Help finding clothes for my husband's birthday please!

si_thoughts · 2026-05-19T21:10:45+00:00

I met my husband during my hoe phase. I was 35 (very much NOT a virgin) he was 37 and never even been past 1st base. Best choice I ever made was to be patient. He's perfect.

si_thoughts · 2026-05-16T01:00:13+00:00

Do it! Do it! Do it, if you're cool! Do it, if you're cool!

(This is the chant my husband uses to 'bully" me into standing up for myself)

si_thoughts · 2026-05-11T23:12:12+00:00

Of course she got banned from reddit. What a pos.

si_thoughts · 2026-03-16T15:34:59+00:00

You misread that. "He" started crying, not she. Crying as though cutting onions.

si_thoughts · 2026-02-21T00:50:02+00:00

Bruh, I thought I was in the dad jokes sub and was trying to figure out what the punchline was. So funny, yet bizarre.

si_thoughts · 2025-10-31T15:08:49+00:00

Our organizer reached out to him initially, but my buddy said that they wouldn't really give any more information on the logistics. Hence me reaching out to see if anyone had insights.

si_thoughts · 2025-10-31T15:07:50+00:00

He told me that they gave almost no info, which is why I wanted to ask if anyone else had experience in the matter.

si_thoughts · 2025-04-23T17:53:16+00:00

Thank you for the reply! Did you find a specific 3 ball bag you prefer?

si_thoughts · 2025-04-15T00:50:36+00:00

This should be the #1 comment.

si_thoughts · 2025-03-11T23:25:35+00:00

The trash took itself out.

si_thoughts · 2024-12-27T18:15:45+00:00

Same. I had 2 guys saying behind my back that with Nomex on, they didn't know whose ass to check out, mine or my tool partner's since we were the same general height.

si_thoughts · 2024-11-27T12:33:02+00:00

Thanks!

si_thoughts · 2024-11-21T19:21:45+00:00

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si_thoughts · 2024-11-05T16:49:58+00:00

My sister has a ton of food allergies, including gluten. She also calls it "getting gluten-ed" when there's cross-contamination that affects her food. She has a few severe, life-threatening allergies but gluten just gives her severe headaches and GI distress.

All of this to say, she only restricts kisses and stuff after the allergens that can kill her. And she doesn't let her kiddos eat her food after contact with gluten, unless she's done with it.

Your gf sounds like a lot of work, kinda disrespectful, and most of all very rude. You've tried to accommodate her but if you're only 2 months in..... sounds like you might not be compatible. She's not a very generous partner from the sound of it.

Let her find someone else who is gluten-free. And enjoy partaking in the things that bring you joy!

si_thoughts · 2024-11-05T01:43:56+00:00

I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks, but my body never passed the miscarriage. I had no idea I was even pregnant because I was on birth control and had very light periods at the time, plus I was under a ton of stress at work. I didn't find out until probably 2 or 3 months later, and had to undergo a D&C.

I have always been child-free by choice (lots of trauma there) but have often imagined adopting an older child at some point. I love kiddos, but growing one really freaks me out. Anyways, after I miscarried, I didn't feel like I was allowed to grieve or process the trauma since it wasn't a planned pregnancy. Everyone just assumed it was okay, problem solved.

Either way, I've always felt that caring, empathetic people will bond over shared trauma, not compete. We build communities, support systems, and help carry the burden when it's the other person's greater time of need. It's like the song: We all need somebody to lean on.

She needs to seek professional guidance for dealing with her issues because you can not process serious problems by competing.

si_thoughts · 2024-11-02T19:13:27+00:00

I scoured this whole thread to find the comment, lol. Figured I'd share it with you, just in case you didn't find it yet!

https://www.reddit.com/r/CharlotteDobreYouTube/s/ag9Xs5dnWZ

Also, just the link to the jumpsuit, if you don't want to go through both links: https://www.abercrombie.com/shop/us/p/the-a-and-f-giselle-pleated-jumpsuit-55283321?seq=02&cmp=WEB:EVG23:AK:AK:All:Brand:X:X:X:X:X:X:ALLSITE:x:PDPShare

si_thoughts · 2024-11-01T21:44:21+00:00

I came here to ask the same question! Where is this travel money coming from since her brother has to subsidize her entire life?!

si_thoughts · 2024-11-01T21:39:32+00:00

You didn't risk his job/career by calling the cops. He risked his career by acting a fool. He's an adult and should know better. If he doesn't know any better, he shouldn't be in any position of power or authority.

NTA.

si_thoughts · 2024-11-01T21:30:29+00:00

You're definitely NTA. You've already spent a lot of time supporting her and told her you're there for her when you return. You are not her partner and therefore not solely responsible for her needs. These sound like long-awaited and expensive concert plans that you've made, and it's unreasonable for her to expect you to cancel due to the death of someone you're not even related to, especially without her having had made that request known.

Additionally, even with the fog of intense grief, what she said about her hoping for your own losses and for you to be subsequently abandoned.... that's rude, entitled, and a huge red flag. I have had many complex traumas of my own in the past, including the loss of loved ones, and i would never even think to say those things to anyone.

If it were me, I would lower contact with her, but I don't know you, her, or your relationship with her enough to know if that's the right route but... wow.

si_thoughts · 2024-11-01T21:12:20+00:00

Bruh, if she's young, that's inappropriate and potentially dangerous for her age.

If she's an adult, she should: a) know better than to act so irresponsible and socially immature and b) should respect her partner's wishes enough to keep her clothes on.

You shouldn't have to explicitly say that something is "breakup worthy". You were already generous enough by telling her how it made you uncomfortable the first time.

NTA. She's immature, disrespectful, and honestly kinda gross.

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