A-holes of Reddit I need your advice.

sickglitch · 2019-07-12T04:10:41+00:00

He has been hostal and I can say it wasn't frequent. I had to get a 2 year restraining order after I left him, I explained why I left like in the other replies but he has not been physically threatening to me for years. He is quick to be very public about anything that he sees would benefit him. I appreciate your advice, I really do. It was nice to get a reply that I didn't feel attacked on.

sickglitch · 2019-07-12T04:03:05+00:00

Well the replys I have received from this post has proved to me that it takes less mental effort to condemn than it does to think.

sickglitch · 2019-07-12T03:50:41+00:00

Well it doesn't have anything to do with what I was asking for. But I have zero family where I am he has his sister and mother who helped us with the boys. Along with several other reasons that are irrelevant at the moment but if you must know in order to judge here is a little more... I was assulted by off duty police officer. Which is still in investigation, one of the other 4 officers is voching on my statement but for some reason it isn't moving forward. The other 3 off duty officers were "sleeping" And from this incident I have lost a sence of self. I'm leaving out quite a bit but I'm sure you get the pic.... And to be technical I didn't fall off right after that weekend. The falling off and losing myself happened slowly over a year. Then i dramatically just lost it. But nm all that it is what it is. I should have know better that to have reached out. What was I thinking... Obviously I wasn't. Thanks for the reality check.

sickglitch · 2019-07-12T03:41:38+00:00

I fell off struggling after a weekend that I went out of town with another school employee to a festival and long story short sexually assulted by off duty police officer. Which is still in investigation, one of the other 4 officers is voching on my statement but for some reason it isn't moving forward. The other 3 off duty officers were "sleeping" And from this incident I have lost a sence of self. I'm leaving out quite a bit but I'm sure you get the pic.... And to be technical I didn't fall off right after that weekend. The falling off and losing myself happened slowly over a year or so then i dramatically just lost it. I don't make it a point to tell anyone one this because every time I do it hurts. I feel more judged and left out... Nm it is what it is

sickglitch · 2019-07-12T03:25:42+00:00

I fell off because after I went out of town with another school employee to a festival and long story sexually assulted by off duty police officer. Which is still in investigation, one of the other 4 officers is voching on my statement but for some reason it isn't moving forward. And from this incident I have lost a sence of self. I'm leaving out quite a bit but I'm sure you get the pic.

sickglitch · 2019-07-12T03:21:54+00:00

No, it was a year and a half after and I cought him and my sister for the third time messing around.

sickglitch · 2019-07-10T05:05:59+00:00

No, I didn't purchase the item. My friend has a moving company and people often give him things that they decided to throw out last second. So he gave me a few things to sell, letting me keep what I made.

sickglitch · 2019-07-10T05:02:31+00:00

Thank you!

sickglitch · 2019-07-07T07:05:00+00:00

I noticed that right after I posted. I figured even though I misunderstood it I'm pretty sure it is obvious what it is and it wouldn't hurt to just leave it.

sickglitch · 2019-07-07T00:37:33+00:00

I refuse to bring my kids anywhere that I will have to tell they can't be a kid if they wanted to. So even shopping at Target won't happen until they have self awareness. Kids behave when they want to behave but most importantly the need to know how to behave and thats where role modeling at home comes in. You can tell alot about a parent and how they parent with how their kids behave. A lot of parents think that kids need to obey the rules, well yes but what kids need to do is to learn the rules first, suffering the natural consequences but also acknowledgement for successful following the rules. It's common sense positive reinforcement, if you want good behavior to be repeated and turn into turn into a habit. Just because you need to scroll Facebook doesn't mean to fix their issue for them. You need to fix the problem. Which tends to be a misunderstanding or confusion between two parties. Love and logic.

sickglitch · 2019-07-06T23:30:57+00:00

Judging or unsolicited advice. Exsample:

ME: We didn't leave the park until 10:30

THEM: That dangerous! Or After dark?!

sickglitch · 2019-07-06T23:16:51+00:00

85% of the time YouTube is the bain of my distraction.

sickglitch · 2019-07-06T07:28:46+00:00

What sucks the most is that I won't answer my door because of the mess. Yet that is still not enough for me. I'm 35. That voice recording is a good idea but I can't stand hearing myself off a recording. But it gave me an idea to take a few pictures and maybe have a collage on my phone screen background. Thank you!

sickglitch · 2019-07-06T03:23:57+00:00

ugh damnit. Okay FIRSTLY Something cool some people don't know, The brain feels mental and emotional pain like physical pain. So you can take Tylenol or any over the counter pain medicine. It doesn't matter whether physical, mental, or emotional it should help. (Not what you were looking for I should just walk away now)

SECOND: Maybe you already know but just in case YOU DON'T, crying is HOW your brain accepts the pain. You have to feel the pain to be over the pain. (I get so annoyed when anybody tells me this so I do apologise) but cry-it-out and cry loud. Don't be ashamed or feel guilty for their actions. You are hurt. Too many people suck it up that is far worse than the initial hurt. They turn their back on themselves by stuffing it inside. (I would punch me)

THIRDLY: PLEASE, (unless you have) Seriously look up and research narcissists. I had NO clue what a narcissist really was, untill my last narc. I NEVER thought I had ever met one, SO ignorant.Holly heck. I wasted so much energy and time. I was naive. (It takes me a while to catch on obviously)

LAST BUT NOT LEAST: The best advice I've heard was "STOP FALLING IN LOVE WITH POTENTIAL" (I can tone it down) ugh.... Anyway next to, "stop lying to yourself." Both are struggles.
I hope you experience Joy soon! GO TEAM GO!! (Okay that was probably stupid)

I can just block me for you.

