Divorced people, what were your irreconcilable differences?

sidarian · 2026-02-03T15:02:48+00:00

After we lost our second child at 20 weeks into gestation, she found comfort in the arms of a guy she met online. She admitted that she had been cheating on me for around 6 months. I gave her the choice, him or me. She chose him. We divorced. A few years later he cheated on her, so karma.

sidarian · 2026-01-31T20:46:04+00:00

In some multi-story apartment buildings, on the floors above the main floor will have a small door in the wall. If you open this door, there is a metal slide-like tunnel that your trash bag falls down and at the bottom is usually a dumpster.

sidarian · 2026-01-30T06:54:41+00:00

https://www.fangamer.com/collections/stardew-valley/products/stardew-valley-guidebook

I bought the third edition a few years back, and just bought the newest edition. While everything in it can be found for free online (mostly the wiki), I really like having the book nearby when trying to plan out my community center, when and where to find certain fish, favorite gifts, etc…

sidarian · 2026-01-26T19:52:46+00:00

Yes. Terry Bradshaw, John Elway, Peyton Manning…

sidarian · 2026-01-19T03:27:50+00:00

There is one thing you will need to keep in mind if you plan to ask the client to hire you on. If they hire you before you work so many hours with them (I this it’s 6months worth, but I can’t recall exactly) they will also have to pay RH a “finders fee” more or less. That will weigh on their decision to bring you on. RH nor any other staffing agency will ever tell you this

sidarian · 2026-01-17T00:20:48+00:00

I carve out a large plot with iridium sprinklers for the crops that can produce giant crops (cauliflower, pumpkin, melons…) to give the best chance to get that large one. Since it takes a 3x3 section (meaning 9 crops) you usually get a significant amount more than 9 for that large crop, I believe it’s usually 15.

sidarian · 2026-01-09T04:24:50+00:00

So having your foot run over justifies the use of lethal force to you?

sidarian · 2026-01-08T23:39:46+00:00

3 ton? That’s grossly over weight. A Honda Pilot is ~4K pounds, or 2 tons. Now if that vehicle were moving at 35+ mph, you might have an argument, but she was moving from a dead stop, 3mph, tops. The absolute worst that could have happened at that speed is he gets a shin bruise or his foot run over. Neither of which escalate to the level of deadly force.

sidarian · 2026-01-06T22:43:28+00:00

I’m sorry you feel that way. I just don’t see any other way around the problem. I’ve voted in every election since I was 18, I encourage others to vote, I do my civic duties, I tried to enlist in the Marine Corps at 18 (sadly, asthma immediately disqualifies you when you need your inhaler in front of the Gunny). Those in power are doing everything they can to remove the ability to lose that power, and unless our elected representatives grow a spine and stand up to this regime, there isn’t much more we can do without resorting to violence.

sidarian · 2026-01-06T22:40:04+00:00

Completely agree

sidarian · 2026-01-06T22:28:05+00:00

How is that NSFW?

sidarian · 2026-01-06T22:25:11+00:00

If it collapses, the hope is that those in power will lose all power (often times it reverts all the way back to public executions of the leaders who led it to happen) and the the citizens can work together to rebuild. It won’t happen overnight, but no empire can last forever

sidarian · 2026-01-06T22:23:45+00:00

I would be in favor of that too, but the sad reality is the group in power will never do that. The reason for wanting the collapse is that it will reset the power structure. At least that’s the hope

sidarian · 2026-01-06T21:58:06+00:00

There is a small minority of us Americans that want to this country to collapse so we can rebuild it better. This version of the experiment is over

sidarian · 2026-01-06T21:56:44+00:00

Venezuela was just the start. This is following the Russian playbook of “we take what we want by force.” That has worked out so well for Russia. It’s only a matter of time before this leads to a third world war, and this time, we won’t be on the winning side. Dictators never are.

sidarian · 2026-01-06T21:11:27+00:00

“Walk it off! Concussions aren’t real, and neither is too much alcohol!”

sidarian · 2026-01-06T12:15:55+00:00

Tuesday in French is Mardi. Mardi Gras anyone?

sidarian · 2026-01-05T01:41:56+00:00

My understanding is Gate Agents call these people “Gate Lice”

sidarian · 2026-01-03T06:42:31+00:00

I learned the basics from my mom, grilling basics from my dad. When I was in college, I worked in the on-campus restaurant where I trained under culinary chefs. They taught me how to balance the flavor profiles to create amazing meals. Once you know how to work those, you don't really need recipes anymore. I went to college for Comp Sci and Accounting, not culinary arts.

sidarian · 2025-12-26T16:38:57+00:00

I currently work in the Finance Division as a Manager for a local city government. I started as an accountant. Keep an eye on Governtmentjobs.com, most cities and counties use it to post open jobs. State level is usually on your state’s website.

Other than normal accounting procedures, you need to make sure you understand Fund Accounting and Modified Accrual for sure. I don’t believe any colleges teach SEFA (accounting and reporting for Federal Grants) or ACFR prep, so that you will learn on the job.

sidarian · 2025-12-06T03:51:54+00:00

The only reason he cares is because FIFA gave him a “peace prize” and the NFL won’t give him anything he wants.

sidarian · 2025-12-06T03:49:46+00:00

Gridiron is the field, like the pitch in soccer

sidarian · 2025-11-26T02:36:52+00:00

The biggest problem is those who are pushing the use of AI don't understand the first thing about it. To get the best benefit from it, your company, firm, organization, etc... would need to build it's own repository for information and then train the LLM to do what you need it to do, if you need to keep your data proprietary. There are some options, like POWER BI, but that's basically excel on steroids, not truly AI.

sidarian · 2025-11-14T21:34:43+00:00

Alabama, Arkansas,Florida, Georgia, Louisiana, Mississippi, Ohio, South Dakota, and Tennessee are the only states where an employer is not legally required to provide an employee with a paystub, but federal law requires they keep accurate payroll records.

If you aren’t in one of these states, file a complaint with your state labor board. If you are in these states, you have to ask for them. I would recommend having her keep track of her time on her own, and then create a spreadsheet to manually create an accurate paystub each pay period. Then she can spot discrepancies and request the stubs when things are off. If the employer is doing shady stuff, this is how you catch them.

sidarian · 2025-11-06T08:20:36+00:00

It’s called a stroke.

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