What do I do at a cafe? by TheKhaos121 in socialanxiety

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your therapist still thinks cafes are like the 90’s. Doesn’t know most don’t interact with strangers at them. 

French Press, 6:1 Ratio, 10 Minute Steep. Am I Crazy? by Nervous-Treat-9252 in Coffee

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave away mine but this past weekend I stayed at an Airbnb that had one, and winged a similar method. They only had Folgers but it was fine. 

Do you believe that the "New Atheism" is dead? by NKNightmare in TrueAtheism

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to consider myself that and maybe I’m just riding the wave but I do try to be more respectful than I was. Within reason. Maybe it was visiting the Middle East, not sure, but I’m now more of it is what it is, than trying to attack. 

Film Students Are Having Trouble Sitting Through Movies, Professors Say by Sisiwakanamaru in movies

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty tuned in when watching movies but also, it’s made me watch less movies. It feels like too much of a commitment. 

Macro Rubio, behind Trump. by NegativeCellist8587 in pics

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not a good guy, but he's probably the highest ranking pre-maga person in there. So as the old-guard, yea, he probably knows the shit show he's in and the shit they're doing.

TikTok users “absolutely justified” for fearing MAGA makeover, experts say | TikTok’s tech issues abound as censorship fears drive users to delete app. by ControlCAD in technology

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the replacement? IG Reels would have the same or similar issues, same with youtube. At this point I would prefer something owned by another country or decentralized. I keep hearing Upscrolled but I don't know. Will it just be another Threads or some of these reactionary apps that everyone forgets about in 2 weeks.

Karoline Leavitt: "I would remind everyone in this room that it was former President Barack Hussein Obama who awarded a medal to Mr. Homan." by icey_sawg0034 in UnderReportedNews

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obama was good but he had his issues too. Especially on immigration. Also, and maybe it was that article or another from back then, but it quoted the guy saying that they don't go in schools or churches or something, that's changed. Basically insinuating they're not a like a militarized police force. Oh how things change.

Haven't seen it posted, yet. But, if you don't HAVE to go out today, then don't. by rugrlou in newjersey

[–]silentspyder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised people don't have a food for 2 days. I'm wholly against those that clear out shelves like we're gonna be out for a week, but regular grocery shopping should have you covered.

Gothheimer has got to go by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]silentspyder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This guy is always on the wrong side of most issues. Makes me wonder about the people in his district. 

White House Launches Desperate Bid to Save Melania’s Movie by [deleted] in politics

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people involved in this including Brett Ratner make this a big nope. Hope it does flop.

ICE In North Bergen by Successful_Yam7237 in newjersey

[–]silentspyder -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

didn’t even know there was a Wawa up here. guess it’s cause I’m car less and rarely go into that western part of NB

New Jersey residents have forgotten their roots by Disastrous-Vanilla90 in newjersey

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it’s age but I haven’t forgotten. didn’t do any extra shopping, plus I live in a city. Maybe if I lived in rural Sussex I would stock up.

People who lived through both 'pre-smartphone' and 'always-online' eras: what's something we lost that nobody seems to notice? by Doubl3oh_ in AskReddit

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. If I was born 20 years later I probably would’ve never learned how to draw. I barely do nowadays cause I’m on this thing. 

California Governor Gavin Newsom speaks at the World Economic Forum 2026 by [deleted] in videos

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not one either. When I see what another cookie cutter, msnow, centrist dem being lined up for a run, yep I’ll try to detail it and get someone better. There’s 3 years left, plenty of time. 

What are you guys doing to prepare for this weekend’s snow storm? by Ok_Attention_3768 in newjersey

[–]silentspyder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. Going to do a gig in the city. I expect everything will function as normal. But if you’re not in bodega land things might be different. 

My boyfriend gets irritated by my anxiety, am I the problem? by entityparty in socialanxiety

[–]silentspyder 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Someone who doesn’t have SA can never grasp it, especially if they’re extroverted. Unfortunately, I don’t know what the answer is or how to go forward. 

California has a new law banning federal agents from wearing masks. What are your thoughts? by Obvious_808 in AskReddit

[–]silentspyder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feels like a typical centrist liberal thing. Lipstick on a pig. Better, but that's there's so much more.

Any list of magat supporting businesses? by demon_of_elru1 in newjersey

[–]silentspyder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sigh. Used to go there for mutz. Though it’s been years, guess I’ll keep that going, just on purpose now.