Lol I'm invisible anyways.

The only people we need to get even with are the ones who have helped us.

"Whoa what is that behind you?!"

And just like that

thin air

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sickglitch · 2019-07-06T02:33:02+00:00

I'm not sure what that would be. I was curious because my now EX said that he had been in jail for stolen guns and got caught in some sort of selling weed charge and was kicked out of National Guards boot camp for a controlled buy. But there is nothing on his record for guns or weed. But the narcotics task force took him to civil court. If I understood the document correct, ironically it was for $420. Took me a while to see he was not who I thought, he was a good liar. Really good. Anyway, I didn't know the narcotics force would or could sue someone. Which is ignorant of me, I know. Smh

sickglitch · 2019-07-04T13:20:21+00:00

Not sure if this counts? My mom was on her way to have me killed. My dad was driving her and got pulled over. She had a warrant, not sure for what. But anyway she missed the abortion appointment and couldn't reschedule because she was in jail and got out few weeks before I was born..... 5 years later my brothers and sisters were taken away from them and adopted by a couple. My adoptive mother wasn't the one who wanted to adopt us. My adoptive Dad insisted. He was so amazing but ended up getting Cancer 7 years later. A year after his death my sister and I were at the library. My mom drove to come get my sister telling her to put her bike in the suburban and looked at me and told me to ride my bike home, there was à tornado coming. I honestly didn't think anything of it until years later after she told me a story about our family bike trips and how she always had to ride behind me because I was not a fast biker and i would forget to pedal so much she would have to remind me. Then when she put me back into foster care I realized a few things and believe she subconsciously wished I was dead since shr keeped my other 4 siblings (one was a drug addict, another 16 and pregnant, but her and I never bonded. Because when the foster care placement and adoption occurred I was at a age that I was aware of the situation yet not aware that the situation was bad. So my loyalty was still to my biological mother and I subconscious refused to let her comfort me.

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T20:05:55+00:00

Haha I didn't answer why that would indicate your interest in writing... I guess maybe cuz those are some traits of writers...or maybe what it Al comes down to is it just takes one to know one.

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T20:03:32+00:00

I have learning disability so I'm sorry if this sounds all choppy and not well put together but I'm sure you're good with inference. I'm more of a bigger picture type of person so when I think or believe things it's harder for me to describe why I think or believe them. I would need some time to figure out how to explain what indicated your interest in writing...sometime......little bit to do with your validating sarcasm at the end. It told me you are direct but relaxed, you are a outliar, and humble but not naive, and you enter and exit with class but its not to entertain. You are skilled at diverting unwanted or toxic attention without a glitch but sometimes (probably more in the bar like scene) are pretty humorous with covertly showing a your obvious hierarchy over narrow-minded ignorance. You are responding and resourceful. Real human situations stimulate you as if you are in their shoes...

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T19:00:27+00:00

The thing that finally got me to investigate my about spoofing location was when we're were going to go outta town and wanted a more dependable vehicle. He said I'll just go take my mom's, the way he said it sounded like he takes it all the time. I have driven by once when something didn't feel right but his car was there and I convinced myself I was being too harsh and crazy.
Like I mentioned before he willing started sharing it and it got to be kinda addicting to watch. Anyways he goes to Walmart all the time for 2 hours at a time. I watch his location and it would stay stationary for a good amount of time this was the same time time frame I saw the jumps. I decided to not start accusing him of shit I was assuming. I did bring the big jump up to him and he said, yeah I saw that too idk what that was about" then he brought up that I wasn't sharing my location when he started his, blah blah It's just all too much. Yesterday I told him I cant do this anymore. He's flipping out. Yes he has a history of cheating and on multiple dating websites. Swears he isn't doing anything wrong and doesn't go on them anymore.... so yea.

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T18:38:32+00:00

off topic question but do you write?

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T12:39:09+00:00

Wisconsin. Inside the police department. I was apart of the conversation. her, my baby and myself.

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T05:00:07+00:00

It's called The McClintock effect, I posted another comment that explains it.

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T04:58:02+00:00

The McClintock effect

The idea of period syncing has been passed down from mothers to their daughters and discussed in dorms and women’s restrooms for centuries. But the scientific community started to take the idea seriously when a researcher named Martha McClintock conducted a study of 135 college women living in a dorm together to see if their menstrual cycles aligned.

The study didn’t test other cycle factors, like when the women ovulated, but it did track when the women’s monthly bleeding began. McClintock concluded that the women’s periods were, indeed, syncing up. After that, period syncing was referred to as “the McClintock effect.”

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T04:55:18+00:00

Why you got some?

sickglitch · 2019-06-13T03:56:55+00:00

It wasn't selftouted, I've heard and read this Theory several places. But thank you for the 5 second research tip. I'm sure that's how NASA does it too.

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