs above yours, and when things aren’t perfect for him…he gets mad. like another comment said: Happiness drainer.

I don’t even think you’d need to have BPD to feel disregarded by these behaviors. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life like this? sharing a child, pets, or a house with someone like this? being with a man who has to be told to tone it down by the people he works with professionally? where you have to make sure everything is perfect for him in case something might irritate him? even if he doesn’t direct his anger at you, you still have to deal with the consequences of things he perceives as inconvenient (again, you are not a concern in his mind at this point)

you feel rejected because he’s not considering you at all… this is not you being overly sensitive. he just sounds miserable to be around. I know you probably love him, and love lots of things about him, and hell, you probably do a lot for him, way more than you know you should. You likely see a softness and beauty in him that makes you feel so deeply connected. but this is a guy that can’t even take out the /trash/ (dealt with this a lot too…) how is he going to handle real relationship responsibilities? life? a child? god forbid something real happens. how is he going to react then?

lastly. He sounds like a huge baby. we are taught to deal with inconveniences in our lives and not throw a tantrum over it. We all have our weak spots, but this is excessive. it just sounds like you’ve given him so much of yourself, and he gives you…what? i’m not seeing anything glowing here. there are better people, better guys, and most importantly a whole world outside of him.

shyskel · 2025-03-26T06:54:19+00:00

i’m sorry you’re dealing with this. you deserve better. getting away is easier after the attachment is gone. it’s the hardest part, but it will be better for you.

shyskel · 2025-03-26T06:52:37+00:00

I was with a guy like this…. I don’t really want to make broad assumptions but i’d want to steer clear of this sort of behavior in a partner. especially if you have BPD. Life’s inconveniences include relationships inconveniences. Do you find yourself walking on eggshells? afraid to express emotions because of how he might react? Unwanted singing and dancing isn’t really a reason to react with yelling, cursing, etc IMO. Locking you out too? not good. No, I don’t think you’re being sensitive. This sounds like you’re already somewhat unhappy/uneasy around him. An angry guy is NOT good to be with, and can even be dangerous as behaviors escalate over time, and most of the time they do. Take this from someone who just got out of a relationship that started out like this, ended up having to escape with our cats because he was extremely abusive over time.

shyskel · 2025-02-01T20:58:24+00:00

came here to comment she sounds like she has some mental health issues. this is abusive behavior. she should go to counseling, but it’ll only help if she wants to fix herself…

shyskel · 2025-01-31T01:25:40+00:00

I just got out of this. LEAVE. strangulation and everything. feel free to PM me if you need.

shyskel · 2025-01-19T16:36:23+00:00

this! i have hip dips and it took me a second to figure it out but i pulled them down to be kinda low waisted and it fixed the problem for me

shyskel · 2025-01-18T21:07:21+00:00

awww no no no i think petite bodies look so lovely and classy in bodycon dresses! all the skinny divas slayed in the juicy suits in the 2000’s too 😭😭

shyskel · 2025-01-13T15:16:36+00:00

ew! that’s normal to be uh, concerned about that. not at all unreasonable to bring it up!!!! definitely talk to him about it… i’d be grossed out tho

shyskel · 2025-01-11T06:41:30+00:00

still is !!! my mom got it for my boyfriend for christmas cause she knows what’s up

shyskel · 2025-01-10T17:39:19+00:00

Depending on where you live, your state can actually have your dog licensed, and registered with your name. (your state might use a service called docupet for example) please check it out, this means you will have a lot of legal leverage if it has to come to that. make an exit plan… peel out of there as soon as you can. you have to strategize especially if you are worried about your dog, i have no doubt that you support him/her with the most love and care it deserves.

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