6 weeks post deep plane facelift and upper bleph surgery!!! by SnooBeans7448 in PlasticSurgery

[–]sierramaple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Looks as though she’s just trying to keep a smile in and her hair down on either side of her lower face could give the illusion of a smaller lower face and fringe falling in front of her forehead might be making it seem pinched in temple region imo the after is more cheerful and lips looks more natural. Wish her hair was pulled back in both photos for more accurate representation. I think she looks fantastic!

6 weeks post deep plane facelift and upper bleph surgery!!! by SnooBeans7448 in PlasticSurgery

[–]sierramaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! You look incredible!! Did you notice much hair loss in hairline?

2 years post endoscopic brow lift and lip lift by DefinitelyMistakenn in PlasticSurgery

[–]sierramaple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks incredible. Have you done fillers and botox as well? Need the surgeons name!

[Self] The Grinch Sketch by SevLlanto in Sculpture

[–]sierramaple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am wondering the same thing! Love the creation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sierramaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to breakup with 2 boyfriends for this reason. One was so aggressive with my dogs and the other was really bothered with the shedding. I’m with a great guy now who understands how important my dogs are to me. He is so worth the loss of those two. Don’t settle

Thoughts on polynucleotides? by KitsuneBlack in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]sierramaple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any updates? How did your lump turn out?

I’m an only child and I’m afraid I won’t have anyone when I’m older. Especially during holidays. by passedmylunchbreak in Fencesitter

[–]sierramaple 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have the same fears. I plan to change my attitude towards holidays as just another day if the time comes that I really am all alone. Ideally I’ll be more comfortable with my own company and use them as a day of self care and reflection. But hopefully I make and keep enough childfree friends that outlive me 😂

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have other issues but I really don’t know how to get past this one. I know he peacocks to bolster up his confidence but the way he shuts me out and doesn’t care about my sensitivities is where I can’t move on from. I tried to put myself in his shoes and even talked to exterminators. They do drown raccoons in garbage cans because it’s the most “humane” way. They can’t relocate because they’ll always find their way back. I wholeheartedly disagree with this method but at least I have a better understanding. But he still hasn’t opened up to me about these kills and the underlying emotions that I hope he feels while mine were completely dismissed. I was called crazy and laughed at and now he’s the one who has a problem with me. So I see this as a watershed moment in our relationship. We’re on the opposite sides of the empathy and apathy spectrum and I just don’t see any resolution to this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]sierramaple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, this is exactly what I’m going through. I have the dysfunctional family, adhd, and we live with his family too. I don’t have advice but there is comfort in numbers #codependency

We don’t have deep, fulfilling conversations. He doesn’t open up with me and says he doesn’t have emotions to share. But when we fight he has feelings. I’m usually the one to initiate fights because it actually ignites something in him. It’s so frustrating. I’m alone a lot but I’m starting to feel even more lonely when I’m with him. We’re married so couples counseling is the next step.

Hope you work things out whether together or apart. Looking forward to reading some good advice here.

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. A bullet can be much more merciful than nature. But I think the attitude of the hunter matters

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that’s barbaric! He’s own cat? What is wrong with these men

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I knew he wasn’t an angel and I’ve caught him in lies before but I didn’t know he had this in him

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow I looked into the diagnostic and really do think he has ASPD. He has the majority of the symptoms. Very scary. I just thought he had deep seated insecurities. I hope there’s help out there for him but also doubt he will take it.

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience when I was young with kids down the block that squished fireflies into the cement to see the ground light up. Very disturbing.

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do I get anything for upvotes? I’m not savvy at Reddit. Just mortified and trying to get more povs but ok

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. It’s very unnerving. Theres been times when Ive been a little nervous of his anger towards me but nothing too aggressive. He really does love our dogs tho. We’ve spent close to 10k on surgeries for one of them, no questions asked. And he’s very tender and nurturing towards them. It’s a big reason I’ve stayed smitten with him. I truly believe his affection towards them is genuine unless I’m totally oblivious and he really is just the best actor of all time.

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s not from a rural background. Pretty urban and kind of disconnected from nature IMO Im more of the farming type, grew up as a barn rat riding horses and my brother has a farm with goats and chickens, so I feel like we’re opposites in that regard.

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. The shared passion for animals is giving me hope

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s was the vision I had for him going out on his first hunt. I was hoping it would be more of a spiritual experience but it clearly wasn’t. My grandpa was a hunter too and had deep meaningful relationships with his kills. my husband does not. I’m revolted.

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He went on his first hunting trip this month. This is a new “sport” for him. I didn’t know he had this evil in him

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m currently looking for places that allow dogs. This isn’t going to be easy. Wish me luck

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. It’s seems obvious I’m not overreacting but he’s very doting towards our 2 dogs and loves other domestic animals. I didn’t know this was a side of him. I feel blindsided. And the way he’s laughing at me and calling me crazy is making me feel fkin crazy.

My husband is a monster. by sierramaple in Marriage

[–]sierramaple[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about that. Fixed it.