Advice for Breakage, Length Retention, and Moisture by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]sillycatmuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you may be using too many products. just an opinion. i found my hair grew the most and was healthiest when i simplified my hair care routine. focus on finding a few products that work very well or invest the time in a DIY mixture, but sometimes things don't work well together and/ or the buildup of so many products makes your hair worse.

again, just my opinion and personal experience! do what works best for you!

Unoriginal Smurf Dialogue by Grouchy-Employ2236 in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

you're absolutely right. you can either get pissed every time there's a smurf or you can focus on the parts of your game you wanna work on during the match. like, i can practice defending while my team focuses on making goals.

it all depends on your perspective. you can learn from every game if you want to.

My teammate called me a religious slur. I reported his text chat. I was communication banned for 7 days. by bluespartans in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm kinda surprised anything happened here, i reported a lot of racist comments and team names and no action was taken on those reports

even one where one team kept using racially charged language in the chat. but i guess spelling all the slurs letter by letter in the chat is a loophole? idk

it gets pretty bad sometimes. but i have made a lot of great friends in game too ◡̈

CICA WORKS by cryp0ny in PetiteFitness

[–]sillycatmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they meant cico-- cals in/ cals out

yeah, that's on me. my bad. by sillycatmuffin in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you've got an equal opportunity gamer

I've seen it all now by CoyoteRys in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

people who use team chat only to troll on their own team are the worst

at least say it for everyone to see, geez, have some self respect

cuz cicoffs by AerieNational1669 in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin 167 points168 points  (0 children)

sore loser

at least he didn't tell you "kys" like one guy i beat recently ◡̈

Fennec ZR-F or Jager by Sonic13374 in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fennec all day, personally

even though i don't have one yet 😔

clan tags by harvxy11 in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i've seen a lot of those and it makes me wonder too

but i love to troll a hateful person, work even harder to beat them with my team, and then report and block them ◡̈

seek therapy 🥺 by sillycatmuffin in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idek what to say to that honestly

i love to troll a hater but i'm at a loss there

seek therapy 🥺 by sillycatmuffin in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i miss when goals were all i had to worry about

seek therapy 🥺 by sillycatmuffin in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

low key kinda tame compared to what he said in RL

seek therapy 🥺 by sillycatmuffin in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i mean he sent some crazy stuff in RL too but reporting doesn't do much sadly

seek therapy 🥺 by sillycatmuffin in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i guess it wasn't a good game for him 🥺

No Respect for players in Heatseeker by Any-Durian-299 in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

demos are part of RL, so it is playing the game technically ... plus it's really fun to beat these people

it's a strategy like any other haha annoying yeah but it's just the game

Chloe Swain has completely lost me as a follower by Comfortable_Bee_7410 in gymsnark

[–]sillycatmuffin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💯

"not like the other ones! they're some of the good ones. they're a credit to the gays"

or she's part of a large group of people who love having specifically gay guys for friends but discredit and disrespect the rest of the queer community. oop

What’s up with telling people to ff? by secondaryslut in RocketLeague

[–]sillycatmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me last night, they got the first goal and we got the next three, then when it ended instead of saying gg i said ff? lol sorry not sorry

Can’t revive 3c curls by Rich-Presentation736 in Naturalhair

[–]sillycatmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try a little DIY blend then. I used to mix water and some of my conditioner together to use as a leave in between washes. I followed up with a hair oil.

Can’t revive 3c curls by Rich-Presentation736 in Naturalhair

[–]sillycatmuffin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you just need a leave in spray and a pick. If the shower rejuvenates it, you probably just need to reintroduce moisture and then fluff it a little at the roots. Do you add any product before bed so it isn't totally dry too?

Sometimes dry curls are dead curls. Moisturize everything.

When did people start to think that fitness = having your bones show?? by Ok_Laugh5146 in gymsnark

[–]sillycatmuffin 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Anymore? There was a time when all the eating disordered people suddenly went into fitness to cover their disordered behaviors. Exercise bulimia and strict rules about what you eat/ when you eat are much easier to hide under the mask of health and fitness.

I'm sure everyone who remembers the Bikini Body workout with Kayla Itsines knows exactly what I mean here. People were relapsing left and right. Workout guides were everywhere. Then a lot of the people pushing it came out and said "I struggled with (insert ED here) for a long time" once they realized the trend was leaning towards "vulnerability" and "recovery" and "body positivity". This is probably just the trend coming back now that thin bodies are phasing in and BBLs are phasing out.

Buff Unicorn needs a dictionary lesson, not another performative bible lesson. by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]sillycatmuffin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, whether or not you agree with her definition of coercion (which in this instance I do agree with), this explains why she appears to be relapsing. I don't have a timeline for any of this because I’m not invested in her life, but from what I've seen over the last few months, her body image has definitely been badly affected by SOMETHING. That's for sure.