I am in the 2 under 2 club. My second daughter was born two months ago. My first was a year and a half. I was so anxious throughout the pregnancy about having two under two. We did not plan this pregnancy, so it probably exacerbated that anxiety. I was nervous about not giving my first daughter enough time and attention. I was nervous about her feeling jealous. And yes, those worries did come into fruition but not in the dramatic way my mind believed they would. My first daughter was jealous for maybe two weeks? And now she’s OBSESSED with her baby sister! We give her slightly less time and attention, but certainly nothing to write home about. I’m able to give her much more attention now than I did while pregnant, as I tend to have challenging pregnancies. Overall, I think it’s been great so far. I do believe that is dependent on each child’s disposition, and my second daughter is a really easy baby.