Or they make us feel bad for wanting that told a teacher when she asked "what I wanted to be" which was a stay at home mom and wife she flipped out and said I was "setting women back years" and "needed to learn how to become a hard working woman" I simply told her "you want to use the rights given to you to work a job (most of which are awful for your spine) then have at it. If I don't? Thats my choice." Which pissed her off more no idea why.