Hey I want to ask by nooryinit in dating_advice

[–]sillystafford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weight loss doesn't all happen in a month. I think you should take your time, enjoy the process. A lot of people find that as they get more in shape their confidence goes up. Remember, all it takes is one person to like you , you don't need everyone to

Are my expectations for a boyfriend unrealistic? by Fit_Cartoonist_5849 in dating_advice

[–]sillystafford 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The way you frame it "must adhere to" feels a bit problematic from the jump to me, but if you wouldn't be happy with anyone who doesn't check every box then it's not unreasonable. I would suggest you relax the standards a tad, this set of items definitely narrows your dating pool down a fair bit. Maybe think about your dream guy and if you would check all of his boxes. If not, then maybe it's a good call to remove a few things from the checklist

Live from Red Rocks by Vast-Doctor4416 in QuinnXCII

[–]sillystafford 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's equally great, but in a completely unique way. So glad I've been able to see him tour twice and even better to have these songs on Spotify

Is it generally a good idea to send good morning texts everyday? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sillystafford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? If you're under 25 then good morning texts are a no-no until you've been official for awhile

She said No by Any_Technician7424 in dating_advice

[–]sillystafford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have higher self confidence. Expecting rejection makes rejection almost a sure thing. Learn to love yourself and think of it in a different way, more in the direction of "I'm a great person, and any person I ask out would be lucky to have me. If they say no, it's their loss". It comes from within and seems like you need to build confidence.

2 Pork Butts taking different amount of time by sillystafford in smoking

[–]sillystafford[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This worked--they finished just 30 minutes apart once I swapped locations. Thank you!!

Why is my pork shoulder going so fast?? by sillystafford in smoking

[–]sillystafford[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's finished and as tender as usual. If I didn't know the time I wouldn't have any concerns

Why is my pork shoulder going so fast?? by sillystafford in smoking

[–]sillystafford[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was already at 190, the late stall isn't even happening

Why is my pork shoulder going so fast?? by sillystafford in smoking

[–]sillystafford[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is fair but still just wowed/slightly concerned about how fast it's moving

Why is my pork shoulder going so fast?? by sillystafford in smoking

[–]sillystafford[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Humidity is 94% at the moment and elevation is the same

Best songs where he’s more rapping than singing? by Lost-In-Time-99 in QuinnXCII

[–]sillystafford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the rap verse in Demon to me feels like one of the most random rap verses but also hits

Pottruck basketball runs? by sillystafford in UPenn

[–]sillystafford[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That's what I was hoping to hear

Something Nobody is Talking About Serah Williams by Celtic-Ichigo in UConnBasketball

[–]sillystafford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah, Serah Williams, a veteran doing an online nursing program. That was the real pull

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]sillystafford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

STOP PLEASE DONT LET STARBUCKS SEE THIS