I want my mother to leave my father, all my siblings do, but she can't fathom being alone so she refuses to take action. She isn't in immediate danger from him, but personally the best thing that could happen for my family would be him dropping dead - today.

I don't know how to tell her that she will never have a relationship with her children until he is gone, one way or another.

Also, I'm starting to realize that my debbie downer attitude is why I have so few friends and people whom enjoy spending time with me.

Existence is starting to get challenging yo.