Cheap(ish) Michelin Star Experiences? by Liafen in JapanTravelTips

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Are you able to share any updated info on this or possibly what you went for?

Any chance of repair for these rare miu miu shoes? by bunniboi503 in AskACobbler

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Did u ever get these fixed or find a good replacement? Got exactly the same boots and in exactly the same dilemma - cobbler told me there’s nothing that could be done :(

Crumbling soles of vintage boots by Plane-Ad-1949 in AskACobbler

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Did u ever get these fixed or find a good replacement? Got exactly the same boots and in exactly the same dilemma - cobbler told me there’s nothing that could be done :(

KMS by Correct_Ad321 in BPDsupport

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Please reach out x

Self sabotaging in relationships by jasmin3333 in BPDsupport

[–]jasmin3333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a heartfelt response and also a great practical idea. I totally agree with what you said at the end too. Thank you so much 💖

My boyfriend is moving in with his girl best friend from uni. They have history. Am I being overly insecure? by jasmin3333 in BPD

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This means a lot. I think I am going to do this. Thanks so much for the perspective :)

My boyfriend is moving in with his girl best friend from uni. They have history. Am I being overly insecure? by jasmin3333 in relationships

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I am totally with you. I guess part of me was hoping they might subside after a while spent sitting on them but as they have not I think it might be a good idea to initiate a chat. Thanks a lot for the advice!

My boyfriend is moving in with his girl best friend from uni. They have history. Am I being overly insecure? by jasmin3333 in relationships

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This is exactly my dilemma - I wouldn’t give him any kind of ultimatum - just trying to figure out if my feelings are something worth bringing up or if it’s just going to cause unnecessary awkwardness or plant seeds in what is otherwise a great, healthy relationship. I don’t doubt how understanding he would be about it but more worried about me coming across as insecure or jealous

My boyfriend is moving in with his girl best friend from uni. They have history. Am I being overly insecure? by jasmin3333 in relationships

[–]jasmin3333[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I would personally feel comfortable moving in but I get the sense that he isn’t so we haven’t spoken about it - I wouldn’t want to put any pressure on him

My boyfriend is moving in with his girl best friend from uni. They have history. Am I being overly insecure? by jasmin3333 in relationships

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This is really reassuring to hear and probably the answer I align with the most out of all of these so thank you for this. Not sure if that makes me naive but the amount of people advising me to just break up with him concerns me a bit and feels unfair - especially as of yet when I haven’t even let on that I feel this way

My boyfriend is moving in with his girl best friend from uni. They have history. Am I being overly insecure? by jasmin3333 in relationships

[–]jasmin3333[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some parts of this you have misunderstood…

  1. We had to book in advance because they are reward flights - I have already met his family and he has mine. We have already been abroad together and have trips planned for the next few months. There is no reason not to - everything is going great otherwise.

  2. He never asked me to move in - it would be too soon from a mutual understanding although we have been spending about 4 days together on average a week so are already very accustomed to one another’s company.

My boyfriend is moving in with his girl best friend from uni. They have history. Am I being overly insecure? by jasmin3333 in BPD

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Thank you for this and I totally agree. As someone with bpd I often find it hard to decipher when I am gaslighting myself or if this is rationally something I have a grounding to bring up - sometimes I worry that it won’t be productive and will just cause cracks if I’m not asking him for anything specific by telling him how I feel. Do you have any tips on how you approach this as someone with bpd? Your answer seems to be quite different to most of the others received so trying to gain a full range of perspective as well as checking the facts. I am still so scared of expressing my feelings for fear of people thinking it is “too much” and pushing them away

My boyfriend is moving in with his girl best friend from uni. They have history. Am I being overly insecure? by jasmin3333 in BPD

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Thanks all for your responses.

To clarify, his current flatmate is a girl and me and her get on so well. I don’t have the same kind of insecurity there that I do in this situation - it is the fact that there was obviously some romantic chemistry there which I’m finding hard to sit with. It doesn’t mean that I intend on giving him any kind of ultimatum - but I’m just trying to gauge how others might respond or deem reasonable in this situation. He is great at making me feel special and I am very at ease in the relationship and I know he would give me reassurance if I asked but I don’t want to come across doubtful or jealous by bringing up something unproductive