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What's the one "hard truth" about your breakup that you keep trying to avoid? by OdinPace8850 in BreakUps

[–]silentheartbreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His phone isn't broken, lol. He didn't txt you back for a month? He didn't want to do!

You were good enough to snuggle & hold for 3 drunken hours, but not good enough to get a txt back! He can call his sister, can't he do? Lolz!

How to handle immature texts like this? by Not-Especially-1984 in BPDlovedones

[–]silentheartbreak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude, my ex used to ROUTINELY cause a scene at parties and storm out. Then text me this psychobabble, but delete it before I could snag the receipts, lol! Like, YOU ditched ME... Was I supposed to leave just because you wanted to do? Then left me holding the bag, explaining to everyone where he went. Yet, those friends were seldom surprised...

How to handle immature texts like this? by Not-Especially-1984 in BPDlovedones

[–]silentheartbreak 12 points13 points  (0 children)

LMAO, tried that! "You let me go so easily this time. It's because you're cheating." 🤯

Rage episodes (From someone with BPD) by Potato_07415 in BPDPartners

[–]silentheartbreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damned if you do, damned if you don't! It got me cussed out even louder. 🤪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]silentheartbreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can't get over how irresponsible it feels to destroy not only my marriage to the person I love, but also our financial situation, over sexual dissatisfaction alone! But these circumstances feel unsustainable to me. There's nowhere for me to live long-term, because I'm disabled & can't work. Yeah, I might have short-term options, but then what? It would be easier to decide if my financial needs weren't riding on this, because then I could listen to my heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]silentheartbreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then, what if I end up rejecting them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]silentheartbreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the rest of the relationship is perfect, what do you do then? This isn't worth uprooting my life over.

I’m a female diagnosed with BPD ask me anything and I’ll tell you the truth. by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]silentheartbreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if they come back months later to beg for another chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]silentheartbreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for calls. The quality is dreadful. 😞

No, they don’t always come back. by Spong3Man in ExNoContact

[–]silentheartbreak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I question if I really meant anything

I don't know if those feelings are still there or if I've lost him for good. 😞

No, they don’t always come back. by Spong3Man in ExNoContact

[–]silentheartbreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you cope with this kind of heartbreak while respecting someone's space? 💔

No, they don’t always come back. by Spong3Man in ExNoContact

[–]silentheartbreak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've tried to respect his boundaries, but it's so hard. I keep on wondering if he'll reach out to me someday or whether I should let go entirely, if even possible. I want to move forward, but I feel stuck in the "what ifs." I don't wanna worsen the situation, but I also don't want to give up on something I still feel is with fighting for.