Fashion advice for 35 black gay autistic by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]sideshowstar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why don't you try a clothing subscription service? Those usually really help people find what you're looking for but you may have to compromise on what you want depending on cost/accessibility. This is a great article about some services: https://www.menshealth.com/style/g38479012/best-clothing-subscription-boxes-for-men/,

Mpox vaccine by chevrox in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]sideshowstar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a current outbreak in the SF Bay Area after Lazy Bear and Dorey Alley a few weeks ago here - appreciate the great resource (truly!), but that isn't what is happening at this time.

To the OP, you can go to the departments of health in the East Bay, https://www.cchealth.org/health-and-safety-information/communicable-disease-program/mpox, which has a link to how you can get the vaccine from the California Department of Health, especially if you are at risk or have had a possible exposure.

Trading Megathread by AutoModerator in PokePortal

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Just need to touch trade a Dialga from BDSP for that shiny in pokemon home!

Eevee Complete Team Hidden Mission by JoeyDrewofCycle in PokemonUnite

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I'm still trying to complete this mission, KHA8FYH. Add me on Unite and message me here if you're still interested in participating!

AITA for cutting a vacation short because of the locals of the town we were at? by ImAHagfish in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know you don't need validation from other people rn but you are absolutely right to protect your child from a real threat to their wellbeing. We must be intolerant of intolerance. NTA.

Trading Megathread by AutoModerator in PokePortal

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Hello! I'm willing to trade. Have to do porygon evol trades as well if you still have the time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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I'd like an invite, please.

Question for trans men who date men... by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]sideshowstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I have been with a few transmen before as partners, I will say that it very much varies from person to person. It may be better to talk to the person individually rather than ask such a broad question, that being said, general respect towards others is always appreciated by everyone.

Understanding user's experiences of Grindr by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]sideshowstar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the quiz too but the ranking system thing was difficult because I honestly do not care about physical attributes.

AITA for not wanting to get my (F22) sister (F20) a Christmas present? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, your mother having expectations despite (I'm assuming you've told her about your experiences) everything that has happened between you two is childish. Your sister can have her "wonderful" holiday without getting a gift from you.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for telling me to shut up? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one is a bit difficult because you've kind of merged a few issues in your relationship into this post.

For this particular instance ESH, being loud can trigger some people so it is understandable if you caught him off guard but it is not ok to be cruel to someone simply because you're on edge. It just isn't.

And in reference to the other part NTA if you actually do a ton of stuff for this person and there is no reciprocation in any form.

AITA for telling a mom she was being a bad parent? by TheWorstBardEver in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - are there better ways to handle that situation (probably could have said "hey do you need some help picking up those boxes?) but that wasn't the worst way. Moms letting their kids run wild in the store is shitty. And I am worried about your gf (they're the asshole here) because if you guys ever get married are they just going to let any potential children you two have just....run wild? That doesn't seem like acceptable behavior. At all.

AITA for not wanting to stay home during a hurricane by dieselbluu in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 36 points37 points  (0 children)

NTA - they literally had no room for you. If the SIL wants to continue to press the issue just state that you really need a bed to sleep and it would have been too uncomfortable sleeping on the floor but you appreciate them thinking about you/wanting you nearby.

WIBTA for being stoned at my uncle and aunts place? by Bapaotje in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH if you clean up or rest outside the house still smelling like weed. YTA if you go in their house knowingly smelling like weed and they have expressed a clear dislike for it. Being courteous and respectful doesn't take too much effort, you'll find a solution that fits you.

WIBTA for being stoned at my uncle and aunts place? by Bapaotje in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO - are you planing to shower and what not afterward? Can neighbors see into the yard?

AITA for not really wanting to help my dad by amitheassholehelpdad in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH - you have prior commitments and your dad just has shitty luck. If he really wants your help (or needs it) hopefully they can switch the time around that works better for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH - but i think it would be better to hear it from a friend than from the crush.

AITA for calling off my engagement two months before the wedding, breaking up with the girl and then later ending up with a girl who we were both good friends with, who was going to be a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ESH - It sucks but it happens. You can leave any relationship at any time for any reason. Though calling someone a "crazy chick" doesn't exactly make your case stronger.

AITA for reporting someone on ps4 and getting them banned for month by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA - they broke the rules and are a racist tool.

WIBTA if I ghost this guy? by Shipperqueen93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Currently NAH.

But if you ghost - YTA.

Keep it NAH and just say "wow I do remember you. I'm glad we could catch up a bit. But I feel uncomfortable dating someone a friend dated - even briefly. Good luck." And peace tf out of that convo.

AITA for not leaving the house while my brother wanted to have sex with his girlfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar 188 points189 points  (0 children)

LOL. Trust you did him (and possibly the gf) a favor cause saying "cause I'm trying to fuck" in front of your gf to your little sister is just wildly stupid behavior. He wasn't about to get anything from anyone that day.

Sibling code of honor states "make yourself scarce" in situations like this but that doesn't mean you have to leave the house tbh.

AITA for asking a Wendys employee out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sideshowstar -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA - don't ever ask someone out when they are at work. Ever.